2023 Archive


#467 - MarKus - Making A Quality Flogger

#467 - MarKus - Making A Quality FloggerThis week on episode 467, we bring Marcus back to tell us about floggers. A listener wrote in to ask about the differences between cheap and expensive floggers. Marcus goes into detail about how they are made and how to get the most out of a flogger in a scene.Link: House of MarKus Leather WebsiteKeywords:, podcast, kinkycast, leather, Markus, Marcus, Texas, Dallas, make, maker, flogger, quality#podcast #kinkycast #leather #Markus #Marcus #Texas #Dallas #make #maker #flogger #quality

#468 - Maggie LaFae - Kinky American in Holland

#468 - Maggie LaFae - Kinky American in HollandThis week on episode 468, we check in with Maggie La Fae, who is no longer in New York, but has moved overseas to Amsterdam!. How does a kinkster in the scene for 50 years, jump to a new home a thousand miles away, and restart a kink life? Maggie tells us about her journey, finds new friends, deals with Covid restrictions, and learns how immigration works when moving to Europe from the USA.Link: Maggie’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Maggie, lefae, Amsterdam, holland, New York, kinky, 50, years, community, new, restart, foreign, country#podcast #kinkycast #Maggie #lefae #Amsterdam #holland #New York #kinky #50 #years #community #new #restart #foreign #country

#469 - Emi Canahuati - Sex Ed

#469 - Emi Canahuati - Sex EdThis week on episode 469, we invite Emi back to talk about her many sex education discussions. Getting information to younger adults and kids to have a respect and knowledge about their own sexuality and interacting with others. About EmiEmi Canahuati has been a sexuality educator and trainer for over 25 years. She specializes in working with parents around communication and sexuality with their children and teens through her education practice, Talk and Thrive Education, LLC. She is currently teaching human sexuality at Vanderbilt and University of Tennessee - Knoxville.List of ResourcesRecommended Books for Children4-7 y.o.• It’s Not The Stork: A book about Bodies, Birth and Babies• What Makes A Baby: By Corey Silverberg7-10 y.o.• It’s So Amazing!: A Book about Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies and Families by Robie Harris• Sex is a Funny Word by Corey SilverbergFor 10+ y.o.• It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health• What's Happening to My Body? Book for Boys: Revised Edition• What’s Happening to My Body? Book for Girls: Revised Ed.• Girl: Love, Sex, Romance and Being YouBooks for parents• Sex Positive Talks To Have With Kids: Melissa Pintor Carnagey• Talk To Me First: Everything You Need to Know To Become Your Kids’ “Go-To” Person about Sex• From Diapers to Dating: A Parent’s Guide to Raising Sexually Healthy Children From Infancy to Middle Schoolby: Debra Haffner• For Goodness Sex: Changing the Way We Talk To Teens About Sexuality, Values and Health by Al Vernacchio• Sex Smart: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Sexuality and What To Do with ItSexual Abuse and Assault Resources• RAINN - Is the nations largest anti sexual violence organization. They have resources for survivors and their loved ones.• National Center for Sexual Violence Resource Center - Preventing Child Abuse Resources• The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse by Wendy Maltz• SexSmart: How Your Childhood Shaped Your Sexual Life and What To Do With it - by Aline Zolbrod, Ph.D.Books for Teens and Young Adults• S.E.X. The All You Need To Know Sexuality Guide To Get You Through Your Teens and Twenties by: Heather CorinnaWebsites • Amaze - info and videos for parents and kids.• Scarleteen - comprehensive answers to questions about sexuality to older teens and young adults• Go Ask Alice - database of answers to common questions about sex and sexuality• Sex Etc. - Sex education for teens by teensCreated by Talk and Thrive Education, LLC :: 7 Essential Tools for Raising Sexually Healthy Children© Copyright 2023 www.talkandthrive.comKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Emi, Canahuati, sex, education, sexed, resources, book, children, kids, age, sexuality, abuse#podcast #kinkycast #Emi #Canahuati #sex #education #sexed #resources #book #children #kids #age #sexuality #abuse

#470 - FKA_Terry-Race_Play

#470 - FKA Terry - Race Play?This week on the Kinkycast, episode 470, we have a special guest, Terry from Chicago. Terry has been a traveling kinkster for decades and has a wealth of experience and knowledge to share. He has a unique talent for meeting new friends and connecting with people in the kink community. Terry is a black man who strongly disapproves of the practice of "race play" in sexual activity. He believes it is demeaning and goes against self-respect. Terry has had negative experiences with people who engage in race play, including instances of consent violations and even being drugged. Link: Terry’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, fka, Terry, race, play, black, swinger, kinkster, traveler, club, disapproves, experience, sex, respect #podcast #kinkycast #fka #Terry #race #play #black #swinger #kinkster #traveler #club #disapproves #experience #sex #respect

#471 - Susan Wright - NCSF - Consent Counts - KinkyCast 9th Anbniversary

#471 - Susan Wright - NCSF - Consent Counts - KinkyCast 9th AnniversaryThis week on KinkyCast, episode 471, celebrating the 9th anniversary of the show, we feature Susan Wright of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF). Woody and Susan discuss NCSF's program "Consent Counts", which aims to raise awareness about the importance of informed and enthusiastic consent in all sexual activities. The program focuses on educating individuals, communities, and organizations about the principles of consent and how to practice it in a respectful and responsible manner. Susan provides insight into the goals and initiatives of the NCSF and how “Consent Counts” fits into the larger mission of promoting sexual freedom and protecting the rights of consenting adults.Link: NCSF SiteKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Susan, wright, ncsf, ncsfreedom.com, got, consent, 9th, anniversary, counts, awareness, importance, informed, enthusiastic #podcast #kinkycast #Susan #wright #ncsf #ncsfreedom.com #got #consent #9th #anniversary #counts #awareness #importance #informed #enthusiastic

