2021 Archive

#363 - Dr. Craig Webster - Munch ResearchToday’s show brings Dr. Craig Webster to the mic. Webster headed an international search of Munches. These published papers represent many of the factors that make a successful munch.A message from Dr. Webster…The data presented in this paper are part of a data set investigating the organizers of munches and similar events globally. This study was approved by the Institutional Review Board (IRB) at Ball State University and by FetLife which was used to disseminate the survey. Data on the importance of munch and similar events were gathered using a short, online survey created by the researcher and disseminated on the leading BDSM social media internet site, FetLife. The survey was designed to be as short as possible in order to ensure a high completion rate and only disseminated in English, despite being an international survey of the institution. The data presented in this summary report were collected from December 2016 to March 2017.There are many people who helped to make this survey happen, and we would like to thank them. The most critical people that we would like to thank are the Caretakers of FetLife. Without their permission and assistance, we would not have had easy access to so many people in the BDSM community. In addition, there were many people on FetLife who assisted us in many different ways. Some suggested improvements to the survey so that future research would be done better. Most importantly, we are grateful for all the respondents to the survey, as without them, there would be no data to analyze. We are also very grateful to the many people in the community who educated us about the lifestyle so that we could ask more intelligent questions than we otherwise would have. There are a number of colleagues who were helpful and supportive through the process, even when the topic seemed a bit far removed from what people expected research on Event Management to be. As a result of all the support from colleagues here at Ball State University, FetLife, and those in the BDSM lifestyle/community, we were able to gather data in this first international survey of the munch as a social institution from the perspective of the organizer. We hope that this will lead to more research on this important social institution. Crumbs to all of you who were of assistance in this.Munch Organizer Survey (Summary Report) linkMunch Participant Survey (Summary Report) linkEvents are Bound to Happen, Spank You Very Much: The Importance of Munch Events in the BDSM Community .https://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/cog/em/2019/00000023/f0020004/art00013 Fifty Shades of Socializing: Slosh and Munch Events in the BDSM Community. https://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/cog/em/2019/00000023/00000001/art00010 Fifty shades of organising kinkster events: munch events in the BDSM community.https://www.inderscienceonline.com/doi/abs/10.1504/IJHEM.2018.092395 Kink as a Form of Leisure: Kinky Events and the People who Love Them.https://management.viu.ca/sites/default/files/wlce-case-volume-4-2020.pdf#page=21 Kinky People Need Kinky Events: Kinkster Events and Kink/BDSM Products in Hospitality and Tourism. In Sex and Leisure: Promiscuous Perspectives. Edited by: Diana C. Parry and Corey W. Johnson.https://www.taylorfrancis.com/books/sex-leisure-diana-parry-corey-johnson/e/10.4324/9781003003427Kink as a form of leisure: Kinky events and the people who love themhttps://viurrspace.ca/handle/10613/23383Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, munch, Craig, Webster, ball state, organizer, participant, location, type, BDSM, University, Fetlife, data, internationalKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, munch, Craig, Webster, ball state, organizer, participant, location, type, BDSM, University, Fetlife, data, international

#364 - Goddess Indigo & Doctor Bob - Authors & EducatorsThe Goddess Indigo and Dr. Bob just came out with two new books - one on communication and one on creating magic in the dungeon. They both have long histories of being community educators at various conferences and dungeons internationally.Safe, Sexy and Consensual: Creating Magic in the Dungeon. Robert J. (Dr.Bob) Rubel, PhD and The Goddess Indigo - For the first time ever, this book deconstructs a BDSM scene and rebuilds them component by component to explain why you do what you do in a scene—and how to do it intentionally and reliably to achieve extraordinary, consistent results. By the time you have learned to implement this material, your toys will have become extensions of your will. You will know how to speak the physical language (in addition to the verbal language) of connection. With practice and application, these skills will energize your play and elevate it from a mundane to a transcendent experience.We provide a recipe of sorts; a formula for reliably producing magical play scenes.In One Ear and Out the Other: Essential guide for effective communication. Robert J. Rubel, PhD and Veronica M. Petterson - Do you listen to respond or listen to understand? Do you listen in neutral and then frame your response to match the situation? While many books are written about how to get your point across, good communication is about transmitting and receiving messages as close as possible to what the speaker intended to say. This extends beyond simplyunderstanding their spoken words. Understanding includes the ability tointerpret body language, vocal tone, and sentence inflection. It also includes understanding your own biases and the likely biases of the speaker. The roadmap to becoming an effective communicator lies within.Links: Safe, Sexy and Consensual: Creating Magic in the Dungeon In One Ear and Out the Other: Essential guide for effective communication @Email Goddess Indigo and Dr. BobKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, author, educator, goddess, indigo, Dr. Bob, 364, play, dungeon, scene, communication, ear, BDSM, physical, language, skillsKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #author #educator #goddess #indigo #Dr. Bob #364 #play #dungeon #scene #communication #ear #BDSM #physical #language #skills

#365 - Joanna Angel - Author & Porn Star Check out Joanna’s newest project, Club 42, a choose-your-own-fantasy, interactive book!Joanna Angel is a powerhouse in the adult entertainment industry as an adult film star, director, producer, author, and founder of the BurningAngel Empire — the company known for the emergence and prevalence of tattooed women in the adult film industry. On February 9, 2021, she releases her second choose-your-own erotic fantasy book, Club 42. It’s a sexy read both men and women can get on board with, and something we think everyone will enjoy from the comfort of their own home this Valentine’s Day. Joanna has been praised for her focus on sex positivity, gender inclusiveness and diversity in her writing. Club 42 is an interactive book where the reader helps navigate Naomi through her day shifts at Club 42, a strip club located in Times Square, and the fun is in deciding where to send the character next. Should she give an old crush a lap dance? Give her ex the ‘extras’ in the VIP room? Debut a new dance to hip hop or rock? Or leave her life of dancing just as quickly as she started? No matter which path you choose, you get an insider’s glimpse into the erotic, neon world of New York Strip clubs. Links above in text.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, book, author, porn, Joanna, angel, club, club 42, choose, fantasy, interactive, burningAngel, adult, stripperKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #book #author #porn #Joanna #angel #club #club 42 #choose #fantasy #interactive #burningAngel #adult #stripper

#366 - Lady D & Sir Phoenix Black - Virtual LearningThis week we Bring you, two powerhouse presenters on upcoming virtual conferences. Here what Lady D and Sir Phoenix Black have to say about these events.Therapeutic Scenes ain’t Therapy, is a dual moderated class Lady D & Sir Phoenix Black will discuss how a Therapeutic scene may provide relief for or may reveal to deep physical or psychological trauma. Sir Phoenix will discuss how the biochemistry and neurology behind an intense scene can unearth memories and trauma. Lady D will discuss how these epiphanies and memories can and should be used as a springboard to true mental healing. Be prepared to fully geek out on hard science and embrace mental healing. The Thrive Conference is April 23-25, 2021. Additionally we are presenting individually at Flame Conference Feb 19-21, 2021. Both are Virtual Conferences. Sir Phoenix Black is a cis-gendered, poly, heterosexual, leatherman, kink performer and BDSM educator. He identifies as a Dominant, Daddy and heavy Sadist. As a fetish performer his specialties include fire play, all forms of impact play (especially singletails), fire impact and knife play. Based out of Atlanta, he has presented at national conferences such as Sex Down South, Beyond Leather, Flame Conference and local events such as 1763 and the Atlanta Eagle. He is a mentor with the Atlanta Mentors project, an alumni of the Masters Dominant Counsortium, a Dungeon Monitor. His philosophy of "Love what you do, Do what you Love" is what motivates how he moves in the world of Leather. His love for the Leather community and interest in politics are what inspire him to make a difference. As a panelist to help navigate racism in this community, He has used His voice to uplift both the POC community and to speak out against racial injustice within it and the world.Instagram: @realphoenixblackFetlife: SirPhoenix Black Reverend Deborah Harrison but I also known as Lady D. I am a Lifestyle Domina and I have been in the lifestyle for over 30 years. I am also an ordained minister. I am a certified master hypnotherapist and I truly believe in holistic healing of mind, body and spirit. For almost fourteen years I ran (People Exchanging Power), P.E.P Atlanta a BDSM pansexual support and social group in Atlanta Georgia and in 2001, I created People Exchanging Power for People of Color. I also am the founder and past President of the Onyx Pearls Southeast and I helped to re-launch OPSE, a women's sorority focused on female camaraderie, empowerment, community awareness and service.My personal commitment is to help make this community stronger and to continue Jill Carter's philosophy of Each One, Teach One. If there is any way that I can serve, I offer my services to you. Remember to give your time, your money and your love to all of those in this community that selflessly give to you. I am eternally grateful to those who have helped me on my journey and now I would like the opportunity to ‘pass it forward.’ website: www.dandslifestyle.comEmail: ladydydatlanta@gmail.comFacebook: LadyDAtlanta Twitter: @LadyDAtlantaInstagram: ladydatlanta FetLife: ladydpepKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, conference, lady, phoenix black, reverend, flame, thrive, therapeutic, therapy, leatherman, trauma, Atlanta, dominant, presenterKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #conference #lady d #phoenix black #reverend #flame #Thrive #therapeutic #therapy #leatherman #trauma #Atlanta #dominant #presenter

#367 - Phoenix Soul - The Dating Project (listen to the episode at the bottom of this page)This week is the 7th anniversary of the KinkyCast! We are celebrating with Phoenix Soul, an old friend, that attracted our attention last December when she took out an ad to look for a romantic suitor. In this episode, we take a deep dive into the process of finding kinky love in the time of Covid in Australia. Join us to see how it all unfolded.For the full story, check out Phoenix Soul’s posting on FetLife… Here!The personal ad…I’m looking for the 2021 equivalent to a 1942 silver screen romance. Think Cary Grant enters, stage left, holding a trilby while delivering an adorably sarcastic quip about looking for “His Gal Friday” I want to be swept off my feet by a firm hand that is just itching to deliver a spanking....Yeah, I am joking....What I meant to say was I am looking for a Lover. (Not a Dom, Owner or a Master.)Searching for some regular romance with a dominant male. I figure after a disappointing 2020, I would put feelers out for a like-minded individual who is looking to take some time to inject some fantasy and fun into our lives on a regular basis**, starting with a weekly date where we dress up and go out to a movie/dinner/bar, or a date where we stay in and I get to slip into something more comfortable... This is not a one time thing but it is not forever.Depending on schedules, the occasional day date may be possible. Based on my regular kink/friend/family commitments, we could get together on a Thursday or Friday evening, or plan a regular lazy Sunday brunch, leading to some Afternoon Delight.Don’t let the profile pic fool you. While I am an edge playing kinkster who indulges in some serious degradation, humiliation and objectification play, I also enjoy sweet romance, deep conversations, witty repartee and an entire universe of curiosities in between.I prefer men who are older (and wiser) than myself, but still are young at heart and know how to enjoy laughing, lingerie, wine, toys, and having silly conversations along with digging into philosophical discussions...I am looking for someone I can talk to, snugglefuck, get downright dirty with, and aaalll the good things that consenting kinky people do.I might be for you if you:own an extensive Golden Era of Hollywood movie collection, (or a sense of humour)smell goodcan recite the periodic table, and don't get squeamish at my periodicals... (i have towels)offer a mature, respectful approach to sex, kink, poly, me and my wonderful kinky circlecan respect that I am a human first, not a fetish dispenser, not a side show attraction, or a roller coaster ride. (OK, well sometimes I am a side show attraction, but only when I’m encouraged to be)are open-minded, healthy, sexually dominant, educated and smartare aged 50 plus (desire and ability for physical intimacy required, with imagination a non-negotiable)agree that race, body shape and penis size are not importantcan provide a safe place to play, this does not mean your car, the men's bathroom or outdoors (unless we are planning an adventure 😉 )I am happy to meet your other partners and vice versa, but I prefer our weekly date to be one on one. When I am with you, I belong to you in every way. I want to be spoiled with your attention and time, and I will want to please you in any way you like. Throughout the week you can expect the occasional naughty pic or text, but not an excessive amount of texting.I am a fun, easy-going, pretty, romantically single woman who is ferociously intelligent, extremely loyal and not for the faint of heart or weak of mind. If you look after me, I will look after you.Let’s not waste each others time if you:> want to be forever chat friends, because real life fucking beats the chatting. Every. Single. Time.> want me to be your dirty secret, (I’d rather be friends with your partner).> are not local to Sydney NSW, or don’t travel here regularly (I am totally up for being your “fly-in-fly-out gal”, so long as you are willing and able to provide emotional intimacy as well).Serious enquiries only.Credit: @StellaO for large parts of this adLink: https://fetlife.com/users/8968849Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, 7th, anniversary, dating, project, phoenix, soul, romance, love, personal, ad, looking, deserve, findingKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #7th #anniversary #dating #project #phoenix #soul #romance #love #personal #ad #looking #deserve #finding

