#201 - BDSM Nightmares, True Stories From The Dark Side
This week we delve into a controversial subject,
non-consensual play. This WAS play that
was negotiated and went astray. When a
top ignores your safe word or if you can’t utter RED, then all hell breaks
loose. Today’s show hears from 6 women
that have had their consent violated.
Some came out with marks, another with a detached retina and in todays final
report, the victim could not tell us about her consent violation, because she
died at the hands of four ‘tops’, that scolded her for a housekeeping issue.
Her ordeal lasted four hours and yielded a lifeless body. We have advocated safety ever since episode
one, now we are at 201 and the horror stories still come in. This episode is a lesson in checking a play
partner out, in advance. Check
references, check training, know something about your potential play partner. Have a safe call to bail you out if things go
wrong. Listen to these stories, they are
all real, from the lips of the victims, except for the last one.
Links: DomnantGuide.com submissiveGuide.com NCSFreedom.org
Related Episodes: #195 Consent Violation #2 BDSM Scene Safety & Negotiation #77 Dating Safety
#187 Safety Aspects #85 Consent Counts #96 Consent #164 Affirmative Consent