2020 Archive


#309 - Novablaq - Kinky Rasism

#309 - Novablaq - Kinky RacismFrom Explorations in Being Black and Kinky:I’m Black, male and I’m kinky.Look at that statement, 6 words. Read it again. The words are simple, yet there is a density to that statement that is seldom explored.I’ve spent much of my life disconnected from my Blackness. I’ve been learning, exploring, and coming to self- realizations in the past year and a half that I never knew that I needed. And I’m still on the journey.Some people reading this may have read a post I made nearly a year ago about a poorly named event in my local community. I took a lot of fire for that post, a conglomeration of opinions from friends and associates who were afraid to actually say how they felt about that event’s name. Interestingly, that was before my journey into my Blackness had really begun. I was doing my friends a favor at that time. Why not, I thought. It took me a while to realize something though, the BDSM community is very white. (For more of this writing and part 2, follow the link below.)About our guest:As a Dom I'm caring and strong, I will discipline and teach you what I need from you, and learn what you need from me. My every day personality sometimes doesn't reflect that. I will earn the respect and submission this way. I'm sadistic, I enjoy inflicting pain on those who need it. I take what I do seriously and have been told I'm a very intense person. Despite that, I'm kind hearted, a bit goofy too. I try to be a good partner that that cares for those I choose to have in my life. I love giving impact, and have been told that I'm very good at it from all that I have had the honor of having scenes with. Kink play is not mutually exclusive to sex for me. Nor are things like cuddling which I enjoy immensely.Links: Novablaq fet page: https://fetlife.com/users/7327503 Novablaq’s Writing: https://fetlife.com/users/7327503/posts/5590584Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, Novablaq, Kinky Rasism, Explorations, Black, male,dom, strong, BDSM, community, opinion, white, event, blacknessPreviousNext

#310 - Ray Ray - New Zealand Gang BangsFor the second show of the new year, we reach way down to New Zealand to find Ray Ray, a short time gang bang queen. Why short term? As you listen to this podcast, Ray Ray is on her way back to the USA. Listen as she lays out the ganging scene in a place where most of us know nothing about New Zealand’s brand of kinkyory. Ray Ray says, “I like the gang bang - woman - empowerment angle. I want the KinkyCast listeners to know what I get from the experience, how to deal with distractions - 8 and more, dicks yelling “suck me” and getting yourself off.” Hear about this logistical clusterfuck and how she gets it done. We also included a link for her movie debut with Mike Oscar.Link: https://fetlife.com/users/10320458. & https://www.oscarmike.co/store/raw1Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, gang, bang, New Zealand, New Zeeland, fuck, suck, ray, queen, empowerment, distractions, dicks, mike, Oscar, movie, negotiate

#311 - Master Aaron - A Bit Too FamousWe ran into Master Aaron’s fet page and saw a newspaper clipping, “Club’s bondage show spurs chain reaction”(click here to see the clipping). Ok, you have my interest. What’s going on? It seems Aaron has been staring thing up since 1996 in Southern California and Vaga$. He puts on bondage shows and is very active in the porn business. Master Arron has been doing live bondage & fetish show in the 805 (area code) & Los Angeles and Las Vegas since 1996 and I have been in over 39 Adult videos so he does know his shit about the Adult Industry. A Pro Dom & lifestyler and live of his days training subs/slaves in the art of BDSM & Kink. His dungeon is open for BDSM training sessions. Master Aaron has worked & shot for: B&D Pleasures AKA Bon-Vue Enterprises, Bizarre Video, Skye Blue, Gothic Media, Ronnie Rock Productions, Passive Arts Studio, Fetish 4 Freaks, Off the hook TV, HBO PornCopia, and Bullseye UK. His videos reviews are on AVN.com. Here are some of his releases: “Trespass into Torture”, “Maid for Master”, “Road Rage”, “Punk Rock Pain Sluts”, “The Masterpiece”, “Barnyard Bondage”, “Spank Me Please”, “For the Masters Taking”. “The X Factor”, “Master Aaron Busty Bondage Slaves“Fetlife Link: https://fetlife.com/users/10612592. Newspaper Link: https://fetlife.com/users/10612592/pictures/88159131Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, master, Aaron, porn, producer, performer, AVN, bondage, BDSM, adult, industry, los Angeles, Las Vegas, dungeon

#312 - Lew Rubens - Lew TubeLew says…I'm a bondage loving hetero guy who loves - besides bondage - high heels, ballgags, beautiful women, beautiful people, like-minded people, affection, honesty, having fun, creating/inventing, food, traveling, consensually kidnapping girls, occasional 420, reading, anything outdoors, shooting (both pictures and guns), passionate people, Game of Thrones, cooking (I'm pretty good at it too!), playing pool and ping pong and living life to the fullest....when I feel like it..lol. And not necessarily in that order.Lew’s web pages are listed below and link to the LewBari Store for all your rope needs. Check out the beautiful art of rope on his fet page and Lew Tube channel. Links: LewBari - Lew Tube - LewRubens.com - Lew’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, lew, rubens, lewbari, lewtube, rope, bondage, art, teach, weekends, Carolina, passion, photography

#313 - 6 Year Anniversary Show with NookieNotesAs we celebrate entering our 7th year, we invited two people to join Woody in the celebration. First, you will hear the voice of a cast member that has been with the cast from the first episode. Touchy is our editor. Why edit, you might ask? The cast is made up of non-broadcast-professionals that still care enough to bring you a broadcast quality product. Touchy’s seldom-heard voice talks about some of the challenges of producing a product you can enjoy. Our main guest is an old friend that always has something to say. Nookie of NookieNots joins us for a fun talk about Dating Kinky. DatingKinky.com is built by kinksters for kinksters, poly, queer, trans folk, and anyone not-quite-vanilla—and it’s FREE. We're putting the finishing touches on our first official non-prototype release now, and we're testing with 45,000 kinksters already signed up. Join us for our Grand "Launch Again," and check out our amazing kinky educational library!https://datingkinky.comhttps://fetlife.com/users/50648Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, dating, kinky, beds, top, bottom, switch, nookie, nookienotes, touchy, edit

#314 - The Voice on OwnershipThis week we take our listeners to San Francisco to chat with “The Voice”. A prolific writer on Fetlife and other sites, we found a few subjects of interest. Today’s cast starts with ‘Ownership’, a controversial topic that our guest explains. The Voice is a kinky writer and veteran BDSM educator. He teaches on a wide range of subjects including orgasm response training, D/s protocol, kinky role play, rough body play. He is an active writer on Fetlife and has taught at venues like Dark Odyssey, The Citadel, and Portland’s Close In Munch and is a regular at Kink.com.He is a 17 year 24/7 TPE Dominant who is committed to building intimate protocol based relationship and helping new kinky people learn how to develop their Dominance and submission. The Voice brings both fun and strictness to a well honed D/s practice. He is an enthusiastic trainer of world class sluts and evil sadists!Link: https://fetlife.com/users/2536932Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, training, ownership, D/s, TPE, BDSM, voice, Dominant, submissive, educator, relationship, strictness, sadist

#315 - WyMoBuckaroo - Kinky CowboyOur good friend of the cast, Unicorn Husbandry put me in touch with this week’s guest, for that, I’m eternally grateful. I spoke with WyMoBuckaroo on the phone for, well a couple of hours, because I found him so interesting. I felt he was a cross between Will Rogers and Mark Twain. As our guest aged he was like a magnet for life’s philosophy. He is a prolific writer and just perusing his Fetlife archive will entertain for hours. In his own words, here is what Buckaroo thinks… WoodyIf brains were leather, some folks couldn’t saddle a June bug! Dumber ‘n fried popsicles!Just yer average, curmudgeonly, cowboy. Lover of ropes, spurs, quirts, piggin' strings, hogties, mind fuckery, and general kinky shit. I'm as kinky as a Dollar Store garden hose!I value character above all things. Walking the talk. Keeping my word. Being real. Being true. Being honest in word and deed. Being authentic. Always looking to overcome. Never giving up. Learning humility, transparency, vulnerability.What good is a 10-gallon hat on a 5-gallon head?I don't value folks for what I see, but for who they are, and for who I am together with them. What and who I find beautiful or sexy is a fluid thing, and most certainly not based on gender, identity, or any other thing.Top hands get there by doin' the hard work...from the ground up. Do you want to run the ranch? Learn to shovel the shit first! Lay aside that ego! To quote an old-timey preacher; "it takes more grace than I can tell to play the second fiddle well..."Want to be served? Learn service? Want to Dominate? Practice submitting. Want to lead? Be a good follower.I'm a Cowboy because, well, I am. Some things you just are, and once you are something, well....you are. I am old. I love fucking. I am a Dominant. I am a Buckaroo. I am a cowboy through and through. I’m an old fucking Cowboy Dominant.Link: https://fetlife.com/users/8176099Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, cowboy, old, life, philosopher, real, true, honest, authentic, humility, transparency, vulnerability, service, genuine