#368 - Stella Harris - The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes Stella Harris is a Certified Intimacy Educator and Sex Coach, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella teaches at venues and conferences across the US (and Canada!) while maintaining a private practice in her adopted hometown of Portland, Oregon. Stella is the author of two books, Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes. About The Ultimate Guide to ThreesomesThis book is perfect for couples/singles who are looking to explore their sexual fantasies but don’t quite know where to start. An inclusive study conducted by Justin Lehmiller found that 97% of surveyed Americans reported having sexual fantasies, and of them, more than a third of respondents described "group sex" as their favorite fantasy.Everything you’ve ever wanted to know about how to have a threesome—plus everything you’d never think to ask! The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes will teach you how to have ethical, consensual encounters that give pleasure to everyone involved.Fantasy exploration, finding threesome partners, making your dreams come true—sex educator Stella Harris guides you through the whole process. You’ll also find plenty of positions and scenarios for beginners and veterans alike, plus information about safer sex and aftercare. And if you want threesomes to stay a fantasy? That’s okay too! This book teaches how to use threesomes in dirty talk and role play.Whether you’re just starting out on your threesome journey, or you’ve been having threesomes for years, you’ll find something here to suit your needs. Harris is used to hearing, “Wow, I never thought of that!”—what new ideas will you find in these pages?Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram. Keywords: #podcast #kinkycast #Stella #Harris #ultimate #guide #threesomes #author #book #educator #Portland #BDSM #kink #group #sexKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Stella, Harris, ultimate, guide, threesomes, author, book, educator, Portland, BDSM, kink, group, sex

Special Edition - TK - KinkyShottzToday we present a special edition of the KinkyCast, it’s a little out of our lane, but think you might get a few ideas on how to utilize the information our friend TK is bringing to the show today. KinkyShottz is part of the (ALDSX Games) the next evolution of adult XXX sports for the lifestyle and the participants of it. KinkyShottz is a sexual, active sports competition, gameshow, masturbation, intercourse all wrap into one it is pure energy from the beginning to the end.TK’s email: TK@KinkyCast.comKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, sex, games, TK, kinky, kink, shots, kinkyshottz, party, adult, play, basket, ball, toss, distraction, team, winningKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #sex #games #TK #kinky #kink #shots #kinkyshottz #party #adult #play #basket #ball #toss #distraction #team #winning

#369 - Jane Boon - Edge Play Fiction Edge Play, the book. IS THE PRICE OF POWERTHE PLEASURE OF PAIN?Correction: Amy Lefevre’s second language is risk. A gorgeous young investment banker, she navigates Wall Street’s toxic culture with ease—until the stock market collapses.Crisis: Amy starts investigating the failed deals her boss engineered. Drawn to a treacherous ride on the edge, will her efforts to expose him cause her to lose it all?Consent: Amy’s best friend is a dominatrix with an offer: take over her elite S&M dungeon, catering to the pervy needs of millionaires and billionaires and learn the true nature of power.EDGE PLAY is a universe beyond Fifty Shades of Grey and The Big Short, set in the most elite, twisted circles of Wall Street mega-power and S&M. Amy Lefevre dives into an underground realm of Big Swinging Dicks only to find that, in this arena, the women wield the whips and the men submit. She rides the extreme edge of business and pleasure. But what are the ultimate consequences of aiming to dominate in both?Bio:Jane Boon lives in New York City with her husband, Norm Pearlstine. She studied technology and policy at MIT and later received a Ph.D. in industrial engineering. Jane has written for publications like The Wall Street Journal, Bloomberg, Businessweek, Time.com, McSweeneys.net, and TravelandLeisure.com. Jane enjoys improv and playing dress up, including the time she wore a corset, garters and thigh-high stockings as a dominatrix in the Fox TV series, Gotham. EDGE PLAY is her first novel. Links: Twitter: @JaneEBoonInstagram: @JaneEBoonhttps://www.JaneBoon.comEDGE PLAY Animated Book TrailerKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Jane, boon, author, book, edge, play, edge play, fiction, novel, dominatrix, actress, actor, Ph.DKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #Jane #boon #author #book #edge #play #edge play #fiction #novel #dominatrix #actress #actor #Ph.D

#370 - Mary Jane - Intelligence Play This week we connect with Mary Jane. A few words in her profile caught our attention. Words like ‘demisexual’ and ’sapiosexual’. Mary Jane is a lovely woman living in the south of the USA and is a real brainiac. Her Fet profile is “Mary_Jane_Needs” and we were curious what she needed. Listen to Mary Jane as she lays out her needs, desires, and getting along in today's world.In her own words…I am a polyamorous, deeply submissive, demi/sapiosexual cis-gendered woman. I am very bratty. I will push you in ways that you may not expect. I like to wrestle and push and poke: daring you and testing you emotionally and psychologically to see what makes you tick investigating your innerworkings. I am clean and sober and expect that you will respect and honor that.I seek out authenticity and originality in my everyday interactions and LOVE people. My myers-briggs is INFJ-A. I thrive on intelligent conversation and become quite bored and lost in thought during small talk or gossip and find it difficult to follow. I am sapiosexual and can be quite attracted to high levels of intelligence. I love it when a man can keep up with me intellectually.I do LOVE impact and require it as I require breathing. I enjoy the sensual side of impact with a sadistic twist. My favorite is OTK hand spankings but Tops’ hands usually wear out before my ass does, lol. Just a warning. lol.I am polyamorous. More succinctly and accurately, I am interested in relationships centered on polyfidelity. Please do not confuse polyamorous with emotionally unavailable, or someone unable to become attached. I love deeply and care a lot. I’ll probably tell you that I love you if that arises for me. I have a really big heart. I am extremely likely to tell my friends that I love them frequently.I am always open to discussing the possibility of negotiating play scenes involving impact and rope bottoming. I am not a little though I am kawaii. I am interested in playing with the right couple(s) and unattached men if you are willing to be vetted. Though I do prefer relationships with men in established and healthy relationships. I am solo poly and am not interested in a primary relationship.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, Mary, Jane, needs, wants, desires, Demisexual, sapiosexual, impact, poly, brat, OTK, polyfidelity, bottom, rope, relationshipKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #Mary #Jane #needs #wants #desires #Demisexual #sapiosexual #impact #poly #brat #OTK #polyfidelity #bottom #rope #relationship

#371 - Megan Stubbs - Playing Without A PartnerWhat do you get when you cross a Sexologist and an Author? You get Megan Stubbs and her soon-to-be-published (May 11, 2021) book on Playing Without A Partner. Megan holds degrees in Human Sexuality and Biology. Dr. Megan Stubbs is an energetic multi-media savvy Sexologist. She has been building a brand that has sexual wellness, education, and pleasure at the forefront. With her respective degrees in Biology and Human Sexuality, she is able to combine two of her favorite things, science and sex, into a cohesive platform to impact her audience. She is mindful of inclusion and brings a sensitivity to ethnic diversity rooted in her own complex heritage. Her programming is designed to entertain and educate with actionable steps and information the participants can use as soon as they leave. She is frequently quoted in national media outlets, writes a column in Playboy, appears on television, speaks on campuses across the nation, and hosts private events around the world. Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, Megan, Stubbs, sexologist, author, playing, without, partner, book, biology, sexual, pleasure, sexLinks: Pre-Order on Amazon Megan’s PageKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #Megan #Stubbs #sexologist #author #playing #without #partner #book #biology #sexual #pleasure #sex

#372 - HotRedNextDoor - Prolific WriterThis week Serena Red crossed our path all the way from London. The kinky, exhibitionist hot redhead next-door. She calls herself a masochistic slut who will brat for beatings. See what this writer and OnlyFans kinkster has going on! Here is what she has to say about herself…Top three things you should know about me:Total slut #slutsuniteRedhead, duhThink I’m super funny but I'm actually not.I’ve been on the BDSM scene for approximately four years now and enjoy lots of things about the lifestyle. A few of my favourite things are:♥ Being told I’m a “Good Girl” by Sir and only Him♥ Being choked/ hair pulled/ restrained♥ Being a bratty little sub and being punished for it… (puts the glitter down and backs away slooowly…)♥ Being beaten until my ass is purple disappears into puddle of goo♥ Women. Because (**drools) **♥♥ Being pampered like the Princess I am♥ Bonus: glittery platforms ♥ ♥ ♥More recently I have been exploring my exhibitionist side. I like nothing more than you lovely fellow perverts/princesses/kittens perving on my photos and telling me how much you love them.I like being a dirty little Princess for all to see and have you showering my body with love. To see more than what you get on here visit @hotredheadnextdoor. Cum see how much this Princess likes showing off!Custom request for photos and videos will always be considered ♥Links: FetLife. OnlyFans. Twitter. Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, hot, red, next, door, hotrednextdoor, writer, blogger, onlyfans, red hair, slut, BDSM, masochistic, exhibitionist, brat, photo, videoKeywords: podcast #kinkycast #hot #red #next #door #hotrednextdoor #writer #blogger #onlyfans #red hair #slut #BDSM #masochistic #exhibitionist #brat #photo #video

#373 - Dr. Emma Logenberry - Psycholigist/DominatrixThis week we meet Dr. Emma Logenberry a qualified Clinical Psychologist (DCl in Psych) and a Professional Dominatrix based in the UK. She qualified as a Clinical Psychologist nearly 20 years ago and transitioned to working as a full-time Professional Dominatrix over the last few years. Understanding the importance of relationships, work therapeutically, and flexibility within a BDSM-friendly context. She offers individual and couple sessions - drawing on flexibility within psychology and kink to offer exciting, therapeutic, and innovative sessions.Website links: www.mistressloganberry.com https://onlyfans.com/msloganberry https://linktr.ee/msloganberryKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Emma, loganberry, psychologist, clinical, dominatrix, professional, pro, BDSM, sessions, therapy, couples, innovativeKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #Emma #loganberry #psychologist #clinical #dominatrix #professional #pro #BDSM #sessions #therapy #couples #innovative