#472 - Kieran Hound - The Psycology of Pup and Critter Play

#472 - Kieran Hound - The Psychology of Pup and Critter Play This week on episode 472, We meet Kieran Hound! Kieran, a Pup title holder, speaks about the phycology of pet and critter play and the human escape it allows. Woody hears a fully different approach to pup play that he and many other observers have missed in the freeing world of play.Links:http://www.instagram.com/kieranhoundhttps://www.tiktok.com/@kieranhoundlahttp://www.twitter.com/kieranhoundhttps://linktr.ee/kieranhoundReferences made: https://www.facebook.com/LAPupPridehttp://www.socalcreatures.comhttp://www.internationalpuppycontest.com/Tom Lehrer’s MasochismKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Kieran, hound, pup, play, psychology, critter, title holder, Los Angeles#podcast #kinkycast #Kieran #hound #pup #play #psychology #critter #title holder #Los Angeles

#473 - tOuch Kink - The Movie

#473 - tOuch Kink - The MovieThis week on Episode 743 we bring Max Carey to the mic. Max is the producer of a new film called, “tOuch Kink". For the 50 Shades crowd, it's a first look into the new world of kink and play. Filmed in 4 countries, Max brings a story of a person in an environment of strong men looking to submit to a strong woman. This and other stories are intertwined to tell the story of tOuch Kink.Link: https://www.touchbdsm.com/ Preview https://hgagnondistribution.com/en/titles/new-releases/touch-kinkKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, touch, film, movie, max, carey, Dom, Dominatrix, pro, beginner#podcast #kinkycast #kink #touch #film #movie #max #carey #Dom #Dominatrix #pro #beginner

#474 - Frolicon - Froli Wars May May 4-7, 2023

#474 - Frolicon - Froli Wars May May 4-7, 2023This week on episode 474, we chat with Pam from Frolicon. Frolicon is an annual adult-themed convention held in Atlanta, Georgia. It is a celebration of all things nerdy, geeky, from comics and gaming to anime and cosplay, and then kinky, from BDSM to relationships.The event features a variety of activities, including panels, workshops, parties, and dungeon play! It is a great opportunity to meet like-minded people and explore new interests.There will also be a variety of vendors selling fun merchandise. The event is usually held in May, and this year it will take place from May 14th to May 17th.Link: Frolicon.comKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Frolicon, pam, froli, froliwars, wars, play, con, education, workshop, party, gaming, think, kink, 2023, may#podcast #kinkycast #Frolicon #pam #froli #froliwars #wars #play #con #education #workshop #party #gaming #think #kink #2023 #may

#475 - Sarcastic Sadist & Princess Fuck Toy - Together!

#475 - Sarcastic Sadist & Princess Fuck Toy - Together!This week on episode 475, we talk about long distance relationships. We bring back the Sarcastic Sadist and Princess Fuck Toy, to talk about their, now in-person visit.Maintaining a long-distance relationship can be challenging, as it requires a lot of effort, trust, and communication from both parties involved. It's important to establish a strong foundation of trust and open communication, as well as finding ways to stay connected despite the physical distance between you.There are many ways to keep the spark alive in a long-distance relationship. One way is to schedule regular video chats or phone calls, and to make an effort to share your daily experiences with each other. You can also plan virtual date nights or surprise each other with thoughtful gestures, like sending care packages or handwritten letters.It's important to set realistic expectations and goals for your relationship, and to work together to overcome any challenges that arise. It's also crucial to have a plan for when you'll eventually be able to be together in person, as having a shared goal can help to keep you motivated and focused on the future.Ultimately, maintaining a long-distance relationship requires a lot of commitment and dedication, but with the right attitude and approach, it can be a rewarding and fulfilling experience.Links: Sadistic Sadist’s Fet Page Princess Fuck Toy’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, long, distance, relationship, relationships, sarcastic, sadist, process, fuck, toy, travel, California, Montana#podcast #kinkycast #long #distance #relationship #relationships #sarcastic #sadist #process #fuck #toy #travel #California #Montana

#476 - Technology & Sex - A Brief History

#476 - Technology & Sex - A Brief History Today on episode 476, we bring an article to light on, How the Adult Industry has Shaped Technology. This is from an article published on Medium.com, written by Stroken token. Many people discount the porn industry as irrelevant, but there have been so many societal contributions in the form of technology, that we really need to recognize.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, porn, tech, technology, adult, strokes, token, medium, societal, advancement#podcast #kinkycast #porn #tech #technology #adult #strokes #token #medium #societal #advancement

#477 - Mr. Justin - The Dominance Academy

#477 - Mr. Justin - The Dominance AcademyThis week on episode 477 of the KinkyCast, we bring Mr. Justin to the mic. He is a trainer of dominant straight men. Justin and his Dominant academy help men find their way in dominance. Justin offers good reasons why he doesn't teach women or gay men. Listen to what he has to say for some enlightening insight to the Dominant male of the species.Dominance should not be taught as a means of superiority over others, but rather as a consensual and respectful practice in the context of BDSM and kink. It is important to promote education and consent culture within the kink community.Mail Link: thedominanceacademy@gmail.com#podcast #kinkycast #dominance #academy #Justin #New York #training #male #straight #treating #respect #goal

#478 - Darren Campbell - Sex Educator

#478 - Darren Campbell - Sex EducatorDarren Campbell is a sex educator and coach who creates online content and events on topics such as queerness, kink, non-monogamy, and gender exploration. He has a newsletter called Learn, Grow, Repeat where he shares his insights and experiences on sexuality and relationships. He also has a Patreon page where he offers exclusive access to his educational materials and coaching sessions. He is active on Twitter as @DarrenLearn where he posts updates and resources for his followers.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, Darren, Campbell, sex, educator, sexuality, coach, relationship, non-monogamyKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Darren, Campbell, sex, educator, sexuality, coach, relationship, non-monogamy

