2017 Archive

#172 - KiltGrrl - BootBlack Titleist A peacemaker by nature, Kiltgrrl enjoys the puzzle pieces that are human beings. She is a mediator for the Michigan and Ohio courts as well as a conflict consultant that helps people settle disputes in their everyday lives. She enjoys teaching what she calls "human being skills" and has developed conflict resolution classes tailored to different settings and lifestyles. Kiltgrrl and her partner (Traeonna) bring laughter to the adventure of learning by sharing their life experiences, both the successes and mistakes, and blend their skills and knowledge to present on a variety of topics including communication, energy work, connective practices, alternative relationship styles, and conflict resolution in relationships. As the 2016 Ohio Bootblack titleholder, she is happiest with polish under her nails from working leather and blacking boots. Her love affair with tending leather has kept her love, Traeonna, both looking good and highly amused. My lovely partner is the new 2017 Miss Ohio Leather. I am also carrying the Ohio Bootblack title another year. We’re looking forward to another busy year of adventures and hopefully will get to bump into KinkyCast listeners some time. Kitty is a member of the Bootblack Divas and founder of Toledo Leather Club (a club dedicated to connecting, educating, and supporting the leather community) and runs the TLC Lab that is focused on education of leather care for people of all experience and skill levels. In her spare time, she enjoys cooking, playing with power tools, and making her red head laugh.Link: http://www.Kiltgrrl.comKeywords: kinkycast, bootblack, boot, titles, partner, ohio, kiltgrrl, kilt girl, kitty, titleholder, skills, teaching, conflict, resolution, lifestyles, leather, Traeonna.

#174 - John & Angelique Luna - Podcasters Living a Sex Positive Life On Living a Sex Positive Life, we explore all aspects of human sexuality.We talk about the good and the bad, the health and healing benefits, the adventures, the relationships as well as the crimes and tragedies. Our mission is to educate, entertain and talk about that touchy topic that affects us all, sex. Facebook: Livingasexpositivelife Website: www.livingasexpositivelife.comSpeaker: https://www.spreaker.com/show/living-a-sex-positive-lifeiTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/living-a-sex-positive-life/id1197124228?mt=2 Angelique Luna Angelique Luna is a sex coach, educator, entertainer and sexual abuse advocate. Her mission is making Living A Sex Positive Life a reality for everyone. She is a wife & mother to strong warrior who has overcome the harrowing experience of sex abuse. Angelique Luna is the host of Living A Sex Positive Life podcast with her husband John C Luna where she discusses all aspects and affects of sexual relationships. She is currently enrolled in the inaugural year of Kink Aware Therapist Training Program at the Kink Therapy Certification Institute. Facebook: Angelique LunaTwitter: @MsAngeliqueLunaInstagram: MsAngeliqueLuna John C Luna In his original career, John was an entrepreneur, author, professional educator and software developer. After 10+ years in the lifestyle, he has started a new chapter of his life educating others on alternative relationships and human sexuality. He lectures and coaches on non-monogamy, bisexuality, safe sexual practices, BDSM and other relationship & kink related topics. Alone with his wife, Angelique Luna, he hosts the podcast, Living a Sex Positive Life with a mission to educate, entertain and talk about sex. Facebook: John C LunaTwitter: @JohnCLuna Workshops: How to Navigate Bisexuality, How to Talk to Kids About Sex, Consent = Sexy AF Time, Non-Monogamy isn’t Anti-MonogamyKeywords: kinkycast, luna, john, angelique, sex, positive, Life, sexuality, Podcast, podcaster