#374 - Rain DeGrey - A Year in Strange TimesRain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes in making sex education fun and engaging and has taught on a wide variety of topics at numerous venues including Harvard University, Northwestern University, Kink.com, The Citadel, Dark Odyssey, Folsom Street Fair, KinkAcadamy, Thunder in the Mountains, and Boundcon.Links: Rain DeGreyWriter, Educator, Performer raindegrey.com Patreon: Rain DeGreyTwitter: @raindegrey FetLife: Rain DeGrey Facebook: Rain DeGrey Instagram: Rain DeGreyKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, rain, degrey, educator, performer, writer, podcaster, model, bondage, beds, kink, sex, relationshipsKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #rain #degrey #educator #performer #writer #podcaster #model #bondage #beds #kink #sex #relationships

#375 - The Woods' on VoyeurismMnMorningWood and GingercurlyMWood are kinksters and Fetsters from the Minneapolis area. Ginger is the cute one.They are a committed couple, often seen at munches, parties, and educational events of all kinds that are part of the rich kink scene in Minnesota.They both have a voyeuristic slant - not just watching people at play, but also voyeurs constantly gaining a deeper understanding of their personal passions and those of their friends. They feel Fet is a voyeuristic feast for both the eyes and the mind-- so many players and so many ways we let our kink come out to play. They love watching others at play just as much as they love learning what motivates their friends and their unique kinks. When not at events, they can be found sharing pillow talk about kink and their lifestyle, discussing the dynamics of BDSM, D/s and all aspects of life in this community and how we get on as kinky fuckers.Ginger is a kinky woman with a romantic and passionate core, who expresses it enthusiastically and exclusively with her partner, and sometimes even writes about it. She is widely known in our community by her many great friends, as a warm, supportive soul, and an encouraging voyeur.MnMorning was a prolific writer on Fet, posting about the enjoyment of sex through both fiction and memoirs, as well as the writer of a very popular post: "How to Eat Pussy." He really wants all of us to have better sex, and won’t stop talking and writing about it.Both are monogamous and happy, which makes them sometimes feel like a rare species in the kink community. Though they express it unconventionally, there are threads of D/s that are core to their daily life. They always have new areas they wish to explore together, their next planned adventure being a deeper dive into the sensuous side of ropes play.Links: Ginger’s Fet Page Morning Wood’s Fet Page Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, ginger, morning, wood, voyeurism, voyeur, exhibition, sex, photo, outside, motel, swinger, BDSM, MNKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #ginger #morning #wood #voyeurism #voyeur #exhibition #sex #photo #outside #motel #swinger #BDSM #MN

#376 - Ragnar Northman - Edge Play ResourceMeet Ragnar Northman, a 37 year old, edge player from the twin cities. For the majority of his waking life, he's had an interest in the more extreme side of kink and sex. A Master to two beautiful slaves, and operates a Twin Cities Edge-play group on discord. Starting off as a local group of people and have branched out to host members from around the world. This group calls the Discord group server our Creepy Cottage in the woods. Ragnar is a very outgoing person and enjoys talking with people and hearing their stories. So hit him up and tell him a story in the (digital) cottage. If your'e interested in joining the discord, please click the link below and follow the vetting instructions upon arrival. This is not for the faint of heart, you’ve been warned. Discord link Ragnar’s Fetlife linkKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, ragnar, northman, discord, edge, edgeplay, play, creepy, cottage, MN, server, group, storiesKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #ragnar #northman #discord #edge #edgeplay #play #creepy #cottage #MN #server #group #stories

#377 - Lord Jericho & Epona Camelot on BeastialityLord Jericho and Epona Camelot hope to make tomorrow's world slightly better than it was yesterday. Please support their stance: Children & Animals are incapable of giving proper consent. Pedophilia and Zoophilia/Beastiality deserve no home within a Kink community. We must shed light on the years of its existence in the dark corners of our communities/ websites and expunge it.Lord Jericho now writes on Medium, and is forming a house based in M/s and volunteerism. Epona-Camelot is a horse enthusiast, longtime rider/trainer, and will soon hold a masters degree.Links: Lord Jericho on Fet Epona-Camelot on FetKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, jericho, camelot, beastiality, zoophilia, illegal, groups, outing, safety, consentKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, jericho, camelot, beastiality, zoophilia, illegal, groups, outing, safety, consent

#378 - Kurt Krueger - Art Kink Porn PhotographerKurt Krueger was born in a small steel town in Pennsylvania in 1952 and has had a camera in his hand since the age of 13. After receiving a Bachelor’s Degree in biology and being accepted into medical school, he decided instead to switch gears and follow his dream by attending Art Center College of Design in California, where he studied photography and filmmaking. After leaving Art Center, Kurt concentrated on models’ portfolios, magazines and record covers by first working in the fashion and record industry in Los Angeles. In 1977, Kurt moved to New York City where he had two different photography studios and concentrated on advertising, fashion and glamour photography. It was in 1981 that Kurt founded his adult greeting card company “Brazen Images, Inc.” which specialized in erotic and naughty sexual images offset by humorous captions and gag lines. It had been an overnight success which received international acclaim. Magazines around the world featured articles on both Kurt’s fine art photography as well as his Brazen Images greeting cards. In 1983, Kurt and his wife moved operations to the suburb of White Plains, NY and raised a family. At its peak, Brazen Images had 85 domestic sales representatives and distribution in five countries. Kurt was featured on television shows such as Phil Donahue - and The Playboy Channel did a feature story on him for their show “Sexcetera”. Brazen Images, Inc. lasted exactly 25 years – from Christmas Eve 1981 to Christmas Eve 2006. In 2007 Kurt relocated to Florida where he continues to work as a photographer exploring his creative needs for his own books.Links:deviantART: http://kurtkrueger.deviantart.com/?rnrd=34396Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1289736652&tsid=0.9010251783765852&FetLife: https://fetlife.com/users/904326MeWe.com: https://mewe.com/i/kurt.kruegerTwitter: @kurtkrueger8Kurt’s Bookstore: “The Erotic Adventures Of Amy” and “LIPS” are both now part of the Museum Of Sex in NYC and The Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. His latest book: “LIPS” (Complete Edition) It’s also available as an eBook.‬ “The Erotic Adventures Of Amy” http://www.blurb.com/b/7201623-the-erotic-adventures-of-amyKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, photo, photographer, Kurt, Krueger, art, kink, porn, erotic, playboy, art center, Brazen, images, sexcetraKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #photo #photographer #Kurt #Krueger #art #kink #porn #erotic #playboy #art center #Brazen #images #sexcetra

#379 - Sir Ezra - Mind FuckerySir Ezra identifies as a Polyamorous Pansexual Dominant Sexual Sadist. He specializes in edge play, including fire play, knife play, electroplay, whips and mindfucking. He enjoys doing heavy impact scenes and receiving service from his collared property Queen Ana Algos and others. Sir Ezra is the founder of the Leather/BDSM household, The House Of Algos. He co-founded the body/gender positive party “The ChamPAIN Room'' and the edge play party “Club Inferno”. He is the Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX as well as a BDSM Life Coach at WhatsInMyKinky.com.Ezra's book "Mindfucking Mindfully: a Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism" is available at Amazon.com after May 21st and before that as a preorder on gumroad.com/HouseOfAlgos.This text is the first guide book for erotic mindfucking. In it you will learn about common practices, how to distinguish between ethical, consensual and erotic mindfucking and mindfucking that is not all three. You will also get to hear, hot and informative mindfucking stories from Sir Ezra and many more in the BDSM community. The first 100 books purchased on pre-order will include a signed copy and a special gift.Website: HouseOfAlgos.comPatreon: Patreon.com/HouseOfAlgosLink for Sanctuary: SanctuaryLAX.comBook Pre-Order Page: gumroad.com/houseofalgos#cMtWGEmail: HouseOfAlgos@gmail.comSocial media handles: (instagram, Twitter, Facebook, Tiktok) @HouseOfAlgosKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, kinky, Ezra, algos, house, mind, fuck, mindfuck, fuckery, mindfucking, edge#podcast #kinkycast #kink #kinky #Ezra #algos #house #mind #fuck #mindfuck #fuckery #mindfucking #edge

#380 - Sissy Kimee - SisifacationSissification is a kink role when a male submissive takes on a feminine role out of submission. Sissification can be different from being trans or being a cross dresser because the sissy may not identify as a female or wanting to be female. Being a sissy is also often paired with being locked in chastity. Chastity is often required in a Female Domme/male submissive dynamic so that the male sub can give up all control over his sex life and orgasms. Sissy kimee (kimchi-kimee on fetlife) is a submissive sissy who serves a Dominant Female and is locked in chastity as a requirement of his submission. By being locked in chastity, sissy kimee can focus all of his sexual energy and frustration in serving his Domme through domestic service and oral worship.Link: Kimee’s Fetlife pageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, sex, sissy, kimee, sisifacation, chastity, submissive, sex, serviceKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #kink #sex #sissy #kimee #sisifacation #chastity #submissive #sex #service

#381 - Woody & Doc Vanilla - Let’s Talk About SexThis week Doc V and Woody get down to a vast collection of questions sent in by listeners. Some of the highlights are: Teen sex, STI, Hook Ups, Birth Control, Community, Consent, Safety and more! Doctor Vanilla went to a mid western land grant university and earned a masters in human development and family studies and a masters in sociology. She is a feminist scholar with area of emphasis on the sociology of family as well as family policy. Her current interests include trans rights and racism.Doc V will join us to address your questions in future shows. Send your questions or comments to: Questions@KinkyCast.comKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, sex, dr, doctor, vanilla, talk, questions, sti, teen, hookup, birth, control, community, safety Keywords: #podcast #kinkycast #sex #dr #doctor #vanilla #talk #questions #sti #teen #hookup #birth #control #community #safety

#382 - Alluring Onyx - Blind and KinkyDetails, details, details! As a sighted person Woody takes a lot for granted. This week Woody talks with Alluring Onyx. Why Alluring, listen and find out, you will learn a lot about blind people, and even more about this week’s guest. Onyx is a 28-year-old 6’4 cisgender queer and polyamorous Black woman living in Oakland. She is also blind. Curious about how she uses FetLife? Want to be her submissive or Daddy Dom to “take care of her,” because she’s blind? Into sensory deprivation and turned on by the fact that blind people have more heightened senses? Please exit stage left immediately. Any ableism in her inbox will be shut down swiftly. If you are genuinely interested in getting to know Onyx, there will be plenty of time to understand blindness. There is no need to lead in with just your curiosities when there are much more tantalizing things you and Onyx could explore. . . If you would like to have her present about blindness, disability access, ableism, building a culture of consent or diversity & inclusion feel free to reach out to her @AlluringOnyx on FetLife.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, alluring, onyx, blind, kinky, play, sighted, Oakland, black, sensory, ableism, understand, blindnessTags: #podcast #kinkycast #alluring #onyx #blind #kinky #play #sighted #Oakland #black #sensory #ableism #understand #blindness