#316 - Frolicon April 30 to May 30 2020 - PreShow with Chrissie

#316 - (Rescheduled) Frolicon May 20-23, 2021 - PreShow with ChrissieFrolicon is the unique juxtaposition of the geek and kink worlds celebrated in glorious fashion in the heart of downtown Atlanta. Each Spring we celebrate our unique sense of fun and frivolity with 3000 of our closest friends. What’s your poison? We’ve got it all. Kink. Gaming. Burlesque. Music. Costuming. Parties. Lots and lots of parties.This year Danarama will take the main stageDan has more than two decades of experience a Dominant in the Bondage and S&M lifestyle and 18 years as a professional speaker and teacher on bondage and alternative sexuality skills. In addition to presenting his own diverse range of live workshops at conferences around the world, he is co-founder of the Two Knotty Boys rope bondage instruction duo (see our 12-year video), a co-author of two best-selling rope bondage books and creator/co-creator of numerous free bondage tutorials on video. Danarama was also the full time director and producer of Kink University.com, the educational wing of Kink.com. A frequent instructor for other BDSM educational websites, as well as the rope bondage rigger for numerous fetish productions and photographers Ken Marcus, Eric Kroll, Z. Maitri, Dan has also co-directed and performed as a Dominant for numerous websites such as SexandSubmission.com, TheUpperFloor.com, SocietySM.com, TheTrainingofO.com, SexuallyBroken.com, and DungeonSex.com.At Frolicon we pride ourselves on providing a safe and comfortable place where you can be you. With tracks of programming with focuses on LGBTQIA, erotica and sci-fi/fantasy authors, photography, dance, polyamory, psychology, and so much more we are positive that you’ll find your happy place and maybe discover a few new ones. Every year Frolicon strives to bring our attendees a gorgeous array of fun, sexy, and unique entertainment. Shows and contests. Music and dancing. We’ve got something for everyone.Watch the beautiful ladies (and a few guys too) of burlesque from some of the Southeast’s most talented troupes. Be amazed by the adult hypnosis show, incredible feats of strength and daring at the circus sideshows, and laugh your ass off with some of Atlanta’s most hilarious standup and improv comics. Whatever your entertainment tastes Frolicon brings in the best performance groups around. Feel like winning some big bucks (or maybe watch friends make total fools of themselves)? Frolicon’s got you covered. Costume contests and lip sync battles and pantsless dancing, oh my! And get that tushy ready for the one and only Frolicon’s Most Spankable Ass Competition! There’s nothing else like it. Anywhere.The Music Midway will be welcoming back some of your favorite musical guests to serenade you throughout your weekend.See you in the Spring!Link: https://www.frolicon.com/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, BDSM, Kink, Gaming, Burlesque, Music, Costuming, Parties, parties, Danarama, LGBTQIA, Dominant, Bondage, S&M, lifestyle, burlesque, adult, think, poly, Atlanta, Frolicon, Costume, pantsless, Spankable

#317 - Torch the WitchWhat is a modern-day witch? We found this lovely witch on the west coast of Canada and talked about her bewitching ways…"My witching, my comedy, and speaking, my dancing, my very presence here are basically all about using my voice, which has been suppressed (or attempted anyway) for much of my life. They all eventually tie into each other.” Torch has been a stripper, married an evangelist, performed on the comedy stage and runs a successful business where she gives others a voice. The alluring magic she casts is sexual, in a very teasing way. One can’t look away from this striking 51-year-old spell caster. Again rediscovering herself a couple of years ago, she has embraced kink and what it has to offer her and the people around her. In this show, we play a fun clip from her Fetlife page that is a public service announcement for sluts. She says “I’m into my rediscovering my spiritual life and sex life as well as my dancing.”Link: https://fetlife.com/users/8079687Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, sexy, torch, witch, tease, spell ,cast, alluring, stripper, comedy, speaker, motivator, discovery, Canada, rediscover, spirit, dancing

#318 - Selina Minx - Edging for the Elder StatesmanThis week Woody hops on the rollercoaster named SelinaMinx! Take a half hour wild ride and see where this LA ProDomme can take us. Here is what she has to say…"I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for as long as it's been legal. I definitely feel like I was born kinky. After a long time only able to explore BDSM through literature I finally turned 18 and gained access to the leather scene in Los Angeles. I plunged headlong into the lifestyle in the mid 90s, and had a helluva ride before deciding to ‘go pro' in 2002. Since then I have amassed a few accomplishments: ‘The Wickedest Witch in the West’ - Penthouse Magazine Nov. 2014. Featured on HBO, Penthouse magazine, E! Entertainment television, New Witch Magazine, G4 awards and Reason Magazine. Sex educator for over 17 years, teaching at various colleges and conferences on the subjects of negotiation, human sexuality, evolutionary biology and tantra.”Selina has been a professional Dominatrix for 15 years and 22 years experience in “the BDSM lifestyle.”Witch by blood, and bitch by choice.Links: https://www.selinaminx.com/https://selinaminx.tumblr.com/https://www.minxerotica.com/https://patreon.com/selinaminxhttps://twitch.tv/mistressminxhttps://selinaminx.bdsmlr.com/https://selinaminxsmoking.bdsmlr.com/https://fetlife.com/users/82725?sp=1Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, BDSM, wicked, witch, los, Angeles, lifestyle, pro, professional, penthouse, educator, magazine, hobo, awards, teaching, negotiation, sexuality, tantra, dominatrix

#319 - Desperate Amateurs - Reality PornThis week Woody takes a walk into the amateur porn world. We speak with J. of Desperate Amateurs, a porn site with a difference, reality! J. got tired of watching adult videos that lacked sensuality. He says, “I like to think that I treat the ladies with respect and encourage them to really enjoy themselves. I think all women are beautiful and are very protective of my girls.” This site has been around in one form or another since 2005 and had gone through an array of technology challenges Now high def video rules the internet and Desperate Amateurs has been leading the pack. This subscription site gives you a preview of the ‘girl next door’ and they tell why they want to be on ‘film’.Link: https://www.desperateamateurs.com/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, sex, porn, Desperate, Amateurs, j, site, reality, adult, video, beautiful, girls, technology, internet, subscription, film

Special Edition - Dr. Dan on the Coronavirus

#320 - Amy Taylor - Sex Work in Changing TimesThings get serious as Woody talks to LA’s Amy Taylor. As changing times with the Coronavirus, change the face of sex work from casual dungeon play, to club dancers, and the girl on the corner. Amy is a sex worker, pilot, model, and an overachiever. She has been on the cover of Playboy, FHM and Maxim, inside Sports Illustrated, GQ and Esquire, written for Consumer Health Digest, and is thrilled to get to talk to the KinkyCast family. She loves her friends, her family, and her dog. Check her out at AmyTaylor.com , Instagram @AmyTaylorLA , or Twitter @AmyTaylor1 Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, sex, work, Amy, Taylor, la, changing, corona, virus, coronavirus, escort, model, play, club, pilot, playboy, mhm, maxim, go, esquire, health, friends

#321 - Being Social in a Time of Social DistancingHow’s your social life? Hmmm, me too. After we checked in with our social panel from around the world and got an idea of what they saw out their windows, we asked them about their social life. It seems that many of us have the same problems being shut-ins. If you are in perfect health you have a bit more freedom, if you and your playmate accept the risk. For anyone that is a bit health compromised, its lock ‘em up. How do we cope with boredom and binge-watching? Try to mix it up online, video chat with your squeeze, write a fascinating post on social media or write a love letter. So many possibilities, so much time. We gathered 10 of our friends from around the world to explore the similarities and differences in our lives. We learned just by listening to one another that we are not the only ones that feel this way. Hearing about friends helping strangers gives you the feeling that all will be right in this world, eventually. Being kinky and homebound is not a bad thing. You just need to separate yourself from the kids and get your kink on… all by yourself, or with a close friend that you are sequestered with. Push the limits, after all, you have nothing else to do.This show’s panel: Peter “MksThingHappin” - ChicagoPhoenix Soul - SydneyUniquelyManda - GenevaNookie - RaleighPavlov - PittsburghTorch the Witch - North VancouverMissTress - NashvilleSir Wu - New York CityKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, coronavirus, social, distance, view, worldwide, panel, guests, cope, binge, boredom, kink, video, kids, poly, relationship, friends, strangers, sequestered, mksthingshappin, Peter, phoenix, Manda, nookie, pavlov, unicorn husbandry, kitten, torc, tress, wu