#182 - Ponygroom & Ms. Lindsey - Pony Play This week Woody & Krissy chat with Ms Lindsey and Ponygroom on the subject of Pony Play. Ms Lyndsey (aka: Ponygirl lyndsey) ~ ~ A horse woman in her own right ~ as well as a 4-event cross-trained ponygirl specializing in pony-cart dancing, Ms Lyndsey raised, trained, and performed in rodeos and other horse shows with her dancing Arabian Mare, "Buttercup", for many years in the Central Pennsylvania area. She is also a professionally trained musician (Opera Singer & Organist/Pianist). She served as a judge at many bio-horse events back in the 70's. She served as a Judge for Ponies On The Delta ~ II in April of 2017 and will return to serve as a Judge for Ponies On The Delta ~ III in April of 2018. Website: Ponies On The Delta ~ http://poniesonthedelta.com/~ Ms Lyndsey began her lifestyle adventures in the mid 1970's as a House Alpha as well as in a Leather Club located in Southeastern Virginia, where she earned her leathers as a bottom and her vest as a top. Besides Virginia & Florida ~ where she lives with her current partner Ponygroom, Ms Lyndsey has also been an active member of the BDSM community in other places across the US where she has lived including Indiana and Illinois. Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/12909 Ponygirl lyndsey’s Corral : http://plkstables.org/index.php/ponygirl-lyndsey-s-corralTim Ponygroom ~ ~ Since 1997, Ponygroom has been grooming and training human ponies. His inspiration came from having some experience boarding a horse when he was a teenager, combined with an understanding of human pets that began to bloom in 1996. In late 1997, he met a ponygirl. They spent a year in a contract as "pony and Groom".~ Ponygroom’s background in kink goes back to tying himself up at age 13. By 15, he was already competent at self-suspension. At 16 he had a boy friend, but we were careful to keep it on the down low at school. They did some breath play, very sexy, very dangerous. In his twenties he married "vanilla" but she turned out to be "pistachio".~ Ponygroom didn't understand, in his twenties and early thirties, that his masochistic and sadistic tendencies would always be with him, haunt his dreams and turn him on. Soon after he turned forty, he started wrestling with all these thoughts and passions, wondering what would remain and what could be dispatched to silence. He learned that he would always love men, that he loved being intimate with male energy, that if he didn't experience some erotic pain from time to time he would go nuts, and that being in charge (or completely not in charge) in the bedroom was among the very best things in life.~ Since then, he has owned, and been owned. He has been a player, and is now more or less retired from "just playing". Ponygroom was mentored in 1997 and 1998. He learned by going "to the source" whenever possible.~ In 2007, Ponygroom got a pony of his very own, Ponygirl lyndsey. Training her, and playing with her, has made some of the happiest times of his life. It helps a lot that she is the endless masochist to his endless sadist. FetLife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/12558 Ponygroom & Ms Lyndsey ~~ Together, Ponygroom & Ms Lyndsey run their Service House, PLK Stables (http://PLKStables.org/), as “an educational House to: train human ponies (or other human animals or critters); to instruct others in the BDSM arts; and to assist new or continuing members of the BDSM community in knowing how to keep themselves safe in the life-style.”~ Since April of 2007, Ms Lyndsey has been the domestic life partner and the Owned Ponygirl of Tim Ponygroom. Ponygroom and Ms Lyndsey were co-founders along with darkestangel in 2008 of Human Ponies & Pets in Florida, which later changed its name to Florida Pets, and ultimately to Florida Critters (http://plkstables.org/index.php/florida-critters). Florida Critters was a real-time human animal (human ponies, puppies, kittens, or whatever critter you identify as), therian, & furry role-play social group in Florida. Florida Pets was the first human animal role-play group to recognize the equality of all the different human animal roles. Because of this, the name was changed to Florida Critters. Since then, many other groups have started up around the US and the world who include this term as part of their name in conjunction with other animal roles (ie: Pony and Critters, Ponies & Critters, Critters & pets, etc.). In August 2011 the group transitioned to new leadership; soon after that, Lyndsey and Ponygroom left Florida for Nevada where they lived for a year before returning to Florida. The group was in excellent hands. The Phoenix Club in Largo became the group's new home base, since there was such a concentration of members in the Tampa Bay area. On August 13, 2013, the Florida Critters stopped having real-time meetings, but the FetLife group (https://fetlife.com/groups/1699) & the website still remain.~ Ponygroom & Ms Lyndsey have traveled to various ponyplay events as well as BDSM events & conventions across the US. Ponygroom’s writings on ponyplay appeared in several issues of Equus Eroticus magazine. Together, their ideas & writings about ponyplay have appeared in various other publications: · The Human Pony - A handbook for owners, trainers and admirers, Available through Amazon (https://www.amazon.com/Human-Pony-handbook-trainers-admirers/dp/1890159999) and other places; · Fringe Florida: Travels Among Mud Boggers, Furries, Ufologists, Nudists, and Other Lovers of Unconventional Lifestyles, Available at Goodreads (https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17347813-fringe-florida) and Other places;· and others, · as well as on TV and radio. ~ Ponygroom is also the author of What to Expect at a Pony Party (http://plkstables.org/index.php/florida-critters/what-to-expect-at-a-pony-party); Sadistic Reflexology Primer (http://plkstables.org/index.php/home/classes/sr); Safer Shoots (https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/247535); & Sociopaths in the Scene (a pamphlet) (http://sociopathsinthescene.com/pamphlet/).