#383 - MksThingsHappin - Presenter and CoachMksThingsHappin (Makes Things Happen), or Peter is one of Chicago’s own presenters. He has been a part of the Chicago kink scene since 2012, and has a love for many types of play, including impact, needle play, rope, and more. He serves on the presenter selection committee for Kinky Kollege, and is a presenter on rotation for Wild and Sublime a local stage cabaret talk show. He has also been a guest moderator for the Power Exchange Roundtables.Sex, Kink and Relationship Coaching for Singles and Couples. With over 6500 hours of direct experience, Peter is well versed in a wide range of kinks and relationship structures. He specializes in negotiation and communication in different relationship dynamics, including individuals, couples, or polyamorous groupings. Peter helps people connect more fully with each other and themselves, prioritize sex, and maintain vibrant and fulfilling relationships.Link: MksThingsHappen fet pageKeywords: Podcast, kinkycast, kinky, kink, BDSM, makes, things, happen, mis, Peter, Chicago, presenter, college, power, exchange, roundtable, relationship, coaching, sex, poly, PolyamorousKeywords: #Podcast #kinkycast #kinky #kink #BDSM #makes #things #happen #mks #Peter #Chicago #presenter #college #power #exchange #roundtable #relationship #coaching #sex #poly #Polyamorous

#384 - BDSM Museum Hamburg (Germany)Imagine a public place for all to learn about the kinky world we know…Our Mission as a non-profit organization is to increase acceptance and understanding of BDSM culture in the public perception. We pursue this with a permanent, publicly accessible facility in the service of society and its development, which procures and preserves material and immaterial testimonies from people and their environment to the cultural object BDSM for the purpose of study, education, encounter and experience, researches, makes known and exhibits.Self-image We started this project because we have made the experience that deviant sexual preferences can lead to misunderstanding, prejudice and rejection or even violence and abuse, and the public consciousness stereotypical or discriminatory views on BDSM from a lack of understanding what BDSM is what matters. The abbreviation “BDSM” stands for “Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism and Masochism”. For us, BDSM means that adults meet each other (sexually) with mutual consent, respect and esteem. BDSM is a personal and intimate form of expression and culture, the evidence of which goes back several centuries. Violence and abuse is not part of BDSM and associated practices.We also pursue education and sensitization for a differentiated view of sexuality and the prevention of abuse through education.values Education: We understand cultural education through BDSM as a way of dealing with people’s sexuality, society and the context in which it takes place, regardless of age, gender, origin, social reality and worldview. Integration: The BDSM Museum builds on Hamburg’s long tradition of open-mindedness and tolerance. We are open to new ideas, involve people and discuss with them on an equal footing. We are looking for cooperation with science, education and the media. Knowledge-driven: We are independent, neutral and feel committed to the principles of good educational and scientific practice. By dealing with the BDSM culture and changes in the present, we develop new impulses for the content at the museum as well as through our own and external research. A transparent handling of information about work, changes and processes in the museum is important to us.The BDSM Museum strives for the greatest possible accessibility. We see personal development and further development through the education and support of employees, their skills and creativity as an essential core of the work of this museum. Communal: This museum is a project by the community for the general public. Regardless of formal structures and hierarchies, everyone who works with or in the museum encourages respectful and fair interaction. People of all origins, sexes, genders and ages work equally with one another, regardless of their way of life.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, BDSM, museum, hamburg, Germany, learning, non-profit, public, kink, kinky, knowledge, curator, janus, solea, Lisa, educationKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #BDSM #museum #Hamburg #Germany #learning #non-profit #public #kink #kinky #knowledge #curator #janus #solea #Lisa #education

#385 - Lady Katie - The Sapphire Dungeon Lady Katie one of East Tennessee’s top Femdoms.Since beginning her kink journey and exploring more than a decade ago, she has since became a well known Female Dominant. Her commitment to educating others, to the local community, to her play partners, and private clients care keep people coming back again and again to her. Lady Katie never stops improving, and will continue to expand her own personal knowledge and skills to better serve as a highly ranked Femdom in East Tennessee. She is the owner of The Sapphire, a bdsm members only dungeon in Knoxville, she offers professional private sessions, service tops at local events, host educational classes, organizes The Aquiescent Academy weekend training for submissives, she holds munches and parties, and so much more! She also co-host a popular BDSM 101 YouTube channel called “The Bonding Experience 101", link at the bottom of the page. So follow on her social media pages to either get in touch or follow along the journey. The Sapphire is a 3,500 square foot dungeon located in Knoxville Tennessee that is owned and managed by Lady Katie. This is a Members Only dungeon; however you can receive a guest membership from either a member or attending a few open vanilla events to be vetted, like munches, classes, and etc. If you are traveling from out of town and would like to visit just for the time you're in town please contact Lady Katie. This dungeon is available for private rental for events or for overnight stays. We do offer two bedrooms that are attached to the dungeon for the overnight stays, again, contact Lady Katie for more info. We are a BDSM dungeon only. You are required to show your ID and to sign a rule/waiver form when attending The Sapphire. We allow ages 21 and up, we are a RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe Sane & Consensual) supporting venue, and ask that you be pre-educated on basic play space etiquette. If you need education on the basic etiquettes then see Lady Katie's YouTube channel for Dungeon etiquette video, link at bottom of the page. Lady Katie also co-host’s "The Bonding Experience" on YouTube, a BDSM 101 channel the link is down below.https://ladykatietn.wixsite.com/ladykatiehttps://www.instagram.com/_theladykatie_/Lady Katie’s Fet Page https://fetlife.com/users/6523246The Sapphire Fet Page https://fetlife.com/users/10864952https://www.youtube.com/c/TheBondingExperience101Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, lady, Katie, sapphire, dungeon, Knoxville, femdom, youtube, member, community, prodom, rack, SSC, Aquiescent, AcademyKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #lady #Katie #sapphire #dungeon #Knoxville #femdom #youtube #member #community #prodom #rack #SSC #Aquiescent #Academy

#SE - Kitty St. Valentine - Madilynn York - Awakened"Submission takes many forms. Sometimes it’s strict, Gorean protocol. Sometimes it’s complicated “scenes” with rope, fire, wax, and an array of scary looking - particularly to the untrained eye - implements. It’s not always passive, but it’s not always complicated. —- Sometimes it’s just eating a waffle with strawberry jam.”So says Anna, a Kitten searching for home, love, and happiness. She travels the Tarot cycle from the Fool to the Sun to the World— and along the way finds her affinity for strong men, beautiful women and yummy dessert inexorably leads to something more than a relationship. And that the ties that bind are deeper than anything she has been taught before.She travels the full Tarot cycle from the Fool to the Sun only to learn that the most durable binds are ones we create for ourselves.Available today on Amazon (here)Podcast, kinkycast, marilynn, york, kitty, st., valentine, awakened, tarot, cycle, submission, dominance, control, switch, novel#Podcast #kinkycast #madilynn #york #kitty #st. #valentine #awakened #tarot #cycle #submission #dominance #control #switch #novel

#386 - RopeTigerDaddy - All About Kissing (To listen, scroll down to the bottom of the page)Who is Rope Tiger Daddy, read on…A Primal Tiger:To me, being a primal isn’t a game. I didn't set out to "be" a tiger, nor do I play as one. It just fits me and my personality. The way to my heart is fucking, food and naps. I am lazy and reserve my energy for those who I wish to spend it on. Which means I don't keep a group of friends or a pack. I don't pursue and hunt down prey. It comes to me. And when it comes to me, teeth and claws are what I become.A Complex Sadist: I am CONSENSUALLY PROVOCATIVE. The meaning of that word has been bastardized. Provocative - "causing ........ another strong reaction, especially deliberately." To sum up what I enjoy the most is to see someone struggle (pain or pleasure) and to know I caused that struggle. I'm a Buddhist so I believe in not harming others unless they really really want me to. I love tools and implements but I also love fucking with someone's mind. I've been called a "laughing sadist" because I genuinely enjoy what I do.A Rigger:I believe in rope used in the traditional sense which is not to just decorate and not to create patterns and designs but rather to make the bottom feel something. That something could be shame or Domination or pain or pleasure. But my rope is a feeling rope, not just aesthetic.Tonight’s subjectKissing….UGGHHHHHHOk boys and girls, time to talk about a passion of mine: Kissing.I wrote about kissing before. It was funny that some people got perturbed and called it the least kinky thing ever. Well, I tend to disagree. In this four-part essay, I will write about. Why kissing is the best fucking thing ever. What constitutes a good kiss. Why you are probably doing it wrong. How to get better. Kissing is the basis of sex. Can you have sex without it? Yes, you can have sex without a lot of things. For me, they are intertwined. Because my kink and D/s is sexual, therefore logically follows that I can't have kink or D/s without kissing. Logic!!I mean if I have to convince you that kissing is great you are probably the type of person that tortures small animals. I'm not saying you do for sure. But the chances are pretty high.If a woman fucks me well I'll keep seeing her. If she sucks dick really good I might make her my girlfriend. But if she kisses great I will fall in love. End of story.I want that type of kiss that makes me throw you up against the wall with my hand on your throat. The kind where we lose track of time. The kind where you are fucking up a whole room and creating a giant mess and no one cares. That type of kiss that makes me more primal than blood and makes my dick harder than a blowjob.The kiss is the connection that builds greater connections.What constitutes a good kiss? I think its different to different people. But I think we all agree it has to be balanced. The mouth has to be open but not too open. The tongue has to be there but he has to hang back a bit and not be a dick. There has to be a press between the participants but not too much. Some movement and switches but not constant. And not too much of any one thing and not too little of any either.Ok....controversy. If no one has ever told you that you are a good kisser then you probably suck. I don't make these rules up. Also if someone has tried to pry your lips open and force anything. If they have to hold the back of your head to press you closer. If someone has had to chase you or move body position. All pretty definitive signs in my opinion.I don't believe people are innately good kissers. I think they have to be adaptable to their partner. I think good kissers are made. Great kissers make themselves. Adaptation is the greatest power when it comes to kissing. If you are unwilling to meet your partner halfway or to think maybe you aren't a bad kisser then you will always probably suck at it. Sorry.But in my experience there are two types of kissers. The stubborn ones (y’all are all in my comments right now defending your odd techniques) and the adaptable ones. You already know which is superior.Sins of kissing!!!!!!:Lips pursed, mouth closed (are you my fucking auntie?)No tongue or all tongueKeeping gum in!!! (WHY GOD WHY??) Not conscious of bad breathEyes closed (not all the time at least)No engagement (takes two to tango)Sucking on tongue (just no) (OK, some of you like this. Fuckin weirdos. If someone sucks my tongue I will fuck your face with it. 100% LOL)How to get better? Some of you never will. Period. If someone told you that you were a bad kisser it would not compute. But if you are interested in it, try this technique. Match your partner. Mirror them. If they use 30% tongue, try 30% tongue. If they open their mouth 90 degrees, do the same. Because chances are the way people kiss is the way they want to be kissed. You can actually dial the number back and have them meet you halfway. You both might find a happy medium.Conversely!!! If someone sucks at kissing, mirror them back. They will see just how dopey it is to never open their mouth or to have a tongue shoved to their uvula. Or they may just think you are an awesome kisser. And in that case at least one of you can be happy!Kissing is not that hard folks. But some of you are making it hard!RTD’s Fet PagePodcast, kinkycast, kissing, kiss, rope, tiger, daddy, ropetigerdaddy, sex, relationship, open, kisser, bad, good#Podcast #kinkycast #kissing #kiss #rope #tiger #daddy #ropetigerdaddy #sex #relationship #open #kisser #bad #good