#479 - Blackbeard Endeavors

#479 - Blackbeard EndeavorsBlackbeard and Kitten Lilith are at it again. This summer they are offering two unique festivals: The Awakening, a kinky Ren Faire and The Freak Show, a Kinky Circus. These events are breaking the mold on your typical kinky campout. They are 4 days of Skill Shares, Field Games, Side Shows, and Live Music. Offering something for the novice to the expert.Link: https://www.blackbeardprovisions.com/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, black, Blackbeard, beard, endeavors, provisions, camp, camping, renfair, kinky, circus, live#podcast #kinkycast #black #Blackbeard #beard #endeavors #provisions #camp #camping #renfair #kinky #circus #live

#480 - Cream Cake - Gen Z Sexuality

#480 - Cream Cake - Gen Z SexualityThis week on episode 480, on Gen Z Sexuality, our guest Cream Cake claimed to be a radical anti-fascist, leftist, trans inclusive, feminist crybaby who likes to work on art projects and study the outdoors. “Cream's” personality type is “masculine” and weird + shy. Cream might let you worship their feet, sniff armpits, or spit in your mouth if you ask nicely.Link: Cream Cake’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, cream, cake, gen z, sexuality, queer, 480, masculine, female, abuse, violence, consent, viewpoint#podcast #kinkycast #cream #cake #gen z #sexuality #queer #480 #masculine #female #abuse #violence #consent #viewpoint

#481 - Time Machine - Dr. Gloria Brame

#481 - KC Time Machine - Dr. Gloria Brame - from Episode 17 in 2014In 1993 Dr. Gloria Brame wrote the defining book of BDSM called “Different Loving”. We wind the time machine way back to 2014 when Gloria recorded this episode with Woody, the Beast and Kate Kinsey. Gloria’s book, Different Loving is a perennial best-seller and has become legendary for its ground-breaking exploration of the worlds of BDSM/Fetish/Leather and Kink. Hailed as “the Bible” of BDSM and game-changer in the world of sexology for its frank, deeply researched approach to alternative sexuality and its affirmation of BDSM as a normal expression of human sexuality.Links: Gloria’s web page Link to Gloria’s 2nd recording (131) on Different Loving TooLink to Gloria’s 3rd recording (402) Trail Blazing Sexuality Author (includes all her book links)Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, dr, gloria, brame, sex, therapist, author, pioneer, BDSM, different, loving, time, machine, Kate#podcast #kinkycast #dr #gloria #brame #sex #therapist #author #pioneer #BDSM #different #loving #time #machine #Kate

#482 - The Band Famous - Making A Living

#482 - The Band Famous - Making A LivingThis week on KinkyCast episode 482, we bring you the Band Famous from Arizona. Zander and Norell are the band and creatives in music, art and porn. They are the proprietors of KamaSutraCandy.com, for their erotic endeavors. Join us with this creative crew for a wild ride into the art world.Link: The_Band_Famous Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, band, famous, norell, Zander, porn, creative, animal, rescue, Arizona#podcast #kinkycast #band #famous #norell #Zander #porn #creative #animal #rescue #Arizona

#483 - Gloria Brame Tells All

#483 - Gloria Brame Tells AllThis week on episode 483, of the KinkyCast, we bring Gloria Brame back to the show. Join us for an hour long deep conversation with this sexuality icon. Dr. Gloria Brame is a famous American author, sex therapist, and sex researcher. She is known for her groundbreaking work on BDSM and fetishism, as well as her advocacy for consensual sexual practices of all kinds. She has authored many books on sexuality, including "Different Loving" and "Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex". Dr. Brame has also appeared on numerous television and radio shows, such as “ he Montel Williams Show" and "The Howard Stern Show", to discuss her work on sexuality.Link: Gloria’s WebsiteKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, gloria, brame, dr, Phd, sex, BDSM, therapist, fetishism, different, loving, come, hither, kinky, kink, sexual, sexuality#podcast #kinkycast #gloria # brame #dr #Phd #sex #BDSM #therapist #fetishism #different #loving #come #hither #kinky #kink #sexual #sexuality

#484 - Creating Mind-Blowing ScenesToday on KinkyCast episode 484, we return to Frolicon for a recorded, interactive class on Crafting Mind-Blowing Scenes. This was the first class on the Friday morning kickoff of Frolicon. Have you ever planned a scene and had it come up short? Here are some tips to create a mind-blowing scene. Your presenter is Josh, a man of many talents who has taught a number of classes at Frolicon and other events in the South-East. This year was the first time Frolicon sold out with 2,200 attendees. In the hotel where the event is held, there are divided conference rooms. They are not known for there soundproofing. Next door was a masterbation class, You can guess what happens.Links: Josh’s Fet Page Frolicon Web PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Frolicon, 2023, classes, creating, mind, blowing, scenes, josh, d0minant, kinkster, types, emotion, fantasy#podcast #kinkycast #Frolicon #2023 #classes #creating #mind #blowing #scenes #josh #d0minant #kinkster #types #emotion #fantasy

#485 - Being Black & Polyamorous - Recorded at Frolicon 2023This week on KinkyCast episode 485, we take you back to Frolicon. Miss Amethyst hosts a discussion about being black and poly. This is a lively group with a lot to say about our modern times being black and poly. Join us for the second year as we continue discussions on the joys and challenges of being black and polyamorous. Being black and polyamorous has a different set of challenges that are not found in other communities. Here we discuss all, no topic is off limits.Link: Amethyst’s Fet Page (Nicki-Sedique)Podcast, kinkycast, Frolicon, class, education, Black, Poly, Polyamory, Nicki ,Sedique, challenges, community#Podcast #kinkycast #Frolicon #class #education #Black #Poly #Polyamory #Nicki #Sedique #challenges #community