#183 - Yum Yum Panda on Self Rigging This week, Woody & the Beast chat with Yum Yum Panda. Panda has been in the lifestyle since 2013 when she first found Fetlife and joined her local community in Jacksonville, FL. Since then, Panda has founded and lead multiple groups in the Jacksonville area, including a group dedicated to helping new people in the scene discover and navigate BDSM and the community. Panda has a passion for many different kinks including humiliation/degradation, impact, DD/lg, CBT and strap-on play, but her biggest passion is for rope. Panda discovered her passion for rope when she started self-tying. After falling in love with rope, she asked a fellow female rigger to start mentoring and help her start her rope journey. After a year and a half of self-tying, Panda expanded onto tying others and also being tied. She has had the pleasure of taking many intensives/classes and studying under some incredible rope tops. Panda has taught many classes in the Jacksonville area. Since coming to the PNW, Panda has taught at various groups/events/cons in the area. Panda also coordinates education and events for a Seattle venue, SubSpace, including teaching rope, hosting/teaching a monthly rope lab and leading the Seattle chapter of the Start Here group. She also enjoys performing and performed for MBE Orlando in 2015 and at various group munches/events. With a professional background in education, she has a passion for knowledge that keeps her always learning and wanting to help others learn.Link: https://fetlife.com/users/2078282

#186 - James Ross Rawley & Queen Rani This week we are featuring an interview with a Dynamic Leather Couple who currently call Atlanta home. Krisssy caught up with them at SELF 2017 . Hear what they have to say about their experiences and how they are actively working in the leather scene to share and teach what they have learned over the years. James Ross Rawley ( also known as “your friendly neighborhood Leatherman” is a classically trained lifestyle dominant male Leatherman in the scene since 1977. Trained as a slave and progressing from that to Trainer he is now a Master with slaves and submissives of different sexualities. Master of Rope & Percussion, he is often found at The Atlanta Eagle along with his wife Queen Raini. Queen Raini is a Dominant Leather Woman/Queen with 30 + years of experience in the lifestyle. As current Onyx Pearl Southeast President, she strives to promote diversity amongst kink and leather communities. Her current passions include helping kinksters to add sanity and creativity to any scene, helping cross dressers discover and experience their "Inner Diva", and initiating/mentoring the curious and newbies into the lifestyle, all in a safe and non judgmental way. She also believes there is no "one true way". No matter what steps you took, you are on your Leather Journey. "I'm a giver. I give until someone hurts.” -Queen RainiKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, weatherman james, ross, rawly, queen, rani, atlanta, krissy, rope, percussion, eagle, dominant, pearl, onyx inner diva, journey