#322 - Rainbow Kitten & Unicorn Husbandry

#322 - Rainbow Kitten & Unicorn HusbandryYou have heard about Rainbow Kitten before. She was the top listened show on the KinkyCast back in early 2019, Episode #260. Then in late 2019, we had Rainbow Kitten’s hubby and philosopher, Unicorn Husbandry, Episode #302. Today we have them together, talking about being slutty, poly and raising a family in the great midwest of the United States. We do a deep dive into the lives of two very busy people with jobs and homeschooling. This show was recorded before the Coronavirus was a pandemic and social distancing was not required, please give it a pass in the different world it was in back then. They were part of our “Being Social in a Time of Social Distancing” panel where we heard from 10 friends around the world. To hear an update on the couple listen to last week’s show #321 and hear what has changed.This page was removed last year do to a community outing. You can find out what happened in the 2020 Year End Show.Rainbow Kitten and Unicorn Husbandry live in Nebraska. Check out their story here.

#323 - European Edition - Being Social in a Time of Social DistancingThe KinkyCast Social Club takes a look around Europe. We have panelists in England, Switzerland, Italy and Hungry. We are learning that people are feeling social shut-in as the norm across the world. What surprised us was the different ways the governments are stepping up, or not to take care of their citizenry. We are seeing civil rights are being trampled in the name of a national emergency. Are we going a bit stir crazy? Shackwacky? We hear from a newbie that was just starting her kinky journey when we all got locked down. Join us for the nest hour and hear a European view on coping in a time of social disruption.Panelists:Co-host - “Manda” - UniquelyManda - Geneva, Switzerland“Ego” - Enter_Alter_Ego - Leads, England (North)“Alice” - ApocalypticAlice - Berkshire, England (South)“Ayzad” - Ayzad - Lombardia, Italy“Daniel” - RisleyAddix - Budapest, HungaryKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, panel, European, Europe, cover, coronavirus, home, social, government, relief, conference, mandatory, ego, Alice, Daniel, ayzad, risky

#324 - Travis Wilson - Long Time EducatorRecorded as the Coronavirus was just getting major coverage in the USA. Our guest, Travis Wilson has seen most all of the kinky lifestyle. Travis had a long professional career as an attorney. Beginning in 1972, Travis has been in the Leather/BDSM lifestyle. He was a founder of the Houston S&M Ball, and was Chairman or Co-Chair of that BDSM/Leather event for the first eight Balls, helping to make it an internationally known and respected Fetish event. Travis has been a presenter at Leather/BDSM events for many years, presenting at such events (many of them multiple times) as Washington D.C.’s Black Rose, Beat me in St. Louis, Oklahoma’s Tribal Fire, Oklahoma’s Leather and Lace, Chicago’s Sinsations in Leather and Kinky Kollege, Texas Leather Pride, the Austin GWNN Bash , the NLA’s Living in Leather, Camp Crucible, Texas Latex Party, Ms.Gulf Coast Leather, Dallas’ Beyond Vanilla, Dressing For Pleasure, two events in Albuquerque. Also presenting at, multiple Madtown Kinkfest events in Madison, Wisconsin, two campout events in Eau Claire, Wisconsin, the Twisted Tryst camping events in Indiana, Michigan, and Wisconsin, 2 of the Spank Camp events in Wisconsin, and many more events. He has also been the sole presenter for weekends of presentations for a number of different BDSM groups around the country, including organizations in Wisconsin, Oklahoma, New Orleans, Illinois, Baton Rouge, Nebraska, Alabama, Washington D.C., South Dakota, and Texas. He has been a facilitator for the Master’s Retreat held in Dallas, Texas. In April of 2004, he was the keynote speaker at the Leather Leadership Conference 8. In 2008, he was the Keynote speakerfor Black Rose. In July of 2009 he presented the keynote address for the GWNN Bash and was, again, one of the keynote speakers for the GWNN Bash in 2013. He also gave the keynote speech for Beyond Vanilla in Dallas in September of 2009. He has served on the Board of Directors of the Leather Leadership Conference. Now Travis, while continuing to give his longstanding classes, focuses a lot on doing joint workshops with his wife/slave, the lovely WolfMoon73. Together they teach blood play/piercing and communication classes. Separately, WolfMoon teaches classes on Bootblacking. When not working or playing with his leather Toys, Travis plays trumpet in Jazz, Rock/Blues/R&B, and church “praise” bands. Hey, a guy has to have some fun once in a while.Links: https://fetlife.com/users/17114Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, travis, wilson, shaman, educator, training, active, Wisconsin, Oklahoma, New Orleans, Illinois, Baton Rouge, Nebraska, Alabama, Washington D.C., South Dakota, Texas, wolfmoon73, play, leather

#325 - USA Edition - KinkyCast Social Club - Being Social in a Time of Social DistancingThis week we moved our focus to what’s happening in the USA. From California, to Texas, to Denver, to Chicago, to Detroit, to Kentucky, and back home to Tennessee, we spoke with ministers on the front lines and those affected by Covid19. Are we stir crazy yet? Some of us are getting a bit shack wacky, while others are working double shifts. Hospitals and going bankrupt, first responders are getting sick and now the administration is opening up the country. Hear some new ideas about what can happen in the economy and how new players to get scans can get their kink on. Poly families are separated and we are not sure when we can play as couples, let alone party in groups, like we used to. Adjusting our expectations to the new normal. Does consent now mean “May I come in the room?” Let alone asking for a hug or more. This episode gets real when we talk to nurses on the front line and watching bodies pile up. There are tearful moments and there are true connections between touch-deprived souls they just need to think beyond their front door. Join us for the next hour to hear how a group we like us can get onto the next level in life.Panelists:SheWouldRather - Chicago - https://fetlife.com/users/10043430SeykouNia - Denver - https://fetlife.com/users/2870523Ms_J - Fresno - https://fetlife.com/users/39643Candycock - Oak Grove, KY - https://fetlife.com/users/1521694Lord_Tamhas - Lubbock - https://fetlife.com/users/5618Scentofawoman - Detroit - https://fetlife.com/users/1483207NurseRatched - NashvilleKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, panel, group, use, discussion, covid19, nurse, hospital, crazy, responder, sick, economy, poly, hug, touch, consent, tearful, connection

#326 - Rachel Kramer Bussel - Best Bondage Erotica of the Year Volume 1(Hear the audio, below the text)Rachel Kramer Bussel, “arguably one of the most influential names in erotica” (Bellesa.com) has edited a new anthology released on March 10, 2020, through Cleis Press: BEST BONDAGE EROTICA OF THE YEAR, VOLUME 1. Rachel holds a BA in women's studies and political science from UC Berkeley and teaches erotica writing workshops around the country. She writes widely about feminism and sex and she has contributed articles to Time, Dame, and many others.Imagine…A cameraman puts a TV anchor on display in a whole new way… Two NASA officials wage an interstellar battle between protocol and desire, and one is taken captive… A gender-bending bounty hunter keeps his bounty hostage for more than just the monetary reward… Two warring neighbors discover that bondage can be a powerful negotiating tool… “Merlin” and the “Lady of the Lake” invoke the magic of the woods to fuel their fiery passions…Best Bondage Erotica of the Year is back with erotica maven and award-winning editor Rachel Kramer Bussel compiling the most scintillating bondage stories into this one amazing collection. With a wide variety of different pairings, genders, and genres, these stories are all united in their deep desire for the mind-bending thrills of this o-so-delectable act. Whether you are exploring your kinky side, are looking for inspiration in the bedroom, or are simply interested in a sexy read, this collection is poised to please and titillate readers of any experience level who are keen to explore the depths of their own passions and penchants for the perverse.Table of ContentsChained—Ria RestrepoImpropriety—Winter BlairOver Under—Kendel DaviProtocol—Angora ShadeBeach Blanket Ballet—Richard BaculaKneel—Kate AllurePretty Tied Up—Zak Jane KeirThe Deepest Part of the Forest—Deborah CastellanoConnection—Lazuli JonesBYOB—Elizabeth ColdwellContrary—Kim KuzuriFreefall—Valerie AlexanderDelicate Matters—Leandra VaneBoundless—Sammy Rei SchwarzStronghold—Leif OftenNecessary Roughness—Rachel Kramer BusselSafe Sex—Violet R. JonesHold On Harder—Dena HankinsThe Student Seat—Sommer MarsdenThe Beguiling of Merlin—Tiffany ReiszThis collection is a compilation of the most scintillating bondage stories. Whether you are exploring your kinky side, looking for inspiration in the bedroom, or are simply interested in a sexy read, this collection is poised to please and titillate readers of any experience level who are keen to explore the depths of their own passions and penchants for the perverse. Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, Rachel, Kramer, Bussel, best, bondage, erotica, volume, 1, Restrepo, Blair, Davi, Shade, Bacula, Allure, Keir, Castellano, Jones, Coldwell, Kuzuri, Alexander, Vane, Schwarz, Often, Jones, Hankins, Marsden, Reisz