#486 - Hard Dicks Prostates and You - Recorded at Frolicon 2023

#486 - Hard Dicks Prostates and You - Recorded at Frolicon 2023This week on KinkyCast episode 486, we take you back to Frolicon, and a great class for Prostate owners and enthusiasts. In this class we'll be touching on prostate, expanding your pump knowledge, and squeezing as much information about keguls into you as possible. Whether you want to increase locker room length, help with a pre-existing issue, or just wanting a harder/stronger performance,- this class is for you, so let's get the blood flowing! - Whether this is your first time checking out our class or are a returning friend, we have new things to share and a whole lot more to say about walnutting! This class is brought to you by Starship!Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, Frolicon, hard, dicks, prostates, you, starship, sex, 486#podcast #kinkycast #Frolicon #hard #dicks #prostates #you #starship #sex #486

#487 - Life & Love in Time & Space

#487 - Life & Love in Time & SpaceThis week on episode 487 of the KinkyCast, we return to Frolicon to listen to a class called, Life & Love in Time and Space. If you have ever tried to juggle work, family, and even a single partner, you know the difficulties of managing relationships on top of ‘real-life stuff’. We will discuss relationship strategies, including time-management techniques, long-distance, or even across-the-city, communication ideas, and relationship rituals to help you, and your partners, keep your sanity and your love. Our presenter is Noel and she is an expert in keeping a poly life up and running. There are great tips for everyone, so sit back and enjoy, Life & love in time and space.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, Frolicon, class, life, love, time, space, poly, lifestyle, noel, shepherd#podcast #kinkycast #Frolicon #class #life #love #time #space #poly #lifestyle #noel #shepherd

#488 - Shame Spiral

#488 - The Shame Spiral - Presented by CaliUnwanted Shame leaves us focused on all our supposed wrongdoings, and prevents us from enjoying many aspects of ourselves. Come for a revamped and improved discussion about shame and learn ways to stop yourself from falling down the dreaded shame spiral! Resources will be shared and there is a lot of audience participation.Link: Kali’s Fet pageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Frolicon, shame, spiral, unwanted, disfunction, mental, ADHD, ourselves#podcast #kinkycast #Frolicon #shame #spiral #unwanted #disfunction #mental #ADHD #ourselves

#489 - The Movie - Red and Black

#489 - The Movie - Red and BlackThis week on KinkyCast episode 489, We have the production staff of a crowd-funded movie. The movie, Red and Black is a classy, sexy, fun heist movie, where a member of the heist crew is a Femme Fatale Dominatrix. Their biggest inspirations are to include aspects of The Thomas Crown Affair and Love and Leashes.They are bringing on experienced kinksters for everything from writing, to directing, to acting, to intimacy coordinating - to show things like wax play, impact, and Shibari, with a focus on the sensuality of the experience. Listen as the crew lays out their plans.Link: https://allmylinks.com/RedandBlackMovieKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, movie, red, black, heist, femme, fatale, crew, director, beuhler, sexy, crowd, classy#podcast #kinkycast #movie #red #black #heist #femme #fatale #crew #director #beuhler #sexy #crowd #classy

#490 - 2 MDs and a Mic and a Social Worker

#490 - 2 MDs and a Mic and a Social WorkerToday on KinkyCast episode 490, we bring you “Two MDs and a Mic" And a Social Worker too. This is the 7th year we recorded this event at Frolicon and bring the Doctors to you with the answers to questions affecting all kinksters. (Listen to the audio podcast, below the links - scroll down)PrEP, PEP, STI TESTING, HIV MANAGEMENTDr. Daniel Ketterer, MDIDCGA1960 Riverside Pkwy #101Lawrenceville, GA 30043770-995-0466www.idcga.com/daniel-ketterer-md/AID ATLANTA1605 Peachtree Street NEAtlanta, GA 30309404-870-7700www.aidatlanta.org/prepGrady IDP – Ponce De Leon Center341 Ponce De Leon Ave NEAtlanta, GA 30308404-616-2440www.gradyhealth.org/locations/ponce-de-leon-center/Lost and Found Youth (Ages 13-25)2585 Chantilly Drive NEAtlanta, GA 30324678-856-7825CRISIS HOTLINE: 470-571-0571www.lnfy.orgMercy Care Atlanta424 Decatur StreetAtlanta, GA 30312678-843-8600www.mercyatlanta.orgPositive Impact –Decatur (locations in Marietta and Duluth)523 Church StreetDecatur, GA 30030404-589-9040www.positiveimpacthealthcenters.orgGeorgia AIDS & STI Infoline 800-551-2728Emory’s Transgender ClinicEmory University Hospital Midtown550 Peachtree Street NE19 th Floor Suite 1950Atlanta, GA 30308404-778-3280www.emoryhealthcare.org/centers-programs/transgender-clinic/index.htmlResources for LGBTQ+ Communitywww.gradytraumaproject.com/lgbtqMental Health/Therapy ResourcesGeorgia Crisis and Access Line 1-800-715-4225National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255RAINN (The Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) 1-800-656-HOPEModern Path3720 Chamblee Dunwoody Road D2Chamblee, GA 30341678-802-9355www.modernpath.netJonathan Standish, LPCAuthentic Self Counseling and Sex Therapy1 Baltimore Place NW #360Atlanta, GA 30308678-337-8562www.authenticselfcst.comAmariah Love, LPC404-738-9093www.amariahlove.comAtlanta Therapists specializing in LGBTQ Issueswww.therapyden.com/therapists/us/ga/atlanta/lgbtq-issuesAdelman Psychological Services814 Juniper Street NE Suite 202Atlanta, GA 30308678-383-0819www.drewadelman.com/lgbtqKKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, dr, doc, mic, social, worker, Frolicon, MD, 490, 2023, questions, answers, kinkster, SDI, health, stories, safety, Prep#podcast #kinkycast #dr #doc #mic #social #worker #Frolicon #MD #490 #2023 #questions #answers #kinkster #SDI #h #health #stories #safety #Prep

