By Rainbow_Kitten7
I will shout it from the rooftops if I have to!
I get soooo tired of hearing this cliched trope from insecure men. Average is what the most of us (average number of woman) want with a dick size. They care MUCH MORE that the average sized dick is attached to a not so average connection. Because a true connection? Well, men, that will make everything that dick does to her oh so good!
Ahhhh....but Kitty, you don't NEED a connection, right? Isn't that what makes you different? Isn't that what makes you a slut? Isn't that what makes a hotwife? And speaking of being a hotwife, aren't you all up into that Bull and BBC shit? Aren't you the very girl perpetuating the myth that all sluts are size queens?
Yes and No.
I already have a connection. A fabulous one and I love best everything his dick does to me. It is my favorite dick. Truly. His dick and I have an almost 30 year connection that produces instant pavlovian responses between my body and his that can never be matched by another dick.
That said, I am a slut and I love the random dick from the random dude with the no connection. So you would think that makes me a bit pickier for my dicks because I am choosing mainly on dick quality over connection or personality quality.
And, in some ways, that is true!
Have I ever told you how much I love shopping for cocks like I shop at the goodwill? It's a fascinating snapshot into the mind of how a slut picks a cock. That said, size is NEVER the qualifier. And on the rare instance it is, it is because a cock is TOO big, never because a cock is too small.
But, just like shopping for clothes, I have preferences. And want to know a secret?
That's fucking OKAY!!!!!
I buy certain styles of shirts because I've tried enough shirts on to know exactly what type fits my particular breast size and shape best. I buy only one brand of jeans ever because they hug my ass like a glove, make my legs look amazing, never give me a muffin top and last for freaking ever. No other brand of jeans, no matter how good they look on the mannequin, will ever tempt me away from my brand. But regardless, all the clothes I buy are my own personal preference.
And I shop for dicks the same way. I have MY preferences. And that has much more to do with shape than size. I want my dicks to look a certain way that make my mouth water. They can be 4 inches all the way up to 8 inches, just as long as they look a certain way.
I like the way a man is cut. I like a certain way his head is shaped. I like a not too skinny shaft. I like a man with a straight dick. These are all much more important to me. And it is okay for me to turn a man down because his dick shape is just not my speed. That is NO judgement of who he is or of his character or even his manhood.
It has MUCH more to do with the fact that I've had enough dicks in me now to know just by look which ones will be physically compatible with my body type and the way I like to fuck. That's it. Period. No deeper meaning or reasoning. And size only factors in if it is too big. The average sized women is 4 to 6 inches deep. Anything above 8 inches can be a real lady boner killer turning sex into a very painful experience.
It is no different than any other preference. Some guys love breasts and other guys prefer a fabulous ass. Some guys are into huge tits and others love a woman with a sleek body and small, upturned titties. A lot of guys are into curvy chicks, some love wide hips, some love a soft mom tummy, some love a phat ass, some love a more baroque style BBW. Some men love athletic women or are attracted to mainly red heads. My husband is attracted to women with a vibrant color to her hair because he is colorblind and that registers and actually catches his attention.
All of those preferences are OKAY!!!!
And some of us women will fall into those preferences of the one we are interested in and some of us won't. Again, it takes nothing away from who we are as an individual. It says nothing about our worth.
So, yes guys...she will have a preference. You may or may not fall into her preference range. She is probably judging you on a myriad of factors just as you are judging her. But just know that dick size is rarely one of them, despite what K&P seems to suggest, and I suspect most of that is popular because watching a table leg plow into a skinny minny is a fascinating train wreck and most of us can't look away.
Now, are there exceptions to the rule?
Absolutely!
I have a very good friend who has a longer than average physiology down there and it takes a man of a certain length to even reach her good stuff and make her buttons work. I imagine a lot of "size queens" are very similar in physiology. They are just picking the preference that works for their body style.
Sometimes I get in the mood for a fat, really girthy dick in the same way that I get in the mood for Indian food. But it isn't what I want most of the time. Sometimes I want a curvy dick to fuck in a certain position so it will hit certain buttons, and if I do then I will pick on the slightly larger than average size (around 6 to 7 inches) to account for the curvature and how it hits physiologically in my body.
And occasionally, rarely but occasionally, I will pick a larger cock because I'm in the mood to hurt when I get fucked and because I want to give my husband the gift of the video of me making that certain guttural noise that happens when a large cock penetrates me. It is a rare event and if I decide to indulge, I will negotiate much more than the average hookup because I want to know that the man on the other side of said cock knows how to control his movements. I can ONLY be with a bull in that capacity if he goes slow and is in full and complete control.
However, 99% of the time I am attracted to a certain style of penis that is perfectly regular in all its glory. Because I'm more in love with pounding it out in any position and taking it deep into my mouth for cock worship and a perfectly average sized dick will fit the bill every time!!!
Rainbow_Kitten7