#387 - Torch the Witch - Did Somebody Say Slut? (To listen to today’s guest, scroll down)This week Torch the Witch returns to address the word SLUT. Why is this such a big issue with vanillas and the non-kinky? Torch is a Stand-Up Comic in addition to her efforts to be a sexual being. Here is how it unfolds… I started stripping at 18, became a Jesus Freak at 34, and at 49 I got into kinky sex.So basically, my life is a Jesus sandwich on slut bread.With extra mayo.I had many adventures in Stripperland and Jesusland. Fetlife is where my Kinkland adventures manifest. My sexuality has always been tied to my identity.This place has given me a space to become. It has helped facilitate the explosion of my previously bound sexuality.This is where I found partners, friends, and hope. I found proof that I wasn’t a throwaway freak. That there were many others like me and none like me. I found a community. Here I have exchanged time, laughs and gifts. Secrets, bodily fluids and recipes.Suck My Cock: A Slut is BornSuck my cock.Those three little words have a powerful effect on me. They race from my brain, directly to my pussy. It's a primal reaction that takes me by surprise sometimes with its urgency and vehemence. My jaw slackens. I want to fall to my knees like I was just healed by a televangelist.I'll never forget the time I first heard someone say the phrase "Suck my cock." It was summer, I was about 10 years old and there were a good dozen of us neighbourhood kids playing in the still-being-constructed church 2 houses down the road. It was a massive structure; we skateboarded on the second floor, played hide and seek, Charlie's Angels. All day, every day.One of the kids was a dark haired Italian kid. I don't even remember his name. He and some other kid were having some dumb kid argument over a skateboard when I heard him say 'Suck my cock!' to his buddy and it was like someone hit me with a baseball bat.Now I didn't grow up in a prudish home. As some of you may recall, my parents leaned towards the freaky side, just a tad. I'd heard all the crude rugby songs. But damn, I hadn't heard that particular phrase before. It did something to me. A flush went through me. I felt a throbbing pulse between my legs and an image flashed before my eyes - one that I can still see to this day. It was him, but he was all grown up. He was naked and beautiful, standing on the top of a mountain, hands on his hips, one foot slightly raised on a rock, a tilted gold crown on his head, a naked redheaded woman at his feet, his cock in her mouth.Where did that image come from? I'd not seen anything like it despite my dad's Penthouse rags. Was it innate? A memory from a previous life? Could someone who didn't know anything about sucking cock conjure up a provocative image like that?I pondered that image with much discomfort most of my life. What did it mean? Was it political? Sexual? Both? The hardest question of all was 'why did it turn me on so much?' I hated that it turned me on. What did it say about me? I'm supposed to be a feminist! The symbolism of this image is too stark! I can't believe I made it! ( I should add I've since come to feel nothing but peace with this aspect of my sexuality in the past couple of years.)There's this dark haired man that I am very attracted to. He is very masculine. He makes me very hot. Recently in one soaking, smoking exchange of word energy he wrote. "I want you to be that strong woman who doesn't need me, who fucking owns her life. And when I see you, I want you on all fours, holes ready."Baseball bat again.My cunt just about exploded on the spot. God, that's what I want. That's who I am. I do want it all, romance and raunch. But that kind of talk from the right man just reduces me to a puddle of feminist brain goo. There's no rhyme or reason. It just is.It hit me recently. I knew from that day on. The day I heard 'Suck my cock." I knew that I was a slut and it filled me with secret joy. That was the day a slut was born. —Torch the WitchSee Torch’s Fet page and her writings, here!Podcast, kinkycast, torch, witch, slut, suck, cock, canada, age, sexual, born, cunt#Podcast #kinkycast #torch #witch #slut #suck #cock #canada #age #sexual #born #cunt

#388 - Life in Denver as a Poly TriadThe KinkyCast looks for all types of alternative relationships. Today we found a triad in Denver that came together by our changing times of Covid. Meet, Nikki, Minxy, and Jack of the Poly Triad. They are a polyamorous triad that formed a couple of months before the pandemic! The hard work they’ve put into our relationship through our individual and group therapy has been paramount to our success as a triad. "We’ve gone through quite a journey together including starting our own successful OnlyFans account, to traveling together and scuba diving in Honduras. We’ve spent nearly every waking moment together and somehow… We haven’t killed each other yet. This is our journey into the poly life, BDSM, and becoming content creators.” Talk to the triad at the links below.https://fetlife.com/users/12813406https://onlyfans.com/poly_triadhttps://linktr.ee/polytriadKeywords: Podcast, kinkycast, triad, poly, Denver, polyamorous, Nikki, minxy, jack, relationship, therapy, onlyfans, journey, content, creators#Podcast #kinkycast #triad #poly #Denver #polyamorous #Nikki #minxy #jack #relationship #therapy #onlyfans #journey #content #creators

#SE - Frolicon October 15-17, 2021 - PreShow with PamIt feels like we have been waiting forever for Frolicon to come around. Canceled last spring due to Covid, canceled later last year because we weren’t quite ready… And now iti's time! Book your tickets for October 15 to 17, yes, this year, 2021! The Frolicon crew has put together a great time for all and it will be back in Atlanta at our fave hotel, the Sheraton. All the great times, classes, demos, vendors, art, gaming and SO MUCH more. Hotel rooms are available and tickets are on sale, now. Our host Pam introduces us to what’s going on this year. The presenters are still being finalized, so hop in and get booked. We are expecting a big crowd this year and everyone wants to get their kink back on! Check out the pre-show and see you in Atlanta in October.Link: https://frolicon.com/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, Frolicon, Atlanta, October, 2021, pam, host, tickets, hotel, classes, education, gamer#podcast #kinkycast #Frolicon #Atlanta #October #2021 #pam #host #tickets #hotel #classes #education #gamer

#389 - Daciana - Uncompromising QualityThis week we found Daciana (Dah-Sea-Ah-Nah) on Fet. What piqued our interest was her uncompromising desires to have a lifestyle relationship.“Even though I am currently single, I’m firmly ethically non-monogamous and am at my happiest when I’m in open-polyamorous relationships." She has a big heart that's full of love just ready to be given out, and plenty of emotional energy to go around. “I'd love to have great friendships with my metamours as well. Family unit FTW! 😍""I dream of one day having a real D/s power exchange, poly relationship with a cis man or cis men that co-Dom together, (but only one authority power overall; singular or shared authority position due to my limit of spoons for submission). I'm sexually attracted to certain women I've encountered, usually ones that enjoy sexually bottoming to me, however I do not desire a lifestyle dynamic where I am a Dominant to anyone. I have yet to be convinced if romantic emotions are possible with a woman but I am open to the possibility. I enjoy sex with a woman more often than not when it's just us playing, with no man involved. On average, however, I’m more frequently sexually attracted to masculine men than any other gender."Daci has sadistic tendencies too. "I love watching sexy humans of any gender get a spanking or just generally get hurt in a consensual manner. If there's blood involved, I may shamelessly drool. However, I'm not really into watching, or participating in, most all forms of degradation play. I have only ever universally sexually enjoyed topping attractive women, I'm extremely picky about which men I might explore topping with. I do not enjoy bottoming to women, it's just not my cuppa""I'm not really a sexual voyeur in general, only universally a sadistic one. However, I do enjoy watching sexy men with yummy cocks masturbate, or attractive men fucking each other (omg yum), I don’t get any pleasure from watching women have sex with each other, and usually, I only enjoy watching M/f sex if it’s a believable CNC or a heavy pain play scene, or if it’s a really big cock and the camera shot is mostly focused on the man."Link: https://fetlife.com/users/1118828Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, daci, Daciana, uncompromising, Quality, relationship, top, bottom, switch, sadist, power, exchange, family, non-monogamous, open, poly#podcast #kinkycast #daci #Daciana #uncompromising #Quality #relationship #top #bottom #switch #sadist #power #exchange #family #non-monogamous #open #poly

#SE - Slave Elisha - Author of Yoga For KinkyYoga for Kink is an instructional yoga book. It is broken into three sections: upper body bondage, lower body bondage, and full body bondage. Within each section, there are photos of models tied into various bondage positions. Following that, I provide a list of yoga poses that will help prepare the body to get into those bondage positions – or positions similar to it, along with step by step instructions on getting into the yoga pose. There are photos of each yoga pose, including modifications for bodies who are not yet able to get into the full pose.Join the movement, visit the Indiegogo fund raiser! https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/yoga-for-kink/#/Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, book, yoga, kink, kinky, Elisha, yoga for kink, fund, raiser, indiegogo, crowd, exercise#podcast #kinkycast #book #yoga #kink #kinky #Elisha #yoga for kink #fund #raiser #indiegogo #crowd #exercise

#390 - Lord Jericho and Epona Camelot - Pedophilia, a Personal StoryThe Paddle Priest Lord Jericho and Slave Epona Camelot return for part two of the " They Can't Consent / They Can't Kink" series.This series focuses on disassociating, blocking access, and weeding individuals of our local communities and websites who participate or promote pedophilia, child pornography, and zoophilia/beastiality. They violate the principles of consent, a foundation of BDSM and Kink.Part one in episode #377 focused on zoophilia/beastiality. Part two, here, focuses on pedophilia. Steps have been taken to minimize any content that may be triggering to those with histories."We encourage you to attempt using the website reporting system to give website administration a chance to act. We understand many understand this problem has existed many years, and historically, administration has been slow to act, if or when they do. Here are a few examples of other resources that you can report to, if you feel it’s appropriate and necessary.”Links:Lord Jericho’s Fet PageTips.fbi.govCybertip.cahttps://www.esafety.gov.au/report/illegal-harmful-contentEmail these Canadian New sites:sunletters@vancouversun.comhttp://www.torontosun.com/letter-to-editorKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, pedophilia, Jericho, Camelot, children, zoophilia, beastiality, consent, websites, news, Canada, action#podcast #kinkycast #pedophilia #Jericho #Camelot # children #zoophilia #beastiality #consent #websites #news #Canada #action