#491 - Sweet Mistress Cyn - 15 Misconceptions About Adult Workers

#491 - Sweet Mistress Cyn - 15 Misconceptions About Adult WorkersOn today's KinkyCast episode 491, we present, The top 15 misconceptions regarding professional adult workers! Woody and Sweet Mistress Cyn talk about a list of misconceptions gathered from a group of adult workers in the Dallas area. (The audio podcast is below the questions - scroll down)1. Pro must equal prostitute so course, I will likely get to have sex with her.This is not automatically the case.2.) If you're getting paid, you don't enjoy it and it's all about the moneyI can't speak for every adult worker, but I believe for the majority, this is false.There are many, many things an adult worker could be doing instead. At some point, the majority of adult workers all go through some degree of questioning, shaming, judgement and/or misunderstanding by others due to our occupation.To a large degree, it also causes us to have to be secretive.We also go through many gross & unpredictable circumstances.We see things many people in the medical field would see, plus have the extra added overhead expense of clothing, gear, advertising, etc.For the majority of us, it’s not just a job but an adventure, so this statement couldn’t be further from the truth.Men seem to forget they are still going to pay in one way or the other in vanilla dating or marriage, yet even in a vanilla situation there are no guarantees their needs will be met.Seeing a good provider you really connect with can be really good as they can take care of personal intimacy and fetish topics not just anyone may want to participate in.3. If you see a pro domme, you are automatically going to get beat to the point of marks, fucked with a strap on, something will be foisted upon you, or all the above.This is untrue.There are some pro dommes that don't care what you want and will do with you whatever they please, (these are usually the ones you see wearing latex, holding a whip and shooting you the middle finger in their ads) but the majority DO listen to your needs and will customize the session based on your needs and BOTH your boundaries. In other words, if you ask for impact play, most pros will not hit you any harder than you can take.They all generally follow the RACK method, which is: risk aware consensual kink. By automatically assuming you're automatically going to receive marks or have something foisted upon you, it shows you have not done your full due diligence to properly research the lady you have decided to see to the point you feel comfortable with your own choice.Aside from her ad, it is not up to the pro lady to further convince you why you should see her. It is up to YOU to thoroughly read her ad or website, and to do your own research to assuage any fears or concerns you may have. Jumping to this conclusion before the session has ever started also makes a bad impression because it shows you don't trust her right away.There is a time to share your interests and hard limits, but don't go on and on with the hard limits. Clearly communicate, then let go and let her do her job.4.) Pro ladies who are also fetish models automatically will do the same thing you may see that they do on film with other models.This also goes for Pro subs - there is an assumption that they too will automatically do whatever the viewer sees them doing on fetish films and this is not always the case, either.5.)Last minute session requests - the pro lady I am considering must just be sitting around waiting for the phone to ringContrary to popular belief, we are NOT sitting around waiting for the phone to ring.Once again, thoroughly read the lady's ad. If her ad says she needs notice, pay attention and respect that.She's saying this for a reason. It is very disrespectful to not give the notice she's asked for.6.)Not being forthcoming about giving your name and a proper introduction for automatic fear your privacy is going to be violated, you are going to get ripped off, or both.Again, read the lady's ad or website. Do a search on her. Read what her requirements are. Check to see if she is verifiable online and has a good reputation.Now imagine yourself in her shoes. If a total stranger called you for a session and you were going to host this person at your private abode, what would you want to know that would make you feel safe?There are without a doubt some scammers out there, but by doing your own due diligence to reasearch the lady in advance, this should spare 7.) It's your "right" to get excessive details before making a deposit &/or a booking with a proRead the lady's webpage or ad! That tells you everything you'll need to know.Most pros will provide some sort of free consult that stays within respectful lines, but SHE leads the conversation- not you.If you need more info beyond that, book an online session.Excessive details is a paid activity for pros.Both your time and the pro's time is valuable.8.)Automatically assuming the lady you are with is going to secretly film the online or in person session.Once again, thoroughly read the lady's ad and do a search regarding her background and reputation.It is disrespectful to automatically assume such a negative thing due to your own paranoia.We have ZERO reason to want to film an online or in person session. We actually sometimes wonder if YOU may be doing the same thing.The law prohibits anyone from publicly posting anything without a model's release.9.)That we are secretly "holding back" on what we REALLY like.We advertise all of what we feel comfortable with doing with our clients.If we didn't like it, we wouldn't waste the time to advertise it.Some things we reserve to save for the one we are involved in a vanilla personal relationship with, or maybe we have other reasons for not doing whatever it is you are hoping for that isn't listed.10.)You have to have an official website to be successful, trustworthy, or both.Yes, it helps, but not mandatory. There are many ladies that work more "under the radar" that have no website at all and can only be contacted via email.11.)Your mistress or disciplinarian has to attend a party or event to be successful or you have to attend to not feel left out Neither could not be further from the truth. Most fetish parties and events can be very clickish, sometimes you may walk away feeling left out, and sometimes the host can be doing it more for his or her own power and recognition rather than humble reasons. There have even been instances of some event hosts even bullying those that they don't personally like. If you want to avoid potential drama and have a more personalized, positively predictable experience, stick with one on one professional sessions.12.) Facesitting automatically means I'll get to do oral on the lady This also could not be further from the truth. Generally speaking, facesitting in the escort world means without underwear and there is usually oral involved.Facesitting in the BDSM world underwear is usually left on and it is more teasing, breath play and panty sniffing.Queening on the other hand, does involve oral sex.13.) The adult diaper fetish, ABDL or Paraphilic infantilism is associated with pedophilia. Either the giver &/or recipient must be into children..This could also not be further from the truth. People with this fetish are not attracted to children and do not seek them as sexual partners, they simply want to be TREATED as a child.NAMBLA (the North American Man/Boy love association) the Newgon Organization and IPCE are just a few organizations that advocates adult sexual behavior with children.Again, the ABDL fetish is not into kids, just being treated as one.14.) Pros in the adult industry automatically must have STD's15.) Pros in the adult industry are incapable of having a committed/monogamous relationshipKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, pro, dome, lady, sex, worker, adult, visit, paid, escort, BDSM, massage, misconception#podcast #kinkycast #pro #dome #lady #sex #worker #adult #visit #paid #escort #BDSM #massage #misconception