#327-#328 - Mental Health Double HeaderHave you ever wondered if you were the only one that ____________? Fill in the blank with your very own personal affliction that falls into the area called mental health. How do I know what would go in the blank? Check out our two shows this week and our guests will guide along a path of help groups and observations of what is going on in the minds of other Kinksters. Some that come to mind are, PTSD, dyslexia, ADHD, anxiety, depression, panic, phobias, OCD, bipolar, dysthymia, eating disorders and many more. Some Kinksters realized some of these disorders after an intense play session. We have seen PTSD after a consent violation. In episode #327 “Silkys_kitten is a 40-something non-binary slave collared to Mama_silky. They find relief in kink from the responsibilities of their vanilla career as a mental health clinician. They became involved in kink a few years ago, in middle age. They’re into impact play, fire cupping, needle play, erotic hypnosis, and enthusiastically discovering more kinks and types of play.”In episode #328 AlphaKat says "More Than Just A Fantasy (MTJAF) is a nationwide movement aimed at raising awareness of mental illnesses and associated stigmas, and eradicating barriers to mental health within the Leather and BDSM Communities. MTJAF provides intensives, community building opportunities, consultations, monthly discussion groups, and resources through trigger sensitive lenses.”Link: http://mtjaf.com/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, PTSD, dyslexia, ADHD, anxiety, depression, panic, phobias, OCD, bipolar, dysthymia, eating disorders, mental, health, mtjaf, leather, BDSM, play, stigma

#329 - Reiver Scott - AuthorThis week we caught a missed connection. What? A month ago, we invited Reiver Scott to join our European social club recording to have a look out the window all around Europe. Reiver is in Scotland and they think very differently than the English. Reiver couldn’t make the show due to a family emergency. All is well now so we visited her to see what's going with this busy author in Scotland. At the beginning of her career, she was a contributor of short stories with a kink, to other anthologies, now she has her first book our with her name on it, Corinthian and Other Stories. The book starts off with six “Shameful Short Stories” that builds up to 16 chapters of “Corinthian”. Join us for a ride to Scottland’s largest city for a visit with Reiver Scott!Links: https://www.amazon.com/Reiver-Scott/e/B06XBD744P/ref=ntt_dp_epwbk_0 https://www.romance.io/authors/58ddfeed0d3299c6e064f205/reiver-scottKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, author, river, Scott, Scotland, corinthian, short stories, Europe, shameful, hotel, wanderlust

#330 - Sybil Holiday & Selina MinxToday we have two red hot sirens. Sybil Holiday and Selina Minx. Thirty years apart and so together. This intimate conversation between professional dominants was magic as they took over the conversation telling stories of the trade. With Sybil’s 50 years in professional BDSM, she has seen it all. She is very close to workers in San Francisco and current on how the kinkster wants BDSM delivered to them today. Selina Minx is an accomplished Pro in the Los Angeles area and trying to deal with a very personal business that has stopped due to the Coronavirus She and Sybil talk about how to make a living in these tumultuous times. Sit back and see how Woody was a voyeur to this conversation.Links: Sybil’s Fet Page Selina’s Fet Page Sybil’s KinkyCast Episode Selina’s KinkyCast EpisodeKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, sybil, holiday, Selina, minx, sex, worker, BDSM, pro, cover, affected, years

#331 - Guy Baldwin - Hardy Haberman - Race Bannon(Show link is at the bottom of the text)Today’s trio has been on the gay leather scene from practically it’s beginning. What was being gay in the sixties like? Guy Baldwin tells it like it was being 18 and kicked out of his home for being a homosexual. Guy tells how the WW2 veteran community took him in and taught him what a new family could be. Hardy Haberman in Dallas tells of bars that would warn gay patrons that the vice squad was about to raid and men had to find a female dance partner or risk going to jail. Race Bannon tells of Chicago and the famous gay bars that formed the basis of gay community. Race is an activist in San Francisco now and advises the city council on gay rights. Join us for a two hour tour of how human rights were violated and gay rights didn’t even exist. Three legends of the gay community in the United States tell it like it was, then and now. These are recordings from years back and some on the past timely events were edited out. The story that is told is so important that no matter if you are gay or straight, it’s worth a listen to see how we should not allow people to take away our rights. Guy Baldwin, M.S. (b. 1946) is a Los Angeles-based psychotherapist, author, activist, and educator specializing in issues of particular relevance to the BDSM and leather communities. He maintains that inclusion of non-injurious elements of sadomasochism (bondage, flagellation, domination, submission and others) in a consenting sexuality does not itself indicate or confirm mental illness or psycho-sexual dysfunction.In 1982 Baldwin created a database of professionals who knew about and were not prejudiced against kink and BDSM. It is now managed by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom as the Kink And Poly Professionals Directory. Baldwin has written three books, as well as numerous articles for such magazines as Drummer, Frontiers, Checkmate, International Leatherman, and The Leather Journal. KinkyCast Episode #66Hardy Haberman (born July 27, 1950) is an American author, filmmaker, educator, designer living in Dallas, Texas. He is a prominent figure in the leather/fetish/BDSM community, and a frequent speaker at leather events and contests. In the mid-1970s, Haberman become involved in LGBT activism as part of the Dallas Gay Political Caucus (later known as the Dallas Gay and Lesbian Alliance), the city's first LGBT advocacy group. In late 1976, he became interested in the leather subculture. In 1980, Haberman co-produced the first Cedar Springs Carnival, held during Gay Pride Week in Dallas. The Carnival coincided with the Dallas Gay Pride Parade, an event organized by a committee of Oak Lawn merchants and the first in Dallas since 1972. In 1984 Haberman joined the board of the Dallas chapter of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). By the late 1990s, Haberman was a well-known educator in leather circles, teaching classes at events such as Texas Leather Pride in Austin, Spring Iniquity in Houston, Southeast Leatherfest in Atlanta, Kinky Kollege in Chicago, Leathermans Discussion Group in San Francisco, and in many other events in the United States and Canada. In 1999, Haberman and Bill Schmeling received the Steve Maidhof Award for National or International Work from the National Leather Association International. In 2007, the NLAI presented Haberman with a Lifetime Achievement Award. He is currently the Chairperson on the Board of Directors of the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance. Haberman writes a column called Flagging Left for Dallas Voice, a Dallas LGBT newspaper. In January 2014, he became a columnist for Leatherati. In addition to his regular columns he has written for many print and online publications. Haberman is an active member of the Cathedral of Hope Church in Dallas, TX, known for having the largest predominately gay and lesbian congregation in the world. In 2017, Haberman joined the Jeffrey Payne 2018 Texas gubernatorial campaign as media director. KinkyCast episode #101Race Bannon has been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker and activist in the LGBT, leather/kink, polyamory and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. He has authored two books, been published extensively, and has spoken to hundreds of audiences. He created the world's largest kink-friendly psychotherapist and medical referral service and led The DSM Project that yielded beneficial changes in the way psychotherapy views BDSM. Race also founded a groundbreaking alternative sexuality publishing company, was an internet radio sex talk show host, received national and local awards, appeared in numerous documentaries, and currently writes for the Bay Area Reporter. His blog is www.bannon.com KinkyCast Episode #244Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, guy, Baldwin, hardy, haberman, race, Bannon, gay, rights, LGBT, activist, legion, icon, wood, beast, leather, author, voice, psychotherapy, councilor, GLAAD, Drummer, NCSF, psychotherapist, sadomasochism