#SE - Susan Wright - NCSF - Model Penal Code (Scroll down to listen to the show)July 15, 2021—The American Law Institute (ALI) has approved the revised Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault, which decriminalizes BDSM activities in connection with sexual penetration, oral sex, or sexual contact. Dick Cunningham, NCSF’s Legal Counsel and member of the ALI, says, “The Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault (including unwanted or injurious contact), approved by the prestigious American Law Institute at its June meeting, is a milestone in the law’s understanding of BDSM and a major advance in the treatment of consent as the central element by which sexual contact is to be judged. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom has been deeply involved in the ALI process for over 6 years and is recognized in the ALI’s report for its many contributions.”Consent as it is practiced in the BDSM communities is accurately reflected in Section 213.10 of the MPC, with “Explicit Prior Permission” preventing criminal prosecution of activities that are truly consensual and do not result in serious injury. Permission is “explicit” when it is personally given, orally or by written agreement, along with:(a) specifying that the actor may ignore the other party’s expressions of unwillingness or other absence of consent;(b) identifying the specific forms and extent of force, restraint, or threats that are permitted; and(c) stipulating the specific words or gestures that will withdraw the permission.Watch the ALI video summarizing the new MPC on Sexual Assault – Affirmative Defense of Explicit Prior Permission starts at 14:20.Read the text of the new MPC: Sexual Assault Section 213.10 – Affirmative Defense of Explicit Prior Permission.Dick Cunningham has been assisting in the revision of the Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault as part of NCSF’s Consent Counts project, helping to establish this legal framework that acknowledges the use of safewords, protecting those who use them properly, and equipping prosecution for when they are violated or when serious harm is done. Survivors who are sexually assaulted during kink activities also may now be covered by “rape shield” laws, meaning that their prior sexual behavior with others generally can’t be used as evidence, reducing exposure to possible stigma attached to kink activities. “Without this change, BDSM practices, even when consensual, might still be violating the law,” says Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF. “In fact, there is not a single appellate court decision in the U.S. that has accepted consent as a defense in an assault or abuse prosecution arising from BDSM conduct. This case law has established that using nipple clamps or dripping hot wax on someone constitutes ‘serious bodily injury,’ when in reality, these are relatively mild activities.” Section 213.10 may be cited in opinions and briefs in cases involving BDSM activities, even in states where the legislature has not adopted the MPC on Sexual Assault. This could reduce one of the major barriers to reporting to the police by providing a legal framework that can now accommodate BDSM-related cases. For example, less than 3% of the 1,041 people who had nonconsensual experiences in a BDSM context reported it to the police (NCSF Consent Violations Survey, 2015). (A national prevalence survey in 2017 found that 30% of adults in the U.S. like to be spanked during sexual activities, 20% enjoy bondage, 13% enjoy “playful whipping,” and 22% engage in roleplay, Herbenick, 2017).In addition, the new MPC on Sexual Assault includes a general definition of consent for sexual activity, in which consent may be inferred from behavior—both action and inaction—in the context of all the circumstances. Neither verbal nor physical resistance is required to establish that consent is lacking, however consent is ineffective when given by a person who is incompetent to consent or under circumstances precluding the free exercise of consent. Currently, over 20 states have no definition of consent in their sexual assault law, and there is no uniform legal definition of consent according to RAINN.Since the founding of Consent Counts in 2006 at the Leather Caucus at NGLTF’s Creating Change conference, the project has worked to decriminalize BDSM activities. NCSF assumed responsibility for Consent Counts in 2007, and broadened the mission to decriminalize sexual conduct between consenting adults.NCSF will present a webinar on July 29 at 8 pm Eastern / 5 pm Pacific providing information on the new consent definitions for sex and for BDSM, as well as how the Consent Counts project achieved this effort. We’ll also discuss how the stigma of criminalization has impacted our communities, and brainstorm on where we can go from here. If you’d like to join, please email NCSFreedom@NCSFreedom.orgKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, susan, wright, ncsf, model, penal, code, sex, BDSM, consent, law, Ali, court, legal, protection, consensual, sexual, assault, July 15 2021#podcast #kinkycast #susan #wright #ncsf #model #penal #code #sex #BDSM #consent #law #Ali #court #legal #protection #consensual #sexual #assault #July 15 2021

#391 - The Blind SexpertLaura Millar (AKA: Blind Sexpert) is a blind outspoken disability rights and queer rights advocate who is deeply committed to advancing the field of sexual health promotion for people with disabilities. With Masters degrees in Public Health and Sexuality Studies, Laura conducts research that examines how blind and visually impaired people learn about and navigate the world of dating, sex and intimate relationships. Laura began her work with the goal of empowering people who are blind or visually impaired. Her passion and expertise have expanded to educating people with all types of disabilities, to help them comfortably navigate intimacy and physical relationships. Laura specializes in helping people break through pockets of resistance and navigate shame related to their disability and/or sexuality.Her work highlights the importance of creating a culture that centers around consent and strives to live in a world where talking about and obtaining consent is not only the norm but ex­­­pected in every situation! Laura’s current services also include group education and one-on-one coaching. Training programs are available for teachers, trainers, group facilitators, and for people with disabilities and their family members. She can be reached at laura@lauramillar.com. Let’s create a culture of consent together.FetLife LinkKeywords: Podcast, kinkycast, Laura, Millar, blind, blindsexpert, sexpert, disability, rights, queer, advocate, studies, sexuality #Podcast #kinkycast #Laura #Millar #blind #blindsexpert #sexpert. #disability #rights #queer #advocate #studies #sexuality

#392 - Dr. Jenni - Medical PlayDr. Jenni is a physicist by day and amature historian of the medical arts by night. She has been engaging in medical play of various forms as a sadomasochistic switch. We discuss the safety considerations of this type of play which often involves exposure to different bodily fluids. We also delve into the mental and emotional aspects of medical fetishes including role-playing, objectification, and humiliation. Dr. Jenni also discusses her motivations for bottoming for medical play including large gauge needles and hook pulls and suspensions.Link: Dr. Jenni’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, doctor, dr, Jenni, medical, play, sadomasochist, sadistic, restraints, top, phd#podcast #kinkycast #doctor #dr #Jenni #medical #play #sadomasochist #sadistic #restraints #top #phd

#393 - BadBeast - Big Event - Kinky KollegeKinky Kollege Homecoming 2021- this October 8-10, 2021 - ChicagoThis week Bruce, the event director, explains the broad selection of classes, culture of consent, and sexual community spirit at this inclusive twice-yearly event.A pansexual kink event at a hotel in Chicago. The Nation’s top Alternative Lifestyle Educators will be at Kinky Kollege offering classes throughout the weekend. 50+ Classes, Vendors, and 15,000 square feet of play space.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kinky, college, college, bruce, badbeast, homecoming, spring break, Chicago, con, education, presenterKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #kinky #college #college #bruce #badbeast #homecoming #spring break #Chicago #con #education #presenter

#394 - A Lifetime of Healthy SexJoin Woody and Nurse Ratched for a time travel of our sexual being getting older. For the listeners that think it shrivels up and falls off after a certain age, it doesn’t! Good sex into your seventies, and beyond is a reality and with no end in sight. Let’s be clear, sex is more than intercourse, a lot more. Think of romance, teasing, sex play, BDSM play, edging, oral and then add in full-on fucking! Exercise that giant organ, the brain and let it do the work. Sex can improve over your lifetime. If you think you have good sex now, hold on, it gets even better. Open your mind with patience, perseverance, and diligence, sex can get even better. Questions: Woody’s email Nurse Ratched’s emailKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Woody, nurse, watched, racket, lifetime, sex, healthy, old age, organ, brain, BDSM, edging, mind, old, young, menopause, diabetesKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #Woody #nurse #watched #racket #lifetime #sex #healthy #old age #organ #brain #BDSM #edging #mind #old #young #menopause #diabetes

#395 - Meet the 3 Founders of Kynk101 This week Woody speaks with the three founders of Kynk101, a website and podcast. Meet Shadow, DD, and Glass, a truly international effort to help fellow kinksters discover new kinks and how to play. Hop on over to a website that put the ‘Y’ in kink! Here is the website, Kynk101.com to check out the great resources. Educational and reliable information on a broad list of mainstream and edgy fetishes. There are articles, journals and an interesting thing called “Kink in the wild”. Kink at a glance, or KAAG as they call it, lets you search through their massive robust database and find related fetishes. And listen to DD’s sexy English accent!Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, kink, 101, dd, glass, shadow, website, discover, educational, look up, search#podcast #kinkycast #kink #101 #dd #glass #shadow #website #discover #educational #look up #search

#396 - Tom from hardART on PhotographyThis week Woody speaks with Tom from hardART. Tom says, "I want to make art, damn sexy art. Landscapes, cityscapes, and the female form are my base interests artistically, all the better melded into one image with cohesive composition. In my work, I hope you find true art that brightens your soul.”Link: https://fetlife.com/users/3165272Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, photo, photography, tom, hardART, nature, landscapes, female, form, nude, cityscape, composition#podcast #kinkycast #photo #photography #tom #hardART #nature #landscapes #female #form #nude #cityscape #composition

#397 - Miss Vye - Even More Poly Than You!MissVye, age 28, from Idaho is a long-time polyamorous switch. Growing up in a family that was openly sexual, non monogamous, and kinky it was no surprise that she followed suit. Since age 22, MissVye has practiced polyamory and been involved in local Fetlife and Facebook groups. In fact, she is a co-admin for a local polyamorous group for ages 18-35 on Facebook. Her relationship style is non-hierarchical with an emphasis on allowing partners their independence. Kink-wise, MissVye is a switch who varies from babygirl to Mommy, sadist to bottom, and so much more. She currently has two boyfriends and a girlfriend. In her spare time, MissVye likes to be social and host local events, play with her two cats and dog, and paint.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, miss, vye, poly, non monogamous, kinky, polyamory, polyamorous, group, independence, switch, babygirl, mommyKeywords: #podcast #kinkycast #miss #vye #poly #non monogamous #kinky #polyamory #polyamorous #group #independence #switch #babygirl #mommy

#398 - Are You New to the Dungeon? with TessListeners have written in to learn how best to approach getting into Kink and BDSM play. Tonight’s guest has been active in making new players feel at home with all their newfound kinks. She has been active in her local community and nationally with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Tess (pronouns she/her/hers) is an Arizona kinkster with a message of inclusion and advocacy. Tess has been on the Board of Directors for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (Your Rights. Your Privacy. Your Freedom. (ncsfreedom.org) for several years, and is currently the Chairperson. She has been in operations (officer) of the Arizona Power Exchange (https://arizonapowerexchange.org), a 501(c)7, for more than 10 years and is proud that APEX is a national leader in consent culture. She crafted the idea for Consent Month (https://ConsentMonth.com) and brought it to the NCSF, and has spearheaded this NCSF event since the inception with APEX as the sponsor. Tess has also served in various roles for national nonprofits. Tess enjoys educating, and helping people find the tools to participate in our communities in a way that honors their goals and their values. Tess is a business owner, entrepreneur, and professional coach who brings a practical approach to everything she does. Tess’ email link: tess@ncsfreedom.orgKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, Tess, dungeon, new, looking, connection, NCSF, APEX, Arizona, questions, answers, ask, learn, education#podcast #kinkycast #Tess #dungeon #new #looking #connection #NCSF #APEX #Arizona #questions #answers #ask #learn #education

#SE - Frolicon Vaccine Update with Pam and Dr. DanThis year Frolicon is serious about all attendees being vaccinated. So we asked our own Nurse Ratched to vaccinate “Franny” the Frolicon mascot. Pam and Dr. Dan lay out what this is all about and what you need to do to protect all your friends. We are expecting a big crowd and need everyone on board. Dr. Dan has enclosed some links to get the point across for you to and share with the hesitant.Dr. Dan’s links channel link https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbHJuw3-H83eVeCQ8_Tbqyg/videoslink to convincing others to get vaccinated https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AWhLMgb1nToAnd https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S0_ioXMOecI&t=2sCheck this one out - Understanding how the vaccine works https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HX6FNh6BKHEKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, corona, virus, vaccine, frolicon, update, pam, dr Dan, nurse, attend, group, Atlanta#podcast #kinkycast #corona #vaccine #virus #frolicon #update #pam #dr Dan #nurse #attend #group #Atlanta

#399 - Lew Rubens - Rope ArtistThis week we invited our old friend, Lew Rubens back to the cast to help out with some listener questions. Lew is an experienced rigger and suspension artist, He has a love and passion for bondage that shows in his work. Known mostly for his wild suspensions, Lew joined the public side of BDSM play in the spring of 2001 and started his first website, and started teaching his unique simple bondage style which he branded as “Lewbari” the other “bari”.A few years later Kink.com made him an offer he couldn't resist and he began running Waterbondage.com for them from winter 2006, through spring 2008. Later moving into a "Bondage Consultant" position for the prestigious company.On his own again now, Lew is concentrating on his “Lewbari Weekend.” Which is a weekend long bondage teaching seminar that takes people from beginning bondage through the basics of suspension in ONE WEEKEND!!When not teaching Lew concentrates his time on video production and his new product store: TheLewbariStore where he showcases his wild n crazy inventions along with many other bondage and BDSM related fun toys.Lew has presented his workshops and demos of his unique style at many BDSM and bondage industry events throughout the US, Canada, Austria, Jamaica, Germany, Spain, Australia & Rome.Links: Lew’s Video links https://lewrubens.com/x-new/new-index.php?user=lewrubens.comhttps://www.clips4sale.com/studio/43245/lew-rubens-alpha-productions Product store:https://www.thelewbaristore.com/main.scKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, lew, rubens, rigger, rope, bondage, Bari, lewbari, weekend, suspension, teaching, educational, art, artistic#podcast #kinkycast #lew #rubens #rigger #rope #bondage #Bari #lewbari #weekend #suspension #teaching #educational #art #artistic