#492 - Sophia - Considering the Edge

#492 - Sophia - Considering the EdgeThis week on the KinkyCast episode 492, we invite you to join us at Frolicon for an enlightening class called 'Considering the Edges.' Edge play is extended BDSM play beyond typical play, Edges have crucial roles in defining spaces, concepts, and our sense of self. As we approach an edge, we encounter either a boundary or a new perspective. But when does this shift occur? And how can we navigate it effectively? In this class, we will explore frameworks that help us understand the edges within BDSM, both the obvious ones and the more subtle ones. We will also delve into the language that allows us to articulate our edges more effectively.Link: Sophia’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, education, edge, play, Sophia, Frolicon, safety, boundaries#podcast #kinkycast #education #edge #play #Sophia #Frolicon #safety #boundaries

#493 - Kinky Story Time

#494 - KST - Mariposa - If These Walls Could TalkOn this week's KinkyCast Episode 494, we have a submission to Kinky Story time. This is a life story that many people may have felt themselves. One has to get off the life escalator and pay attention to what's going on around you. Here is Mariposa’s heartfelt story.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kinky, story, time, if, these, walls, could, talk, mariposa, life, journey#podcast #kinkycast #kinky #story #time #if #these #walls #could #talk #mariposa #life #journey

#495 - Nurse Ratched - Keeping the HopeThis week on KinkyCast episode 495 we bring you Nurse Ratched's story, "Keeping the Hope". She tells the inspiring story of, a nurse in her late 60's who discovers a newfound sense of adventure and passion in her life. After years of dedicating herself to caring for others, She decides to embrace her own desires and explore a more unconventional side. Through a chance encounter, she meets, a charismatic and open-minded individual who introduces her to a world of kink and intimacy. As their relationship blossoms, Nurse R. learns that it’s never too late to find love, fulfillment, and excitement, proving that age is just a number when it comes to embracing one’s true self.Link: Nurse@KinkyCast.comKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, nurse, ratched, kinky, story time, older, life, hope, sexuality, relationship#podcast #kinkycast #nurse #ratched #kinky #story #time #older #life #hope #sexuality #relationship

#496 - Woody - Way Back Then in Sexuality In this week's episode of KinkyCast, episode 496, we have a special treat for you. Woody, is our guest, takes us on a journey back in time as he opens up about his sexuality and shares the valuable lessons he has learned over the past 55 years. Get ready to dive deep into Woody's personal experiences and gain insights into his unique perspective on sexuality. It’s going to be an enlightening and thought-provoking episode you won’t want to miss!Link: Woody’s emailKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, woody, sexuality, old, then, sex, education, kink, dating, relationships, history, dungeons#podcast #kinkycast #Woody #sexuality #old #then #sex #education #kink #dating #relationships #history #dungeons

#497 - Carmen Pan Diego - BDSM & Body ImageI n this week’s episode of the KinkyCast, Episode 497, we’re joined by Carmen Pan Diego, who engages in a candid discussion about her experiences of incorporating body positivity and BDSM play. She delves into the challenges and triumphs of navigating the intersection of being plus-sized and exploring kinks within the BDSM community. Carmen also shares insights from her popular writing that resonated with many, shedding light on an important aspect of the BDSM world.Link: Carmen’s Fet Page Carmen’s WritingKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, carmen, pan, Diego, fat, body, image, BDSM, fat phobia, 497, plus, sized, experience, positivity, challenges, triumphs, kink, community#podcast #kinkycast #carmen #pan #Diego #fat #body #image #BDSM #fat #phobia #497 #plus #sized #experience #positivity #challenges #triumphs #kink #community

#498 - FKA Terry T12 - How It All BeganThis week on KinkyCast episode 498, the story begins with Terry, a friend from Chicago. Terry reflects on the various stories and experiences he has witnessed throughout his 20-year lifestyle journey. He takes the audience back to the beginning, sharing everything and details that were too amazing to leave out. At 19 years old and in college, Terry recalls a distinct image he saw while browsing the internet.Link: Terry on FetKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, kinky, story, time, how, it ,all ,began, sex, swinging, BDSM, journey, young, older#podcast #kinkycast #kinky #story #time #how #it #all #began #sex #swinging #BDSM #journey #young #older

#499 - Kinky Story Time - "Welcome to Bombshell" - Esther’s Journey“Welcome to Bombshell” is a captivating submission to “Kinky Story Time,” Episode 499, penned by an anonymous author. This alluring tale draws inspiration from a real individual who has played a pivotal role in shaping the BDSM community. The story’s central character, Esther, is a 40-year-old divorced housewife whose life takes an unexpected turn into the world of erotic exploration. Esther, a seemingly ordinary woman on the surface, discovers a hidden facet of herself when she stumbles upon “Bombshell,” a discreet and exclusive online platform catering to those seeking uncharted realms of pleasure. Intrigued by the opportunity for self-discovery, Esther embarks on a journey that challenges societal norms and liberates her desires. As Esther delves deeper into the world of “Bombshell,” she finds herself forging connections with like-minded individuals from all walks of life. Keywords: podcast, kinkyCast, kinky, story, time, Esther, Esther’s, journey, bombshell, website, welcome, erotic, exploration, fiction#podcast #kinkyCast #kinky #story #time #Esther #Esther’s #journey #bombshell #website #welcome #erotic #exploration #fiction