#332 - Uni_Kitty - Sweat the Small StuffSweat the small stuff? We’ve always been told to sweat the big stuff. Any type of interpersonal relationship is more like cracking a safe than blowing up a bridge. The small stuff is the things that bring a smile to your significant other, and give them the feeling that you really care. Our guest this week, like all kittens, Uni_Kitty likes to watch - and she is a keen observer of human interactions — kinky, vanilla, etc — all in an attempt to develop a relationship philosophy that jives harmoniously with human nature. She is a polyamorist and a kinkster who lives, works and plays with her poly group. Her life as a poly and kinky kitten can be ridiculous, and she loves to share stories of her exploits! Her full musings can be found on her Fet account, https://fetlife.com/users/3039760 and at www.ScratchTheKitty.com.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, unikitty, uni_kitty, relationships, small, stuff, sweat, kinky, vanilla, interactions, philosophy, observer, interaction, harmony, poly, writer

#333 - Risley Addix - Hungarian Fetishist

#333 - Risley Addix - Hungarian FetishistThis week's guest, Risley Addix or Daniel as we know him, has been doing classes about fetishes specializing in feet, shoes, boots, armpit and leather; submission and female dominance. He started as a submissive fetishist, but now would consider himself as a fetishist-switch, who can find his completely inner self as a dog or a horse. Interested in personal relationships, and deepening his knowledge about the historical, psychological, evolutionary and anthropological-religious background of fetishes and BDSM. Since he is extremely instinctive and always hunting, I had to change my orientation to Primal predator. The beast needs tamers and he is constantly seeking. About HunCon:Kinks and tales? Are you crazy? We are completely sane. One of the main goals of the fifth edition of the HunCon is to show how deeply kink is integrated in our culture. Think about Little Red Ridinghood (Primal play), Cinderella (shoe and foot fetishism), Aristotle and Phyllis (pony play).Naturally there will be plenty of workshops on interesting kinky topics from CBT to CT, from ropes to flogging... These are not 20th or 21st century "perversions". This is why tales are so important. They are one great source of the old, cultural integration of kink. And we did not talk about the devil, who has a penis at the place of his nose. This is from a Hungarian folk-tale. Welcome to the Fables of Kink.Links: https://fetlife.com/users/3899639 https://hunbdsm-con.eu/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, risky, addax, Daniel, Hungarian, Hungary, fetish, fetishist, HunCon, perversions, kink, BDSM, workshops, switch, feet, boots, armpit, leather, female, dominance, dog, horse, predator, beast

#334 - Mistress M-20 on the 3 EmotionsThis week we take a wild ride on the basic emotions. This week's guest, a life lone educator, with an emphasis on social interaction.As M-20 would say… "I am an Alpha Female. I know what I want, I know what to do and I'm very good at it. Address me with my formal name, Mistress. I am a passionate, loving, caring, and nurturing mistress. During the scene, I am firm and strict. I am interested in local straight men as playmates as well as CD/TV. I would like to have service slaves. I am not looking for a man who wants to learn how to be submissive.One of my fantasies came true. I host 'Gurls Night Out.' It is an inside play party where gurls feminize and are together. It is a safe place to be who you want to be. We have wine and gurl talk.”Link: https://fetlife.com/users/9229987Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, mistress, M-20, emotions, reward, punishment, stress, passionate, loving, caring, nurturin, CD, TV, service

#335 - Dear Woody - Listener eMailHere at the KinkyCast, we get a lot of mail from listeners asking advice about play safety, relationships, and wanting to know more about the guests on the show. This week we ask two of the guests to fill in some details asked by listener mail. We start with Alicia Love - BloodIsLove2Me on Fet. Alicia is quite the exhibitionist and enjoys putting on a show with blood as the feature. We talk about safety and answer some direct questions.In the second half we visit with Nookie of NookieNotes and DatingKinky.com. Listeners wanted to know more about how to dive into the dating world, while looking for a kinky potential date. Many of us have stumbled across an attractive person and when we said we were kinky, the vanilla’s freak out! Nookie a long time friend of the cast gives details on how to get into the community, and find a kinky date in your area. Keep the questions coming! We use your input to find guests for the show to answer your deepest inquiry.KeyWords: podcast, kinkycast, questions, blood, Alicia, love, nookie, notes, darting, kinky, vanilla, listener. Mail, exhibitionist

#336 - A Tangential Journey into a Mind Fuck! Say what? Ok so Woody and Rory get into a conversation and we agreed to talk about the mind fuck. Well, we tried to talk about the mind fuck… and everything else around it. Think about it, is an intense orgasm similar to a drugged mind trip? Sure it is! A full body orgasm is powered be brain drugs we produce naturally. That’s why the experiences are similar. The conversation went off the rails several times as we try to shine a light on the all mighty, mind fuck!Link: https://fetlife.com/users/4832168Keywords: #podcast, #kinkycast, #mind, #fuck, #journey, #brain, #drugs, #tangential, #Rory, #WhyTrustTomHanks, #Author

#337 - Ferrett, on Socializing with Assholes Social media assholes, that is. Have you engaged with your social media ‘friends’ and been push up against a visual fence and have to fight it out? We say opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. How is kinky social different from vanilla social? Ferrett and Woody go down this volatile road to decode what’s going on. Here is the bottom line; the media companies are engaging you to spend time on their sites to drive ad revenue. What is social media ‘political correctness’? Do we care? All these and more in this episode! Ferrett is an author and avid fetlebrity.Fet Link: https://fetlife.com/users/338073 Ferett’s Book Link: https://www.theferrett.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/ferretthimselfKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, social, media, assholes, sites, Fetlife, twitter, facebook, COVID, stress, author, mask, block party, book, political, vanilla, kinky, poly, dating, distancing, youtube, opinion, meter

#338 - AsianHotWife4Fun This just about says it all! Woody had a chance to talk candidly with this Asian Hotwife last week, here is what he learned… Being a Hotwife is a huge turn-on for her husband. He fantasizes about what other guys will do with his wife and wants to hear about the experience AND see pictures! When she comes home from a date, he wants seconds, this keeps this Hotwife busy. She is a lovely, petite Asian woman with an eye for a fun cock. One-on-one, threesoms, gang bangs, they are all on the table. Some times hubby will watch, sometimes he will play, but he always wants to see video of his Hotwife in action. We learned how this dynamic works and how an open, loving, sexually free relationship not only works, it works well. Link: https://fetlife.com/users/11563586Keywords: #podcast #kinkycast #hot #wife #hotwife #asian #husband #fantasy #pictures #video #date #cock #one-on-one #threesome #gangbang #watch #play #open #loving #Dynamic #sexually #free #relationship

#339 - Power Exchange & Spirituality Book Review with Raven Kaldera & Joshua TenpennyThis week Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny return with a reading list for the quiet times we are in. Our two authors have written dozens of books about power dynamics to spirituality. The discussion dives into the 4 books they wrote on having a disability while in a power exchange relationship and how to make it work. This topic is rarely talked about and blows the porn fantasy out of the water, imagine that! Real people, with real problems, who are kinky! Listen in as they offer insights and share their experiences with this important topic as well as talking about keeping it real and maintaining their roles within a power dynamic while living a thoughtful life.More about the authors…Raven Kaldera is a queer FTM transgendered intersexual shaman. He is the author/editor of 41 books, including “Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path”, and “Power Circuits: Polyamory In A Power Dynamic”. He and his slaveboy Joshua have been teaching and presenting workshops regularly for many years to the BDSM, Neo-Pagan, Sex/Spirituality, transgender, and other communities. Raven is the 2014 Northeast Master titleholder, and He lives with his big poly family on a homestead in Massachusetts. ’Tis an ill wind that blows no minds.Joshua Tenpenny has been in service to Raven Kaldera since 2002. He is Raven’s devoted assistant, partner, and slave for life. Josh is also a massage therapist, Shiatsu practitioner, and yoga teacher. The 2014 Northeast Slave titleholder, he and his master Raven Kaldera were chosen as the MAsT 2011 Presenters of the Year, and given the 2018 Jack McGeorge Excellence in Education award. He is the author of “Real Service” and the creator of the Service Notebook. He finds spiritual fulfillment through any kind of worthy service.About the author link: https://ravenkaldera.org/. Book link: https://www.amazon.com/Raven-Kaldera/e/B001IQZ9RE%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share Keywords: #podcast #kinkycast #raven #kaldera #Joshua #tenpenny #power #exchange #spiritual #disability #thoughtful #shaman # dynamics #power, unequal # egalitarian #Poly #trans #presenter