#187 - Renegade & Team Fluffy This week the Beast chats with Stormy on Renegade’s Rendezvous and other kinky events. Here is their profile profile…Stormy and his girl, Nichole, live a 24/7 M/s life. They are members of Edgewalkers, which is a group that practices and facilitates body based rituals such as hook pulls, hook suspensions and fire walks. Stormmy is the President of the Edge Riders Evergreen Chapter a BDSM which ismotorcycle riding club based on the principles of a leather family and community service.Together they are devoted to their family, friends and community. They are the producers of Renegades’ Rendezvous, a four- day BDSM/kinky campout. Education is important to them and they teach a wide variety of classes from technical to relationship to spiritual. A full listing of their classes can be found on their FetLife profiles.Known for his edge play, Stormmy can often be found in a dungeon; knife, scalpel or barbwire flogger in hand. His motto is, “I give and give until it hurts.”>>Upcoming Event - Team Fluffy IntensiveDate & Time: Saturday, September 16, 2017 - 10:30 AM – Sunday, September 17, 2017 - 4:00 PM Location: The Enigma Address given the week of event upon confirmation of attendance Cost: See Description, Class prices vary. Dress code: Casual. Description: We are proud to announce that TEAM FLUFFY is coming to visit Fresno!!!!5 classes total!!!>You DON'T want to miss thisSee MissaKay at The-Enigma play parties to prepay for your spot(s)!!!Saturday 09/16/201710:30am-12pmSomebodys Gonna Get Wet – Waterboarding for Fun and Torture - $20Waterboarding is an effective interrogation technique that has been around for hundreds of years. We take this common form of torture and use it as a form of edge play. There will be a short lecture describing the types of waterboarding, risks associated with it and ways that you can help mitigate those risks. Then it will be onto the demo portion. We will provide a demo and then we will open it up to allow people to experience waterboarding from either side.12pm-1:30pmOn-site Pasta Lunch - $10 extra1:30pm-3pmStapling for Decoration and More - $20This class will cover the fun that can be had with staple guns. Medical staples can be used in a variety of ways and we will show you some of our favorites. We will start by discussing the different types of staple guns and where to order them. Proper use and removal will be covered, as well as good areas on the body to start with. Stapling can be used for decoration and we will show you how to make corsets and other designs that could be worn at a party or event. They are also great for bondage and predicament play and we will share some ideas with you. Sensitive areas will be covered including facial and lip stapling and stapling for chastity. There will be live demonstration and opportunity to ask questions and share ideas.3:30pm-5pmHow to Beat a Bitch and not Break Them - $20This is a workshop covering rough body play. We will show you how to utilize your whole body to effectively dominate a partner in and out of the bedroom. Hitting, slapping and punching will be covered as well as kicking and take downs. Safety aspects will be discussed. Special focus will be paid to the sensitive areas including cunt kicking. There will be hands on demonstration as well. Tops and bottoms are welcome to attend.All 3 Saturday classes $50 total (lunch extra)Sunday 09/17/201712:30pm-2pmBeing in Service Everyday - Service Ideas for when your Top is around and when he isn’t - $15Some slaves are lucky enough to live with their Tops while many others are not. This workshop will explore ideas for service whether your Top is around or not. These ideas and strategies will empower slaves by enabling them to feel connected and controlled by their Top at all times. Many slaves crave this connection and will enjoy lessened anxiety and a more fulfilled life in service to their Top.2:30pm-4pmThe Twelve Traditions of Master’s House - $15While profound contentment can be gleaned from the everyday activities of being a Master or slave, it is a fact that we were attracted to this lifestyle for a reason. As a Master, it is of utmost importance that the philosophies and goals that matter most be communicated clearly to his or her slaves in a manner that empowers the slave by clearly defining the framework which they are to serve within. It is so easy to get caught up in the day-to-day functions of a Master/slave relationship while losing sight of the bigger picture – the very reason that these functions were developed in the first place. As a Master, Stormmy has authored “The Twelve Traditions of Master’s House”. These 12 traditions communicate his expectations and philosophy to his slaves. Stormmy will share his process for developing these traditions along with why these traditions were chosen. However, every family is different! Nothing sets up a relationship for success like a strong foundation. Providing your family with these explicit traditions is just one way of preparing that foundation.Both Sunday classes $25 total

