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#351 - Stepp - Home Grown Home Dungeon
Stepp's fantasies about BDSM started very early. When he was 6 years old he wanted to tie up the PE teacher. He certainly would have had no idea what to do with her once he had her tied up. As time when on he was tying up the neighbor girls as early as 7 or 8 years old. The bondage-type fantasies continued forward through high school and college where he learned most girls like the little slap and tickle. But a little slap and tickle weren't quite enough to satisfy him. Then the interest in heavier and darker stuff began to take shape. As he watched the BND pleasures videos, the Bruce 7 videos, and the HOM videos, added fuel to the fire. As a young man in college, these desires directly conflicted with all the messages we get societally. It does not matter what side of the coin you are on when you find yourself in that deep, you start asking yourself some questions. At some point, I think most people stop and ask why. Other people dwell on this for years. They may never even get over it. Some harbor guilt and shame. These feelings prevent you from moving on and embracing your full self. Fortunately for Stepp, he didn't have that problem. With a religious upbringing, nothing is too intense for me. But he had a firm belief in God and simply said to himself that God doesn't make mistakes. "I am who I am," and this is who God intended made to be. "I'm not broken," and don't need to be fixed. Stepp has a passion for suffering, his partners have a passion for suffering, also. "It completes us - It makes our lives whole." He admires and respects all of his partners for having the courage and trusting Him to bring them the places we need to go to really feel complete. A trip to the dungeon is an adventure. It's the job of the Dom to control and guide the experience. Having an intense scene with someone who really suffers, it's like sharing something special. It's really that connection in those most intense moments. The real. The raw. The primal. Building a home dungeon offers the ability for concentrated intense play without interruptions. Converting a basement space for playspace is a great way to pass the time of Covid.
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