#340 - Bruised Tonsils - The Ever Changing Scene. We first heard from this week's guest back in 2015, episode #61. We thought we’ed get caught up! Bruisedtonsils is a woman of a certain age, submissive babygirl, living 24/7 in the lifestyle for over ten years. She also performs burlesque and drag in the Knoxville community. Her current project is Gabbing Girl Time, a podcast for women juggling vanilla life and kink. The conversation went to everyone's question, “What the hell is going on in the scene?” With play spaces either closed or very limited access, a lot of people are putting their kink on hold. Tune in and see what Bruisedtonsils has to say about this very current subject.Link: https://fetlife.com/users/988165 https://facebook.com/gabbinggirltimeKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, bruisedtoncils, bruised, tonsils, Knoxville, gabbing, girl, time, women, submissive, scene, cover, closed, playspace, community, distancing, contactKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #bruisedtoncils #bruised #tonsils #Knoxville #gabbing #girl #time #women #submissive #scene #cover #closed #playspace #community #distancing #contact

#341 - Linworth - Got Rope?As we sit at home trying to get out kinky-on… What do you do when there is no one to tie you up? We asked our friend, Linworth what she would do. She had a list of possibilities. Linworth is a “rope human” with a very creative eye for finding like-minded people to share experiences. Listed below are a plethora of possibilities to find classes, demo, and social media about rope. This is a great resource for rope newbies to advanced players. Be safe and have fun! (To play this episode, go to the bottom of this page.) Online classes/groupsKarada House QUEERROPE convention https://karada-house.de/events/queerope/Anatomie Studio https://anatomiestudio.com/Austin Rope Slingers (low cost/pay what you can) https://www.austinropeslingers.com/ (you’ll see a class I taught for them in May there, plus they’ll be posting a new class in a couple days)Vox Body Studio (offers some scholarships) https://www.voxbody.com/Self-Tie Tuesday https://fetlife.com/groups/124427?sp=1Mentioned photos*Mentioned solstice-inspired photo https://fetlife.com/users/413374/pictures/97234219*Social distance photo shoot with Shutterboy https://fetlife.com/users/413374/pictures/98689046Website video-based learningOhyesplease.org (general kink, subscription) https://ohyesplease.org/Bones and Rope (Vimeo, no cost) https://vimeo.com/user86799432Crash-restraint.com (tutorials and videos, SAFETY EDUCATION, no cost) https://crash-restraint.com/Shibari Study (subscription with a few free educational videos, more advanced) https://shibaristudy.com/People to look upWhiskyTangoFoxy https://fetlife.com/users/2244876?sp=1Karitia https://www.instagram.com/caritia/Ivy Limieux/Madame Posh https://www.instagram.com/madameposh/InkStainedSkin Ink Stained Skin https://www.instagram.com/inkstained.skin/Linworth’s Fet Link: https://fetlife.com/users/413374Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, linworth, rope, links, education, classes, video, events, human, creative, lock, home, tie, experience, photo, social, distancing, safety, self, tieHashtags: #podcast #kinkycast #linworth #rope #links #education #classes #video #events #human #creative #lock #home #tie #experience #photo #social #distancing #safety #self #tie

#342 - Cum Whore Wife - Being a HotwifeWhat is being a Hotwife all about? It’s a two-parter… Hot and Wife. In this show, we take you off to Texas to talk with a newly formed Hotwife and how she is honing her skills in this time of social distancing. She was brought into the lifestyle via a swinger husband and quickly ‘came’ up to speed. Just when her new found fetish was getting going, we all locked ourselves in our homes. She needed to figure out safe ways to still meet people and play. She says, “We are looking for everything ranging from a bull to a trans woman, to a girlfriend/boyfriend, that loves the cuckold lifestyle and who loves having fun as much as we do.” We spoke on how unreliable guys were to show up and stick to the agreed plan. She records her exploits to share with hubby. Sounds like fun to me!Link: https://fetlife.com/users/11247998Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, hot, wife, hotwife, swinger, partners, Texas, lifestyle, husband, meet, girl, boy, trans, unreliable, guys, share, hubbyKeywords: podcast #kinkycast #hot #wife #hotwife #swinger #partners #Texas #lifestyle #husband #meet #girl #boy #trans #unreliable #guys #share #hubby

#343 - Pet and Purr - A Journey into Body Image This week we visit with Pet and Purr, aka: Pet Cimon, in Calgary Canada. Pet is a remarkable woman that has lived several lifetimes in her short 41 years on this earth. Adopted as an infant, her Mom passing at 8 years old, drugged up Dad, on her own at 13. She was sex trafficked, bought and sold, and the list of unstable youth situations formed this wonderful woman. Pet battled here weight most of her life and was forced to “look good” by her captors. Here diet plan was drugs. Fast forward to a person that cares deeply and is a warrior for social justice. She started a group that is all about supporting and empowering women of all sizes. To build each other up and to support each other on our bad days as well. This group will have daily topics and fun challenges. "Let’s come together and build each other up." Visit here group here… #CURVEYLADIESOFFETLIFE https://fetlife.com/groups/201151Visit Pet’s Fet page here… https://fetlife.com/users/7934240Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, pet, petandpurr, curvy, ladies, curvyladies, sex, trafficking, adopted, drugs, bought, sold, weight, cares, social, supportKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #pet #petandpurr #curvy #ladies #curvyladies #sex #trafficking #adopted #drugs #bought #sold #weight #cares #social #support

#344 - SlaveAra - DIY Play Feeling a little locked in? Doing it for yourself is what this show is all about! Slaveara is a DIY kinkster based in Memphis, TN. She’s been a part of the fet community since the moment she turned 18 and has been an active member of the Memphis kink community for a year and a half. When she’s not devouring kinky literature or spending time at her local dungeon, she’s experimenting with different kinds of play on herself. Her adventures in self-topping have included wax, needles, predicament bondage, clamps, impact play, and more. Join us for a view into doing it for yourself!Link: https://fetlife.com/users/2718919Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, diy, doing, it, for, yourself, kink, BDSM, self, self tie, tie, needles, rope, clamps, predicament, impact, play, waxKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #diy #doing #it #for #yourself #kink #BDSM #self #self tie #tie #needles #rope #clamps #predicament #impact #play #wax

#345 - Gray from Impact in Memphis Impact - what’s that?Impact has been part of the Memphis/Mid-South BDSM community since 1997. It is a 5000-square-foot facility complete with a gigantic main dungeon, three smaller play rooms, a social area separate from the dungeon/play areas, a coat room, a reception area, a small kitchen, and 2 restrooms. St. Andrew's Crosses, whipping posts, spanking benches, beams for suspension bondage play, cages, and a ton of other dungeon furniture are provided. Any cuffs, collars, floggers, paddles, crops, canes, ropes, etc. you will need to bring with you.Link: Impact of Memphis on fet, Impact of Memphis web pageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, impact, gray, community, dungeon, Memphis, space, play, education, online, munch, security, events Keywords: #podcast, #kinkycast, #impact, #gray, #community, #dungeon, #Memphis, #space, #play, #education, #online, #munch, #security, #events

#346 - Master Cecil and Darcy - Event, What Event?Here we are in the autumn of 2020 and kinky event promoters and wondering what’s next. How do you plane an event in a time of uncertainty? Master Cecil and Darcy talk about the steps to move forward into the brave new year. Their annual big event is FIRE - Florida Intense Rope Experience, one of the larger rope events in the US. Planning is underway for the 2021 event. We discuss how to get from ‘point unknown’ to point ‘I hope so’. Dealing with booking hotels with contingency plans and dealing with the potential attendance with an unsure populous. We try to get back to a new normal with our friends and community. We delve into the possibilities of online events in the time when we can’t gather in a physical place. Link: https://fetlife.com/users/4532738?sp=1Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, woodshed, Cecil, Darcy, fire, rope, Florida, events, uncertain, COVID, promoter, plan, hotel, onlineKeywords: podcast #kinkycast, #woodshed, #Cecil, #Darcy, #fire, #rope, #Florida, #events, #uncertain, #COVID, #promoter, #plan, #hotel, #online