#189 - Page Turner Author of “Poly Land"This week the Beast talks with Page Turner about her new book, “Poly Land: My Brutally Honest Adventures in Polyamory”. Moving away from the sugar-coated honor-student answers, Page Turner leaves little to the imagination about opening a marriage, while exploring her bisexuality and self-worth. Travel through a complicated polyamorous web, in which her partners do their best to sabotage each other, break the rules, and eventually commit assault.Update: Page has updated some info on her new book here…It's called A Geek's Guide to Unicorn Ranching: Advice for Couples Looking for Another Partner.Here it is on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077GKK98H Here’s some background:About a year ago, I got a letter from someone asking if I had any advice for couples opening up, which inspired me to write this post: https://poly.land/2016/11/14/unicorn-ranchers-sanct……They wrote back quoting this line from the piece: "f you’re looking for a unicorn, as many are, don’t be the hunting kind. Be the spoiling kind. Be unicorn ranchers."And a single word "How?"They told me they'd read all the basic poly books I'd recommended to them and that they didn't help but that my writing did.And they weren't the only ones! I kept getting letters like that. They were my most frequently asked questions.I started to see that there was a need for a quickstart guide to polyamory. Something that was an entertaining read, full of substantive information but easy to get through. Because a book that doesn't get read helps no one.Something funny, non-judgemental, based in research.This book needed to exist. And I was just the nerd to make it happen.Here are some things the guide covers:• The steps you should take before opening up your relationship to make sure you’re on the same page• How to set a relationship agreement (including examples of actual relationship agreements)• The different kinds of polyamorous relationship structures and systems• Common pitfalls newly poly couples face and how to avoid them• The high-success method for dating poly people• Effective ways to manage jealousy and insecurityLinks: Amazon Print Book Amazon Kindle CreateSpace direct print (use code 6UFT6Q67 for $1 off!)Smash words EPUB (no DRM) Apple iTunes Scribd Barnes and Noble (NOOK) Kobo Ebooks Inktera EbookKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, page, turner, polyland, poly.land, polyamory, book, adventures, bisexuality, self-worth, complicated, sabotage

#194 - Mistress Cyan in Los Angeles Mistress Cyan is most well known as the founder and organizer of the BDSM Conventions DomCon Los Angeles and DomCon New Orleans. She produces The Lair at Adult Entertainment Expo in Las Vegas. She also runs Sanctuary LAX, one of the largest dungeons in Southern California.She was introduced to The Lifestyle in 1989, and through years of commitment to helping others and grow the scene, has since become a well respected leader in the Los Angeles BDSM and leather communities. Early on, Mistress Cyan would organize holiday fundraisers for local charities. She was constantly presenting at classes, and mentoring others. She is still a serious fundraiser for charities inside and out of the leather community.Mistress Cyan is a progressive and innovative thinker. She is not afraid to set new standards, break new ground or accept responsibility. She pushed hard for transgender acceptance in the Los Angeles fetish scene and through DomCon Los Angeles, changed perception of professional Dommes in the leather community. She has served as a member of the Los Angeles Leather Coalition fundraising committee and is on The Los Angeles Leather Pride Committee and the LA Pride/Erotic City Board.She recently married her long time partner, Goddess Genesis, and maintains a close leather family through Sanctuary LAX.Links: SanctuaryLAX.com DomConLA.com DomConNewOrleans.comKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, mistress, cyan, la, domcom, sanctuary, lax, pride, erotic city, transgender