#500 - KinkyCast - Milestone - 500 Episodes  📍 In the milestone 500th episode of the KinkyCast podcast, listeners are in for a treat as the show celebrates nearly a decade of captivating storytelling and insightful exploration of the BDSM and kink communities. With a rich history of delivering both entertainment and education, KinkyCast has become a trusted source for enthusiasts worldwide. In this special episode, three iconic figures, Nurse Ratched, Leigh, and Miss Tress, come together to commemorate the journey so far. They delve into a reflective discussion, revisiting some of the most memorable topics and moments from the show’s extensive archive. As the episode unfolds, they also provide exciting insights into the new directions the podcast is poised to take, promising an engaging blend of nostalgia and anticipation for the loyal KinkyCast community.Link: Woody’s EmailKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, 500, episode, Woody, nurse, ratched, Leigh, Miss Tress, topics, future, issues, consent, story time, direction#podcast #kinkycast #500 #episode #Woody #nurse #ratched #Leigh #Miss #Tress #topics #future #issues #consent #story #time #direction

#501 - WyMo Buckaroo - A Sexy Story - “Country Lane”Today on episode 501, we have a Kinky Story Time submission from our old Cowboy friend, WyMo Buckaroo. On a vast ranch, Carl, the owner, spots a young city woman, Debrah, driving recklessly in search of him. Directed to the ranch by her Aunt for riding lessons, both Debrah and Carl soon discover that they might not need a horse after all.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kinky, story, time, WyMo, Buckaroo, Country Lane, Tack, Room, sex, seduction#podcast #kinkycast #kinky #story #time #WyMo #Buckaroo #Country #Lane #Tack #Room #sex #seduction

#502 - KST - Woodsman - FantasizingThis week on KinkyCast 502, join us as we delve into the fascinating journey of the Woodsman and his exploration of adult sexuality. In this episode, the Woodsman shares his insights on the intriguing topic of fantasy and offers valuable advice on how to transform these fantasies into real-life experiences. With his wealth of experience, the Woodsman provides a unique perspective on bringing fantasies to life.Link: Woodsman’s Fet pageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, kinky, story, time, woodsman, fantasy, fantasizing, history, sex, journey#podcast #kinkycast #kinky #story #time #woodsman #fantasy #fantasizing #history #sex #journey

#503 - BDSM NightmaresIn this week’s kinkyCast episode, we dig way back in our archive to episode 201. In BDSM Nightmares we delve into an important discussion surrounding BDSM and the potential pitfalls of sexual scenes gone wrong. Join us as we unveil five true stories that serve as cautionary tales for newcomers, providing valuable insights on what to be mindful of in the world of kink.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, buds, nightmares, horror, sex, violation, predator, safe, word, consent#podcast #kinkycast #buds #nightmares #horror #sex #violation #predator #safe #word #consent

#504 - A Bimbo True Story - Part 1In episode 504 of the KinkyCast this week, we are joined by a guest from the United Kingdom named Neil. Neil shares an extraordinary story about his wife's transformation from a submissive spouse to a bimbo. This captivating tale is divided into two parts, so make sure to tune in next week for the thrilling conclusion.Link: https://fetlife.com/users/14056969Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, bimbo, slut, submissive, married, body, modification, surgery, tits, waist, lips, blond, true, UK, Neil#podcast #kinkycast #bimbo #slut #submissive #married #body #modification #surgery #tits #waist #lips #blond #true #UK #Neil

#505 - A Bimbo True Story - Part 2Well, back in episode 504, we left Neil and Sam starting a new DS relationship with Tony. Sam being a good submissive fell into the role quickly and followed Tony's every desire. We rejoin the story as the trio are making arrangements to go to investigate another breast enlargement. This time Tony has a say in the size, to UK size LL / US size Q. Here is Neil to pick up the story!Link: https://fetlife.com/users/14056969Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, bimbo, slut, submissive, married, body, modification, surgery, tits, waist, lips, blond, true, UK, Neil#podcast #kinkycast #bimbo #slut #submissive #married #body #modification #surgery #tits #waist #lips #blond #true #UK #Neil

#506 - Guy Baldwin - Hardy Haberman - Race Bannon - Legends - KC Time MachineToday, we're featuring a trio who have been integral to the gay leather scene since its inception. Guy Baldwin, Hardy Haberman, and Race Bannon share their experiences of being gay in the 1960s. Baldwin, who was expelled from his home at 18 for being homosexual, found a new family within the WW2 veteran community. Haberman, based in Dallas, recounts tales of bars alerting gay patrons of impending vice squad raids, forcing men to find female dance partners or face jail time. Bannon, now a San Francisco-based activist, shares stories of Chicago’s famous gay bars that laid the foundation for the gay community.Join us for a two-hour journey through a time when human rights were violated and gay rights were non-existent. These three legends of the American gay community share their experiences, both past and present. These recordings, some edited to remove outdated events, tell a story so important that it transcends sexual orientation. It’s a reminder of the importance of protecting our rights.Guy Baldwin, M.S. (b. 1946), is a Los Angeles-based psychotherapist, author, activist, and educator specializing in BDSM and leather community issues. He has written three books and numerous articles for magazines such as Drummer, Frontiers, Checkmate, International Leatherman, and The Leather Journal. He also created a database of kink and BDSM-friendly professionals, now managed by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. (KinkyCast Episode #66)Hardy Haberman (b. 1950) is an author, filmmaker, educator, and designer from Dallas, Texas. A prominent figure in the leather/fetish/BDSM community, he's also a frequent speaker at leather events. Haberman has been involved in LGBT activism since the mid-1970s and has served on the board of the Dallas chapter of GLAAD. He's currently the Chairperson on the Board of Directors of the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance and writes a column for Dallas Voice. (KinkyCast episode #101)Race Bannon has been an organizer, writer, educator, speaker, and activist in the LGBT, leather/kink, polyamory, and HIV/STI prevention realms since 1973. He's authored two books, spoken to hundreds of audiences, and founded a groundbreaking alternative sexuality publishing company. He currently writes for the Bay Area Reporter. (KinkyCast Episode #244)Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, gay, legends, icon, Baldwin, guy, hardy, haberman, race, Bannon, San Francisco, Chicago, Dallas, Denver, rights, violated#podcast #kinkycast #gay #legends #icon #Baldwin #guy #hardy #haberman #Bannon #San Francisco #Dallas #Denver #rights #violated