#347 - Lord Jericho - Dear SantaJoin the Paddle Priest Lord Jericho, and KinkyCast, as we try to create a few laughs and inspire a bit of early Christmas spirit in the chaos of 2020. Lord Jericho seeks balance in life and to inspire both himself and those around them to become the better versions of themselves each passing day. This week, we seek to balance the darkness dwelling inside your twisted kinky minds. Link: https://fetlife.com/users/6429234Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, lord, Jericho, dear, Santa, Christmas, September, paddle, priest, laugh, spirt, chaos, inspire, darkness, twistedKeywords: podcast #kinkycast #lord #Jericho #dear #Santa #Christmas #September #paddle #priest #laugh #spirt #chaos #inspire #darkness #twisted

#348 - From Book Club to Podcast. Join hosts, M3ssalina and Phoenix for this book club turned podcast. They discuss all books and writings related to kink, BDSM, and fetish culture. They offer monthly readings and special episodes with interesting things in the kink world.Link: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/happy-thank-you-more-pleaseKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, reading, kinky, m3sslina, phoenix, book, club, podcast, readings, online, stitcherKeywords: podcast #kinkycast #reading #kinky #m3sslina #phoenix #book #club #podcast #readings #online #stitcher

#349 - Hi There Catsuit! This week we visit with a great human being with a strange monicker, he goes by “Hi There Catsuit”! We have to know how and why he got that name. He is also associated with our friends at DatingKinky.com, and has a new podcast. His new cast is, What Women* (*and other wonderful Humans) Want podcast is a fun and frank discussion about the way people get to know each other from first impressions to building a relationship, whether that relationship is romance, friendship, play partners, or any other kind of relationship.The show is being presented by DatingKinky, a wonderful site founded by my friend NookieNotes which brings together information, education, and connections for non-traditional relationships. As she says, it’s kinky done differently.The show premieres October 6 on DatingKinky.com and your favorite podcast outlet. Our first guest is Lexi Sylver, followed on October 13 by Christina Carter, Nyssa Nevers and Adara Jordin.Links: twitter.com/hitherecatsuittwitter.com/whatwomenwantp1instagram.com/whatwomenwantpodcastfetlife @WWWPodcast @HiThereCatsuitKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, what, women, want, hi, there, catsuit, dating, kinky, romance, friendship, play partners, relationshipsKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #what #women #want #hi #there #catsuit #dating #kinky #romance #friendship #play #partners #relationships

#350 - Just Rob & Just Karen JustRob (He/Him) and JustKaren (She/Her) are from Jacksonville, FL. They have been together and active in the BDSM and Leather communities since 2008. He identifies as a reaction junkie dominant and She identifies as a voyeuristic bisexual switch. They are Leatherfolk, educators, advocates, community organizers, leaders, and just all-round fun to chat with.Links: https://fetlife.com/users/100197 @JustRob https://fetlife.com/users/102883 @JustKarenKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, leather, just, rob, Karen, Jacksonville, active, bDSM, community, dominant, switch, voyeuristic, bisexual, bi, educator, advocate, organizer, leaderKeywords: podcast, kinkycast #leather #just #rob #Karen. #Jacksonville #active. #BDSM #community #dominant #switch #voyeuristic #bisexual #bi #educator #advocate #organizer #leader

#351 - Stepp - Home Grown Home DungeonStepp's fantasies about BDSM started very early. When he was 6 years old he wanted to tie up the PE teacher. He certainly would have had no idea what to do with her once he had her tied up. As time when on he was tying up the neighbor girls as early as 7 or 8 years old. The bondage-type fantasies continued forward through high school and college where he learned most girls like the little slap and tickle. But a little slap and tickle weren't quite enough to satisfy him. Then the interest in heavier and darker stuff began to take shape. As he watched the BND pleasures videos, the Bruce 7 videos, and the HOM videos, added fuel to the fire. As a young man in college, these desires directly conflicted with all the messages we get societally. It does not matter what side of the coin you are on when you find yourself in that deep, you start asking yourself some questions. At some point, I think most people stop and ask why. Other people dwell on this for years. They may never even get over it. Some harbor guilt and shame. These feelings prevent you from moving on and embracing your full self. Fortunately for Stepp, he didn't have that problem. With a religious upbringing, nothing is too intense for me. But he had a firm belief in God and simply said to himself that God doesn't make mistakes. "I am who I am," and this is who God intended made to be. "I'm not broken," and don't need to be fixed. Stepp has a passion for suffering, his partners have a passion for suffering, also. "It completes us - It makes our lives whole." He admires and respects all of his partners for having the courage and trusting Him to bring them the places we need to go to really feel complete. A trip to the dungeon is an adventure. It's the job of the Dom to control and guide the experience. Having an intense scene with someone who really suffers, it's like sharing something special. It's really that connection in those most intense moments. The real. The raw. The primal. Building a home dungeon offers the ability for concentrated intense play without interruptions. Converting a basement space for playspace is a great way to pass the time of Covid.Link: https://fetlife.com/users/794072Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, BDSM, tie, bondage, home, dungeon, passion, suffering, building, intense

#352 - UtmostRestraint - Home Dungeon @utmostrestraintIn this show, we had the opportunity to speak with Mike of Utmost Restraint. Mike’s imagination takes him to the woodshed to build lots of fun toys for adult play. Here are Mike’s own words on how he feels about BDSM…I love the sight (and the feel!) of bodies molded and shaped by rope. While total immobilization is magnificent, I especially adore ties that leave some freedom of movement - although the more pathetic and ineffectual these remaining movements can be, the better! My happy place is when a body (mine or someone else's) is squirming and writhing, straining against bonds and struggling with exertion in a futile exploration of the constrained movement its present confinement allows.I often think of bondage play as a sort of advanced yoga practice, a rich set of techniques through which to enjoy the complementary pleasures of movement and stillness.I've also had a long standing fascination with electroplay. Lately I'm especially interested in using electrical muscle stimulation of various forms as a supplement to bondage. I’m intrigued by the opportunities it affords for a bottom to surrender ever more control over their own body to a top. Link: https://fetlife.com/users/3288741. and https://utmostrestraint.com/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, utmost, restraint, home, built, dungeon, wood, bondage, BDSM, rope, confinement, head, box, stock, tableKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #utmost #restraint #home #built #dungeon #wood #bondage #BDSM #rope #confinement #head #box #stock #table

#353 - John Baku - Locked Down. Most of us know who John Baku is, but for those who don’t, John is the brain behind FetLife.com. This is John’s fourth appearance on KinkyCast and we haven’t spoken in a while. As with everyone else, 2020 has brought challenges to running any business. Today John speaks about how he spread out his site creators and operators around the world, before the pandemic. We ask how John and his crew are communicating and keeping the site, not only running but thriving! FetLife is approaching 10 million users and is a force in the sexuality websites. Today Woody and John wander over what’s going on in kinkdom and how players are dealing with the inability to personally socialize.About John:“I started working on FetLife in October of 2007 and launched the website on January 3rd, 2008. I have been working my tail off ever since I first envisioned FetLife and want to make sure that FetLife becomes the best community, dare I even say social network, for anyone who is kinky or has a fetish. That includes everyone from those who call the fetish community their home to someone who just had the first wet dream that was caused by them fantasizing about one of the many fetishes that are out there. (Can someone over the age of 18 have a wet dream?”)Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, John, Baku, Fetlife, pandemic, locked, down, million, remote, crew, world, thriving, sexuality, kingdom, community, fetish, 2007, 2008Keywords: podcast #kinkycast #John #Baku #Fetlife #pandemic #locked #down #million #remote #crew #world #thriving #sexuality #kingdom #community #fetish #2007 #2008

#354 - Erato - A Photographers Model This week's guest is a “strong, independent, intelligent woman that enjoys nurturing, exploring, and expanding my submissiveness.” In the last few years, she has embraced the role of photographic model. At 47 years old she is getting a late start in modeling, but she is killing it with creative poses that turn heads that have a sense of humor. Erato says, "One of my new found desires is exhibitionism. I very much enjoy sharing the moments of my journey with you all and appreciate thoughtful and respectful comments. While I may flirt a little from time to time, it’s generally not my thing.”Link: https://fetlife.com/users/7649908Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, photography, photo, model, submissive, strong, intelligent, woman, creative, poses, modeling, humor, exhibitionism, journeyKeywords: podcast #kinkycast #photography #photo #model #submissive #strong #intelligent #woman #creative #poses #modeling #humor #exhibitionism #journey