#198 - Dr. Elisabeth Sheff - The Polyamorists Next DoorDr. Elisabeth Sheff is one of a handful of global academic experts on polyamory, and the foremost academic expert on children in polyamorous families. Specializing in diversity and underserved populations, Sheff is an expert witness, relationship consultant, public speaker, and author. Her first book, The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families (2014 hardback and ebook, 2015 paperback and audiobook), details Sheff’s findings from the first 15 years of the Polyamorous Families Study. Stories from the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families (2015), Sheff’s second book, is an edited collection of stories from people in polyamorous families. Sheff’s third book, When Someone you Love is Polyamorous: Understanding Poly People and Relationships, is a brief introduction to polyamory using empirical evidence to start a conversation.With a PhD in Sociology, Sheff is a pioneer of the academic study of polyamory. Sheff has also published over 20 peer reviewed articles and chapters in academic journals and books. Dr. Sheff has taught at the University of Colorado, University of Montana, Georgia State University, Oglethorpe, and Emory University.Dr. Sheff has given scores of radio, podcast, print, and television interviews with sources from The New York Times, ABC News and CNN to The Atlantic, New York and Shape magazines. She has appeared on National Geographic Television’s Taboo and Sunrise, a morning show in Australia. As a blogger for Psychology Today, Sheff makes academic research easily accessible to everyone.Links to Dr. Sheff’s blog https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door Please consider becoming my Patron today at https://www.patreon.com/user?u=3722631 Patrons get exciting gifts monthly for supporting the research, so please check it out. Links to her books and articles are embedded in the text above.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, doctor, elisabeth, sheff, polyamorists, next, door, polycule, polyamorous, poly, relationships, PhD, sociology, academic

#200 - 200th Gala Show with 6 Guests As we cross the threshold of 200 shows, we are humbled by the wonderful guests that have passed by our microphone. This week we visit with six guests that you have heard from the past, to catch up with and hear what’s going on in their minds today. We sample a verity of lifestyles and issues that affect all of us on a daily basis. Listen for the next hour and we check in with our friends to see what’s happening.Links: Midori: KinkyCast #53 www.ForteFemme.com www.fhp-inc.com/classes www.Ranshin.com https://www.patreon.com/PlanetMidoriBaku: KinkyCast #25 & 68 http://FetLife.comBaldwin: KinkyCast #66 http://www.facebook/guy.baldwin.54Faircloth: KinkyCast #95 Link Page…Haberman: KinkyCast #101 NLAI Lifetime Achievement: https://groups.google.com/forum/#!topic/soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm/xl3tK6V8N5E Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Woodhull_Sexual_Freedom_AllianceCanahuati: KinkyCast #127 www.talkandthrive.com Raising Sexually Healthy Children by Lynn Leight Sex Positive Parenting Blog Books for parents: Talk to Me First: Everything You Need to Know to Become Your Kids’ “Go-To” Person about Sex by Deborah Roffman http://sexandsensibility.net/books/ Books for kiddos: It’s Not The Stork by Robie Harris, It’s So Amazing by Robie Harris, It’s Perfectly Normal by Robie HarrisKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, 200, 200th, gala, guests, threshold, midori, john, baku, guy, baldwin, patrick, faircloth, dr., hardy, haberman, eli, canahuati, movers.

#202 - Venus Queen - Looking for a Cuckold RelationshipThis week the Beast joins Venus Queen. Discussing what has drawn her to be a committed Queen of Spades, but more importantly join her for her discussion of her mission to develop a cuckold relationship. What does she expect and what she offers.Here’s advise from Venus Queen: Okay ladies…here it is! A little list for quick ideas on how to cuck your man:Fuck other men (obviously)Variations:1. Make him sit in the corner, stay quiet and jerk off 2. Make him take pictures and videos 3. Make him stay home and watch via Skype or FaceTime4. Make him sit in the corner in chastity 5. Make him stay home and listen on the phone 6. Make him clean up your cream pie7. Make him drop you off and pick you up after8. Make him buy you new lingerie beforehand send him pictures and videos while he’s at work so he knows what he’s missing 9. Make him listen to you talk about the entire experience in detail when you get homesick about black men with huge cocks10. Make him watch you get gang banged11. Make him watch you get gang banged on your wedding night, honeymoon, and every wedding anniversary12. Fuck his friends13. Fuck his brother and his dad14. Fuck his co-workers and his boss15. Fuck your ex-boyfriendsLinks: http://venuscuckoldress.com/the-answer-to-the-question-that-all-cucks-ask-me/https://fetlife.com/users/1458602Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, cuck, cuckold, relationship, venus, queen, goddess, bull, spades, humiliation, chastity

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