#23 - July 5, 2014 - Are You Out? Are you out? What does that mean. This is the “Coming Out” episode. The gay community has been talking about “coming out” of the closet for decades. The Kinky community is now grappling with coming out now. First you need to come out to yourself. “Am I kinky?” If yes, then do I tell my family, friends, and employer? Listen to Woody and the Beast debate on telling our secrets to the people around us and to cyberspace in general.