#507 - About Being Young and Gay with JoshOn this week's KinkyCast, episode 507, We visit with an old friend named Josh. In the gay wild times of the 80's and 90's getting laid was quite a sport. Anything goes and what you see is often unbelievable Josh brings a first hand look, from his perspective, of growing up gay in the last century.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, gay, young, josh, law, Tennessee, short mountain, rape, under age#podcast #kinkycast #gay #young #josh #law #Tennessee #short #Mountain #rape #under age

#508 - Discussion Group from 9 Years AgoWelcome to the Kinkycast episode 508. Today, the Wayback Machine dusts off episode 20 from 9 years ago. Titled: 'Discussion in the Dungeon', a group of 8 talk about issues on fellow kinksters' minds.In this episode, the hosts delve into a variety of topics that pique the interest of those in the kink community. From the challenges of balancing power dynamics in relationships to the importance of consent and communication, the discussion in the dungeon offers valuable insights and perspectives. Join us as we explore the minds of fellow kinksters and dive into the diverse world of alternative lifestyles. This episode runs about an hour and forty minutes.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, group, discussion, wayback, consent, relationship, 201, 508, Collars, Bondage, risk, community, resources, public, dungeon, BDSM, diversity, rituals, history, service, fear, taboo, top, bottom, Sex#podcast #kinkycast #group #discussion #wayback #consent #relationship #201 #508 #Collars #Bondage #risk #community #resources #public, dungeon, BDSM, diversity, rituals, history, service, fear, taboo, top, bottom, Sex

#509 - What If A Play Scene Goes Wrong? - With Veronica KaneThis week's KinkyCast, episode 509, is a personal story shared by Veronica Kane, about a BDSM play session that went wrong and led to a medical complication. Veronica recounts the negotiation and preparations leading up to the play scene, the intense and painful experiences during the session, and the aftermath of the medical issue. She discusses the challenges of seeking medical help, including embarrassment and fear of judgment. The story serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of communication, consent, and being proactive in seeking medical care when needed.Links: Veronica’s Fet PageDr. Dan’s “Two MD’s and a Mic” Episodes: 75, 171, 241, 276, 406, 490Also the STI PREP resource pageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Veronica, Kane, play, scene, wrong, medical, ass, tear, fissure, anal, CNC, consent, painful#podcast #kinkycast #Veronica #kane #play #scene #wrong #medical #ass #tear #fissure #anal #CNC #consent #painful

#510 - Safety in the Kinky LifestyleThis week on KinkyCast episode 510, we welcome a fellow kinkster and presenter known as Enigmatic Erudite. His talk centers on promoting safety in interactions and relationships in the modern world, particularly within the context of a kinky lifestyle. The speaker underscores the importance of regular, face-to-face interactions as opposed to text-based communication and offers a comprehensive guide on safe communication, electronic privacy, and counter-surveillance. Advice is given on identifying red flags, setting up safe calls, planning safe meets, being careful with shared personal information, using various tracking devices, and selectively choosing meetup locations. We encourage responsibility in maintaining personal safety while participating in one’s chosen lifestyle.Link: Enigmatic Erudite’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, play, safety. Dating, places, meeting, slave, first, time, friends, call, hotel#podcast #kinkycast #play #safety #Dating #places #meeting #slave #first #time #friends #call #hotel

#511 - Hilariously_Red on Primal PlayOn this, episode 511, of KinkyCast, Woody and Red delve into the world of Primal Play within the BDSM community. Red, an expert in Primal Play, explains how participants strongly identify with the behavior of a particular animal or allow that animal's influence to shape their style of play. They discuss the different roles and headspaces involved in Primal Play, emphasizing the importance of respect, boundaries, and communication. Red also provides insights into the various types of primal scenes and offers resources for those interested in exploring Primal Play further.Links: Red’s Fet Page. Information on Primals, and the different types of Primal Play described in the podcast were written by A_Monster_Man, and can be found under the following links:General Primal 1General Primal 2IntroductionsFloor WorkBitey TimeTwo LegsFrom RedWonderlandLet’s Talk About PrimalKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, hilariously, red, primal, buds, play, animal, roles, headspace, respect, boundaries, communication, scenes, resources, links#podcast #kinkycast #hilariously # red #primal #buds #play #animal #roles #headspace #respect #boundaries #communication #scenes #resources #links

#512 - Susan Wright NCSF - Christmas ShowIn this annual Christmas show, episode 512, the host, Woody, welcomes Susan Wright from the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom. They reflect on the state of sexual freedom rights, particularly noting the work by the NCSF on explicit prior permission, a new legal framework for consent to kink. They discuss the need for education and resources relevant to specific states and the challenges of existing laws. The conversation moves towards the issue of stigma faced by the kink community, causing many to keep their activities secret for fear of societal or professional backlash. The discussion ends with a word about the fight against blue laws that restrict sexual freedom.Link: NCSFreedom.orgKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, NCSF, Susan, Wright, Sexual, freedom, Christmas, annual, update, rights, loss, LGBT, Gay, hetro, legal, law, update, model, penal, code#podcast #kinkycast #NCSF #Susan #Wright #Sexual #freedom #Christmas #annual #update #rights #loss #LGBT #Gay #hetro #legal #law #update #model #penal #code

#513 - KC New Year Show - Good Bye 2023In this episode, 513, of the KinkyCast. It's a New Year! The KC Crew discusses a wide range of topics. They start with a discussion about pressing issues such as women's rights, legal developments within the BDSM community, and political changes. The discussion further extends to education, economic disparities, and the pitfalls of the U.S. political system. The dialogue concludes with a reflection on societal standards, employment practices, and the healthcare system, highlighting the need for change in various domains.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, year, end, new, discussion, group, hot, topics, education, politics, government, rights, sexuality, NCSF, topic#podcast #kinkycast #year #end #new #discussion #group #hot #topics #education #politics #government #rights #sexuality #NCSF #topic


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