#355 - Olive Apple - Making It Online This week’s festinating guest is an upcoming social media star! She is a prime example of not letting Covid get you down. Olive Apple lost her job in March, due to closings. When lock-downs happen it’s time to turn on creativity. Armed with an iPhone and watching TikTok for ideas, she started making adult versions on some Tiktok videos she had seen and then turned up the volume! Listen to this entrepreneur turn a lack of work into a full time job with financial reward.Many Links: https://linktr.ee/OliveappleKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, model, social, media, olive, apple, tiktok, glamour, animated, fun, money, covidpodcast #kinkycast #model #social #media #olive #apple #tiktok #glamour #animated #fun #money #covid

#356 - Bee & Physics - On the Road Again & Sex Magick XGoddessSophieX also known as ALittleHunnyBee and her partner Physics are an experienced, polyamorous, and pansexual kink couple who are passionate kink educators and enjoy exploring the overlap between BDSM and spirituality. Between them is an age gap of 20 years, but that hasn't stopped them from wild experiences traveling the country in their kinky school bus throughout this pandemic. The two of them enjoy sharing stories, love, and experience with like minded kinksters and joined KinkyCast to talk about Sex Magick, Chi, Squirting, and their experiences and adventures together. They are starting an intentional kink community together and love connecting with other link minded individuals so feel free to connect with them through any of their links: https://onlyfans.com/xgoddesssophiexhttps://fetlife.com/users/11791158https://fetlife.com/users/8820371?sp=1https://fetlife.com/users/5791047?sp=1Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, bee, physics, xgoddesssophiex, road, bus, church, sex, magick, passionate, kink, educators, BDSM, spiritualityKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #bee #physicsm #xgoddesssophiex #road #bus #church #sex #magick #passionate #kink #educators #BDSM #spirituality

#357 - Dahlia & Rich Styles - Swinger Party On! This week we talk with swingers, Dahlia and Rich. How do you keep a swinger group in Covid times? We learned it’s about community. Here is what these community builders have to say. “We look to bring together sexy like-minded people in a safe and fun atmosphere. We specialize in hosting parties that cater to the adventurous who enjoy erotic experiences and expanding their horizons. (You only live once!)Whether you are a newbie or been enjoying the alternative lifestyle for a long time you are welcome! Meet & greets are hosted before parties so that people can say hi and meet others in a vanilla happy hour setting.Follow us and be the first to know about our next party or event!We are based in Nashville, however we look for different locations to host parties regularly and one might be cumming soon close to you.”Join the party! Stay sexy & kinky friends.Links: https://fetlife.com/KnS_SocialClub?sp=1. Events: https://fetlife.com/events/953392Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, swinger, kink, dahlia, rich, styles, community. Events, covid, fun, meet, alternative, adventurousKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #swinger #kink #dahlia #rich #styles #community #Events #covid #fun #meet #alternative #adventurous

#358 - Pretty Fantastic - Hypnotize You!Hop on for a fun ride on the hypno train! We have all watched a hypnotist do their thing with a willing participant. I have watched group hypnotism at Frolicon and had some of the deepest belly laughs as a dozen people do odd things that seem out of character. This week we bring you Pretty Fantastic, a professional hypnotist that spends his day job helping people with smoking cessation, weight loss, and other vanilla human conditions. In his free time, our guest moves to the darker side and will consensually hypnotize a kinky subject. We have always heard that you won’t do something that you normally would not do in real life, under hypnotism. Find out how this sorts out in this week's episode.Links: https://fetlife.com/users/12068675 https://fetlife.com/users/8037748Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, hypnotism, hypnotist, pretty, fantastic, fantastichypnos, kinky, spell, vanilla, professional, consensually, consentKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #hypnotism #hypnotist #pretty #fantastic #fantastichypnos #kinky #spell #vanilla #professional #consensually #consent

#359 - Dr. Elizabeth ‘Eli’ Sheff - The Bonding Project The Bonding Project seeks to answer a common question: how do we bond? For centuries, the mainstream answer has been simple: We bond in sexually monogamous pairs. Yet we are in a time of incredible change and re-thinking: Relationships, community, race, political norms, civic life, even what it means to be human are all shifting from old norms to new possibilities. In recent years, unconventional relationships have become more mainstream. Long time monogamous partners are discussing “opening” their relationship. Some people are choosing to be “single” forever. Others are creating multi-partner family units. So many possible configurations can make navigating intimate relationships both exciting and confusing. The Bonding Project’s goal is to help people identify their bonding preferences and connect with partners with compatible bonding styles. Too often mainstream societies take a one-size-fits-all approach to relationships, and dating apps generally focus on one’s quantity of digital connections over quality of compatibility between real humans. With decades of combined personal and professional experience to a variety of romantic and sexual bonding styles, our team sees an opportunity to grow our collective capacity for finding and maintaining diverse, healthy relationships. It is our hope that, through the resources and community we share, we can support all of you on your own journeys. About Dr. Eli…Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educationalconsultant. With a PhD in Sociology (University of Colorado, Boulder, 2005) and certification asa Sexuality Educator from the AASECT (the American Association of Sexuality Educators,Counselors, and Therapists, 2012), Dr. Sheff specializes in gender and sexual minority families,consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert onpolyamorous families with children, and her 20+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the onlylongitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Currently lecturing at the University ofTennessee in Chattanooga, Sheff has also taught at the University of Colorado, University ofMontana, Georgia State University, Oglethorpe, Emory, and the University of Zurich. Sheff co-chairs the Consensual NonMonogamies Legal Issues Team for the American Psychological Association, Division 44.Links: https://www.bondingproject.com/ https://elisabethsheff.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-elisabeth-eli-sheff-stefanik-aa413057/https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-doorhttps://twitter.com/DrEliSheffKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Elizabeth. Shelf, Eli, dr, bonding, project, research, survey, monogamous, poly, relationship, partner, family, society Keywords: #podcast #kinkycast #Elizabeth #Shelf #Eli #dr #bonding #project #research #survey #monogamous #poly #relationship #partner #family #society

#360 - Soen - The BDSM Porn Biz Do you remember old school porn? Your parents had 8mm and 16mm movies, then came the Betamax and VHS. All of a sudden porn was in the living room and bedrooms all over the world. Then came the internet and the porn world as we knew it changed. New players large and small became production companies to cash in on the rapidly growing demand for a wider taste of the porn biz. Our guest speaks from the view of a production assistant involved in feeding the content driven BDSM porn websites. Join us for a wild ride through the business of porn.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, porn, kink, BDSM, production, Soen, internet, site, content, Bay Area, Oakland, Los Angeles, ChatsworthKeywords: podcast #kinkycast #porn #kink #BDSM #production #Soen #internet #site #content #Bay Area #Oakland #Los Angeles #Chatsworth

#361 - Susan Wright - NCSF Christmas Show 2020 At this time each year, we invite Susan Wright of NCSF to go over a list of what happened in our alternative sexuality world in 2020. Susan is a long-time friend of the KinkyCast and this year’s list is long! Here is a sample of the list: Covid-19 and the impact on our communities, supporting virtual events, the Black Lives Matter movement, NCSF’s Consent Counts project to decriminalize BDSM, NCSF 2020 Consent Survey research data, Incident Reporting & Response, and the kinds of reports NCSF are getting from our communities, Polyamory Day and Metamour Day, and how to get involved.Link: NCSFreedom.orgKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, NCSF, national, coalition, sexual, freedom, cover, virtual, BLM, consent, decriminalize, incident, community, polyamory, metamourKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #NCSF #national #coalition #sexual #freedom #cover #virtual #BLM #consent #decriminalize #incident #community #polyamory #metamour

#362 - KinkyCast Year-End Discussion Group Another one for the record books. The year 2020 will be remembered for generations to come. As a community we found it hard to get our ‘kink on’, and we were isolated from our friends and family. Poly families were split up and extended families stopped seeing each other for pure safety. How will the affect our psyche? Today we take a look back at the year and real at it’s ability to knock us all down a notch. Today’s show is an hour-long and unlike the normal end of the year show, we couldn’t sit around the table and chat, so we did the next best thing… Zoom it! We were able to bring friends from across the country, to talk about what has happened to them in this crazy year. Included in this show is a revealing look into a poly family being outed by an undisclosed source.Panelists: Woody, Leigh, Nookie, Unicorn Husbandry, Rainbow Kitty7, Nurse Ratched, Touchy, MissTress, Dr. Vanilla, Dr. Brad Sagarin, Just Rob, Just Karen and Hi Catsuit.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, year, end, discussion, group, panel, 2020, 2021, outed, pandemic, locked in, CovidKeywords: podcast #kinkycast #year #end #discussion #group #panel #2020 #2021 #outed #pandemic #locked in #Covid


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