#367 - Phoenix Soul - The Dating Project (listen to the episode at the bottom of this page)
This week is the 7th anniversary of the KinkyCast! We are celebrating with Phoenix Soul, an old friend, that attracted our attention last December when she took out an ad to look for a romantic suitor. In this episode, we take a deep dive into the process of finding kinky love in the time of Covid in Australia. Join us to see how it all unfolded.
For the full story, check out Phoenix Soul’s posting on FetLife… Here!
The personal ad…
I’m looking for the 2021 equivalent to a 1942 silver screen romance. Think Cary Grant enters, stage left, holding a trilby while delivering an adorably sarcastic quip about looking for “His Gal Friday” I want to be swept off my feet by a firm hand that is just itching to deliver a spanking....
Yeah, I am joking....
What I meant to say was I am looking for a Lover. (Not a Dom, Owner or a Master.)
Searching for some regular romance with a dominant male. I figure after a disappointing 2020, I would put feelers out for a like-minded individual who is looking to take some time to inject some fantasy and fun into our lives on a regular basis**, starting with a weekly date where we dress up and go out to a movie/dinner/bar, or a date where we stay in and I get to slip into something more comfortable... This is not a one time thing but it is not forever.
Depending on schedules, the occasional day date may be possible. Based on my regular kink/friend/family commitments, we could get together on a Thursday or Friday evening, or plan a regular lazy Sunday brunch, leading to some Afternoon Delight.
Don’t let the profile pic fool you. While I am an edge playing kinkster who indulges in some serious degradation, humiliation and objectification play, I also enjoy sweet romance, deep conversations, witty repartee and an entire universe of curiosities in between.
I prefer men who are older (and wiser) than myself, but still are young at heart and know how to enjoy laughing, lingerie, wine, toys, and having silly conversations along with digging into philosophical discussions...
I am looking for someone I can talk to, snugglefuck, get downright dirty with, and aaalll the good things that consenting kinky people do.
I might be for you if you:
own an extensive Golden Era of Hollywood movie collection, (or a sense of humour)smell goodcan recite the periodic table, and don't get squeamish at my periodicals... (i have towels)offer a mature, respectful approach to sex, kink, poly, me and my wonderful kinky circlecan respect that I am a human first, not a fetish dispenser, not a side show attraction, or a roller coaster ride. (OK, well sometimes I am a side show attraction, but only when I’m encouraged to be)are open-minded, healthy, sexually dominant, educated and smartare aged 50 plus (desire and ability for physical intimacy required, with imagination a non-negotiable)agree that race, body shape and penis size are not importantcan provide a safe place to play, this does not mean your car, the men's bathroom or outdoors (unless we are planning an adventure 😉 )I am happy to meet your other partners and vice versa, but I prefer our weekly date to be one on one. When I am with you, I belong to you in every way. I want to be spoiled with your attention and time, and I will want to please you in any way you like. Throughout the week you can expect the occasional naughty pic or text, but not an excessive amount of texting.
I am a fun, easy-going, pretty, romantically single woman who is ferociously intelligent, extremely loyal and not for the faint of heart or weak of mind. If you look after me, I will look after you.
Let’s not waste each others time if you:
> want to be forever chat friends, because real life fucking beats the chatting. Every. Single. Time.
> want me to be your dirty secret, (I’d rather be friends with your partner).
> are not local to Sydney NSW, or don’t travel here regularly (I am totally up for being your “fly-in-fly-out gal”, so long as you are willing and able to provide emotional intimacy as well).
Serious enquiries only.
Credit: @StellaO for large parts of this ad
Link: https://fetlife.com/users/8968849
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