#400 - Episode 400 - Top Shows (scroll down to play the episode)It’s taken almost 8 years to get to episode 400. A lot of water has gone under the bridge since February 2014. Tonight we gathered Miss Leigh, Miss-Tress, Dr. Vanilla Nurse Ratched, and Touchy to discuss shows they like and to give you a feel for the depth of what we offer. We have hosted internationally notable speakers, tons of educational shows, and the shows that our audience likes are the kinkster next door type and get their kink on where ever they can. We have compiled a listing of the top 100 plus some honorable mentions, for you to check out, with links to each show!KinkyCast Top 100 Shows Rank / Episode / Date 1 #236 - HousewifeNHeat BBC Cuckold Relationship in Middle America Aug 10, 20182 #260 - Rainbow Kitten - Hotwife Jan 25, 20193 #273 - BrutalMaster.com - 20 Years of Hell! Apr 26, 20194 #342 - Cum Whore Wife - Being a Hotwife Aug 14, 20205 #246 - For Fucks Sake - The Dirty Nasty Things I Do! Oct 19, 20186 #235 - Alicia Love - BloodIsLove2Me Aug 3, 20187 #232 - FireChild - Anal 101 Jul 13, 2018 8 #310 - Ray Ray - New Zealand Gang Bangs Jan 10, 20209 #294 - Abbey Wants It Sep 20, 201910 #143 - D20Domme & Lucky Puppy - Revisiting BDSM 101 Nov 4, 201611 #267 - BlaqLex on White Women Mar 15, 201912 #237 - Terra4U - Blow Jobs Are Blow Jobs, Except When They’re Not Aug 17, 201813 #338 - AsianHotWife4Fun Jul 17, 2020 14 #302 - Unicorn Husbandry - Philosopher & Sadist Nov 15, 201915 #254 - IsMostlyEvil - The Lazy Doms Guide to Domming Dec 14, 201816 #296 - Daemon Danes - Fetlebrity Oct 4, 201917 #160 - CumSlut4Abuse Feb 24, 201718 #314 - The Voice on Ownership Feb 7, 202019 #239 - Katt on Chastity Aug 31, 201820 #177 - Humiliation & Degradation with Autumn Orange & Vin Glass Jun 23, 201721 #305 - Scarletbell - 23 and Owning It! Dec 6, 201922 #257 - Mistress Tulsa - Expectations of a Female “D” Type Jan 4, 201923 #308 - What Is Kink? - Year End Discussion Group Dec 27, 201924 #303 - Deb - The Kink Shrink Nov 22, 201925 #287 - Ms_J on Fire Aug 9, 201926 #278 - Rachel Anne Kieran Psy.D - Kinky Science Makes the World Go Round! May 31, 201927 #274 - Miss Bettie - BDSM Introduction at Frolicon - Down the Rabbit Hole! May 3, 201928 #312 - Lew Rubens - Lew Tube Jan 24, 202029 #306 - Chris & Elisha - M/s Title Holders Dec 13, 201930 #280 - Lady Steele/Master Inferno/Sir Odin - Polyamory vs Polyfuckery Jun 14, 201931 #266 - Dr. Brad Sagarin - Why We Hunger for Hurt Mar 8, 201932 #288 - Mr Ace & Auddie - Age Play & Obstacles Aug 9, 201933 #262A - A Glimpse in to Pet Play with Rusty Pup Feb 8, 201934 #272 - The Body Positivity Panel Apr 18, 201935 #304 - Phoenix Soul Poly Envy & Jealousy Nov 29, 201936 #220 - Tonya Jone Miller - Phone Sex Apr 20, 201837 #309 - Novablaq - Kinky Racism Jan 2, 202038 #210 - FlutteryGirl - Size Matters Feb 9, 201839 #318 - Selina Minx - Edging for the Elder Statesman Mar 6, 202040 #352 - UtmostRestraint - Home Dungeon Oct 23, 202041 #140 - Kinky Abby - All About Anal Oct 8, 201642 #276 - 2MDs & A Microphone - Recorded Live at Frolicon 2019 May 17, 201943 #234 - Lady Steele - No Collar - No Problem Jul 27, 201844 #265 - aemok - Mental Health and Kink Mar 1, 201945 #271 - Mr. O - The Selection - (or Summer Camp for Masochists) Apr 12, 201946 #231A - Autumn Orange Double Feature - Edging Jul 6, 201847 #311 - Master Aaron - A Bit Too Famous Jan 17, 202048 #315 - WyMoBuckaroo - Kinky Cowboy Feb 14, 202049 #319 - Desperate Amateurs - Reality Mar 13, 202050 #261 - Five Year Anniversary Show Feb 1, 201951 #263 - Rough n Tough - Buried & Beaten Feb 15, 2019 52 #322 - Rainbow Kitten & Unicorn Husbandry Apr 8, 202053 #253 - Lady Steele - Consent Apps Dec 7, 201854 #269 - Frolicon April 18-21 2019 - PreShow with Pam Mar 29, 201955 #300 - KinkyCast Goes to San Francisco Nov 1, 201956 #298 - Find Me in the Sun - Life Changing Events Oct 18, 201957 #331 - Guy Baldwin - Hardy Haberman - Race Bannon May 29, 202058 #299 - Call Me Jenny! Oct 25, 201959#320 - Amy Taylor - Sex Work in Changing Times Mar 20, 202060 #321 - Being Social in a Time of Social Distancing Mar 26, 202061 #264 - Matt O’Toole - Gender Feb 22, 201962 #325 - USA Edition - KinkyCast Social Club - Being Social in a Time of Social Distancing Apr 23, 202063 #218 - KohanaKoa & Keiki - Daddy & Babygirl Apr 6, 201864 #283 - The Primal Show with Arc Jul 5, 201965#317 - Torch the Witch Feb 28, 202066 #245 - AngelKnightXXX - Pain Star Oct 12, 201867 #326 - Rachel Kramer Bussel - Best Bondage Erotica of the Year Volume 1 May 1, 202068 #248 - Rope Tiger Daddy - Pushing Limits Nov 2, 201869 #313 - 6 Year Anniversary Show with NookieNotes Jan 31, 202070 #289 - Pat Machate - NLAi Domestic Violence Project Aug 16, 201971 #275 - Rory, AKA Why Trust Tom Hanks - 3 Types of Lust May 10, 201972 #307 - Susan Wright - NCSF Year End Show Dec 20, 201973 #256 - KinkyCast Crew New Years Show 2018 Dec 28, 201874 #249 - Novectaner - Machine Extraordinaire Nov 9, 201875 #268 - Papa Bear - Chains Mar 22, 201976 #228 - KneelingWaiting Meat & Potato D/s Jun 15, 201877 #334 - Mistress M-20 on the 3 Emotions Jun 19, 202078 #336 - A Tangential Journey into a Mind Fuck! Jul 3, 202079 #258 - Page Turner-An Open Letter to a Conservative, Sex-Negative Mother, From Her Bi-Poly Daughter Jan 11, 2019 80 #132 - Terek on Cuckolding, BBC & Gang Bangs Aug 12, 201681 #316 - Frolicon April 30 to May 30, 2020 - PreShow with Chrissie Feb 21, 202082 #226 - Whips & Chains - Listener requested Dungeon implements tour Jun 1, 201883 #344 - SlaveAra - DIY Play Aug 28, 202084 #259 - Maggie LaFae - When I’m 64 Jan 18, 201985 #324 - Travis Wilson - Long Time Educator Apr 17, 202086 #330 - Sybil Holiday & Selina Minx May 22, 202087 #252 - Bella LaVey - Author “Fetish Girl” Nov 30, 201888 #293 - Milady_Jet - Age Has Nothing To Do With It Sep 13, 201989 #255 - Susan Wright - NCSF - In The News Dec 21, 201890 #341 - Linworth - Got Rope? Aug 7, 202091 #185 - Master Gym - BDSM 12 Step Programs Aug 18, 201792 #340 - Bruised Tonsils - The Ever Changing Scene Jul 31, 202093 #337 - Ferret, on Socializing with Assholes Jul 10, 202094 #323 - European Edition - Being Social in a Time of Social Distancing Apr 8, 202095 #332 - Uni_Kitty - Sweat the Small Stuff Jun 5, 202096 #339 - Power Exchange & Spirituality Book Review - with Raven Kaldera & Joshua Tenpenny97 #281 - Xanadu K - Courtesan & Guys, I Get It!Jun 21, 201998 #328 - Mental Health Double Header - AlphaKat - More Than Just A Fantasy (MTJAF) May 8, 202099 #292 - Sassy - Should I or Shouldn’t I Sep 6, 2019 100 #290 - Scarlett Ross - Jumping Off the Relationship Escalator Aug 23, 2019Honorable Mention#301 - Challenge at the Intersection of Race and Kink Nov 8, 2019#279 - Lilah Rose - Model - Performer - Activist Jun 7, 2019#277 - Christian V - Leatherman / Educator May 24, 2019#343 - Pet and Purr - A Journey into Body Image Aug 21, 2020#335 - Dear Woody - Listener eMail Jun 26, 2020#231B - Autumn Orange Double Feature - Humiliation & Degradation Jul 6, 2018#110 - Bryan Balldacious Mar 11, 2016Special Edition - Dr. Dan on the Coronavirus Mar 17, 2020#251 - The Wild Triad Show Nov 23, 2018#250 - The Ferrett - Dealing With Angry Comments Nov 16, 2018#197 - Nurse Ratched - Shit You Should NEVER Do Nov 10, 2017#346 - Master Cecil and Darcy - Event, What Event? Sep 11, 2020#295 - River City Girls of Leather Sep 26, 2019#227 - Seven on Sex at Work Jun 8, 2018Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, 400, top, 100, best, crew, links, Leigh, misstress, dr. Vanilla, nurse ratchet, touchy#podcast #kinkycast #400 #top #100 #best #crew #links #Leigh #misstress #dr. Vanilla #nurse ratchet #touchy

#401 - Floki & Fox - Needles 101I’m Floki, and my partner is Fox. Together we explore a range of sensory practices, with Fox having a particular penchant for pain play. Needle play is a kink I enjoy that meets her proclivities well. I first discovered an interest in Needle Play about five years ago. Since then, I’ve developed a range of techniques and practices that allow us to explore its more artistic forms. These include ways to create and realize designs in ways that minimize risk and maximize symmetry and balance. Recently we’ve started sharing those techniques and practices with others. This has involved showing people how I create templates and select materials. We also demonstrate how Fox prepares a clean, safe environment and takes care of the clean up afterwards. Needle Play brings us a great deal of joy and satisfaction, and we’ve enjoyed the opportunity to discuss it here on KinkyCast.Link: FlokiTheToyMaker Fet PageKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, folk, flokithetoymaker, fox, needles, 101, educational, class, skin, toping, sub#podcast #kinkycast #folk #flokithetoymaker #fox #needles #101 #educational #class #skin #toping #sub

#402 - Gloria Brame - Trail Blazing Sexuality AuthorThis week we have the return of Gloria Brame, a well-known author about service, relationships, and sexuality.BioDr. Gloria Brame found her way into the kink communities in 1984 and began her public activism in 1987 when she founded the first online BDSM support group in the Human Sexuality Forum of Compuserve. A lifestyle Femdom, Gloria remains at the forefront of BDSM education and activism. She was the lead author of Different Loving (1993) the first BDSM-positive book released by a major publisher. You can find all of her books on Amazon. Gloria has dedicated her life to helping people grow and evolve into who they really are by conquering shame, false teachings, and hopelessness. The first Ph.D. candidate in the U.S. to be granted a degree in BDSM/Fetish sex, she joined the American College of Sexologists and opened her sex therapy practice in 2002, focusing on kink, sexual performance, and self-growth. Gloria’s extensive independent research into sex science has earned her an international reputation as a thought-leader and visionary. She is one of the most frequently quoted sex experts in the world. She founded BED (a free BDSM history resource in 2018) and has served on the Boards of the Woodhull Freedom Foundation and The Leather Hall of Fame. Books in PrintAmazon Hammer https://amzn.to/3E4I0fYChampions of Pleasure https://amzn.to/3niog2wDifferent Loving Too https://amzn.to/3z1GGa6Different Loving https://amzn.to/2X3RMyCCome Hither https://amzn.to/2WY4lLjErotic Awakening (ebook) https://amzn.to/2VqPsAGThe Truth About Sex, Vol. 2 “Sex for Grown-Ups" https://amzn.to/2X1G4obThe Truth About Sex, Vol. 1 “Sex and the Self” https://amzn.to/3tstQ3rA Fetish for Men https://amzn.to/3hjimKNNaked Memory https://amzn.to/3neZdxl Link to Gloria https://GloriaBrame.comBED: http://bededucators.gloriabrame.com/ Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, gloria, brave, author, service, relationships, sexuality, femdom, BDSM, educator, different, loving, sexologist#podcast #kinkycast #gloria #brave #author #service #relationships #sexuality #femdom #BDSM #educator #different #loving #sexologist

#403 - Fisther_Pussycat - Female SoundingSounding has been an amazing adventure into all-new sensations for me. There aren't really words to describe it. I often call it "sensation overload". It has been more erotic and addictive than I ever thought possible. Sounding has also become a passion for me to do and share. Before I started, when I was researching how-to's and safety issues, I was really saddened and frustrated by the lack of information for women. Everything is geared towards men. It is like comparing peaches to bananas when sounding. So I started posting my journey on Fetlife to share all my experiences. The good ones and the mishaps. I have found there is a whole community of women curious and/or doing it. It has been such an added bonus to connect with them and share. I hope more women realize it is not just for men!….. Maybe someone will start making toys just for us, lol.. We have an entire other pleasure zone to explore and enjoy that most people never think about. My advice is to find others and ask questions. You won't find a guidebook like minds is your best resource. Happy Perving ~ FistherLink: Fisther_Pussycats’s Fet PageKeywords: podcast, KinkyCast, fister, pussycat, FisterPussycat, sounding, female, stretch, sensation, safety, woman#podcast #KinkyCast #fister #pussycat #FisterPussycat #sounding #female #stretch #sensation #safety #woman

#404 - Dr V. - The Madonna EffectHave you ever heard of the Madonna-Whore Complex? This dichotomy ultimately means that women have to be either pure and ‘virginal’ or sexual and forthcoming. Of course, it’s the guys that make the rules. We brought out favorite sociologists back to give some perspective on why women are treated in different ways if they are the wife/mother of their children or their mistress. We live in a patriarchal society and that varies on where you are in the world. Woody and Dr. V get down and dirty in this discussion on the two sides of a woman.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, dr. , dr. V, vanilla, social, socialist, madonna, effect, women, woman, whore#podcast #kinkycast #dr. #dr. #V #vanilla #social #socialist #madonna #effect #women #woman #whore

#405 - PromisePeach - Learning AnalI’m a 19-year-old college student who is pretty new to anal but definitely loves it. I started doing anal only a few months ago and it’s been an amazing change for me. The feeling is so much more intense than regular penetration, and anal is a lot more comfortable for me too. I’m currently continuing my anal progress and working up to bigger toys and am looking to explore new kinky interests!Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/12656405Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/promisepeachKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, anal, promise, peach, learning, college, promisepeach, new, onlyfans #podcast #kinkycast #anal #promise #peach #learning #college #promisepeach #new #onlyfans

#406 - 1 MD and a Microphone - Dr. Dan - Frolicon 2021Dr. Dan is back! Hey, did you know how funny the good doc is? You need to listen, laugh, and learn a few things that will make your life a bit longer. Dr. Dan mixes great information with humor to keep your attention and cover info the is not readily available to non-medical people, like most of us. This is not the “Covid show,” it will post in a few weeks. This show covers infectious issues from STI/STDs to fruit bats.Dr. Dan is an infectious disease physician primarily focused on the treatment and prevention of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections. Doc is committed to improving the quality of healthcare for LGBTQ+ and Poly/Kink populations. Taking his time with patients builds trust, creating an open, empathetic, and honest dialogue that is essential for delivering the best health care outcomes. He enjoys educating patients on multiple treatment and prevention options, encouraging questions, and making sure each patient has an easy-to-understand plan for their health. Link: Dan’s YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbHJuw3-H83eVeCQ8_Tbqyg/videosKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, doctor, dr., dan, infectious, disease, microphone, md, sti, std, covid, lgbtq+, Frolicon#podcast #kinkycast #doctor #dr. #dan #infectious #disease #microphone #md #sti, #std #covid #lgbtq+ #frolicon

#407 - RoundFoot - Pervertables 101 or How To Get Thrown Out Of Staples! Recorded at FroliconWith very few exceptions, everything that we use in the kinky world to help explore our interests started life with more a innocent purpose. This recording of a class offered at Frolicon 2021, will explore the kinky potential of many things you might not imagine could spice up your play! Expect to come away from this with an entirely new perspective on what defines the term ‘adult toy’. (Any subsequent urge to laugh manically in the aisles of a garden center are not the responsibility of Frolicon or it presenter, that includes KinkyCast.com!)Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, pervertables, pervert, toy, make, perspective, adult#podcast #kinkycast #pervertables #pervert #toy #make #perspective #adult

#408 - Dr. Dan - Takes on COVID!This week we have Dr. Dan, an actual infectious disease doctor, to lay out the details on COVID in the poly/kink communities. You will hear advice to minimize the risk of acquiring and spreading COVID. Topics include, how to convince the vaccine hesitant people in your life to get vaccinated, how to best test in case of an exposure, what to do if someone gets COVID, and a whole lot more!Link: Dan’s YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbHJuw3-H83eVeCQ8_Tbqyg/videosKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, dr, doctor, dan, infectious, disease, COVID, exposure, vaccine, spreading, poly, kink, community#podcast #kinkycast #dr #doctor #dan #infectious #disease #COVID #exposure #vaccine #spreading #poly #kink #community

#409 - Subby School - Recorded at Frolicon 2021This year at Frolicon, the Subby School hosted an event in the round to discuss what’s on the minds of fellow subbies. Branching from the normal Subby School topics and discussing being an S-type and some of the difficulties in an open forum in which those on the right side of the slash; aka: sub, slave, bottom; can engage in knowledge sharing and discussion.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, sub, sub, school, slave, bottom, forum, discussion, knowledge#podcast #kinkycast #sub #sub #school #slave #bottom #forum #discussion #knowledge

#410 - Sir Crow - Navigating Pickup Play - Recorded at Frolicon 2021So you really want to try BDSM stuff out but don’t have someone to do it with huh? Enter the wonderful world or Pickup Play! In this case, we will go over how to ask that cute stranger to play, what to include in your negotiations before playing, inclusive and exclusive negotiations and informed consent, the Do’s and Don’ts of pickup play, and a whole lot more! There was a Q&A session at the end of the class to answer any questions that the audience had.Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, pick, pickup, play, negotiations, negotiating, consent, Q&A, stranger, inclusive, exclusive#podcast #kinkycast #pick #pickup #play #negotiations #negotiating #consent #Q&A #stranger #inclusive #exclusive

#411 - Playing Halos & Sins on your PhoneFor the nights when you want to spice things up, but can’t decide what to play, there’s a new app that can take the reins and help you lose control. Unleash your inner succubus (or angel) with Halos and Sins — the best game for couples to play together. New and experienced couples alike can let go and let their freak flags fly with Halos and Sins calling the shots. Choose your level of experience and spin the wheel to thrill or torment your partner all night long. In this episode, Halos and Sins creator Jim talks about the inspiration behind the app, how you can get the most out of using it, and why he’s on a mission to help everyone enjoy better, more fulfilling sex.Download it today: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.courageousgames.halosandsinsKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, halos, sins, game, android, Jim, phone, succubus, angel, devil, evil, good, bad, play#podcast #kinkycast #halos #sins #game #android #Jim #phone #succubus #angel #devil #evil #good #bad #play

#412 - Zane A Male StripperZane has made a living as a male stripper for over ten years making good money and not having to work a day job just being himself and doing what he loves - performing. He's currently in Hawaii but has performed the majority of his career in the Nashville TN and surrounding areas. He's full of stories and fun times and wisdom gained from years doing things most people know nothing about, and we all can learn from perspectives like his and his fascinating story. Zane can be reached by messaging his FetLife account at the link below, and is available for networking, performance and collaboration!Fet Link: https://fetlife.com/users/4562381Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, male, stripper, Tennessee, Nashville, Hawaii, performer, workout, club, zane#podcast #kinkycast #male #stripper #Tennessee #Nashville #Hawaii #performer #workout #Club #Zane

#413 - NCSF Christmas ShowHo-Ho-Ho! It’s that time of year when we recap all the things that have affected our sexual freedom. The National Coalition of Sexual Freedom founder, Susan Wright is back for our Christmas tradition. What did you miss this year? There is a bunch of things that could enter into our lives as kinksters. Here are a few… Stealthing, Model Penal Code update, Consent Survey, New Resources, Consent Policy Model for Groups, Diversity Inclusion, Metamour Day, and the Coalition Partner Meeting! All this and an organization that protects your interests and lobbies for governmental change. NCSF is one of the most important allies for people in the alt-sex world.Link: NCSFreedom.orgKeywords: podcast, kinkycast, ncsf, National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, Susan Wright, Christmas, org, consent, stealthing, poly, law, penal, code, metamour#podcast #kinkycast #ncsf #National Coalition for Sexual Freedom #Susan Wright# #Christmas #org #consent #stealthing #poly #law #penal #code #metamour

#414 - KinkyCast New Years Show 2021As we put another year into the record books, we are hoping for a better 2022. This year we saw new topics like “Soaking”, mainstream scat play, relationship challenges, poly and pandemics. I’m thinking about a full body condom at this point! Our cast of four women and Woody venture down paths that sometimes get too close to home. Join Nurse Ratched, Leigh, Dr. Vanilla, and MissTress as we talk about things close to us and some so far away, we can’t believe it’s a thing! Sit back and let this stimulating conversation open your mind to stuff going on within the kinky/alt-sex, world. Your emails and comments are always appreciated (leave comments on our Fet page).Keywords: podcast, kinkycast, year, end, 2021, show, poly, relationship, soaking, scat, 50 shades, ratched, nurse, Leigh, dr. Vanilla, miss-tress#podcast #kinkycast #year #end #2021 #show #poly #relationship #soaking #scat #50 shades #ratched #nurse #Leigh #dr. #Vanilla #miss-tress


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