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Sit a bunch of people around a microphone and the conversation can go in any direction.  In the past it was everything you could not talk about at the dining room table.  This one is different.  We dig a bit deeper into what we think, is kink and what makes us kinky.  Questions like: When did you first feel you were kinky?  How old were you when it occurred?  What was the situation?  We covered if any of the panel members were sexually violated by a family member.  We got into consent, giving it and revoking it.  For the next hour, sit back and follow our crew on a journey through kinky discovery.

This week’s guest is, Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Each year at this time Susan joins us to revisit the year that was.  This year we had some impressive improvements in the number of reported sexual assaults.  
NCSF is the only group fighting for the rights of the BDSM-leather-fetish communities. NCSF helps people who are discriminated against because of their sexuality — when they’re fired from their jobs or arrested for sexual assault for having kinky sex. NCSF also helps groups and businesses when they’re being persecuted by the media or local authorities. NCSF fought successfully to help convince the American Psychiatric Association that kink is not a mental illness, and NCSF is filing Amicus Briefs in military and civilian appeals court to hold prosecutors to the promise in Lawrence v. Texas that moral judgments can’t be a basis for criminalizing consensual sex. Come find out more about what NCSF does for the leather community!

Chris and Elisha have celebrated more than a decade together as a polyamorous couple in a power exchange dynamic. They live in a 24/7, negotiated authority transfer dynamic and are the Arizona Master/slave 2018 titleholders. They believe continued growth is important to a successful long-term relationship and to that end are continually pushing their own, and each other’s, boundaries. They are both graduate students looking at various sex positive topics. Chris is looking at perceptions of hierarchy and power exchange in long term polyamorous relationships. He is recently divorced from a 23 year marriage and has two teenage boys. Elisha is looking at the intersection of the perceived benefits of yoga and BDSM participation, for example reduced anxiety and depression, connection to the self, and improved body image. She has been married 19 years. Her husband spent the last few years in Florida by the beach, but recently moved back to be closer. She’ll miss the easy vacation spot, but is happy to have him home. To extend their educational and academic outreach online they created TrulyBeloved.com where they offer adult coloring books, created by local artists, to help fund their conference presentation travel.
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I would describe myself as a bubbly, sweet “girl next door” type with a secret kinky taste. The people in my life would never expect me to have such a freaky side because of how innocent I appear to be when I’m out in public. When I’m not working, you can typically find me hanging out with my cat, Ellie, playing volleyball or doing anything spontaneous. I’m always down for a fun adventure whether it’s sexual or not. :) I make a good FWB because I honestly love socializing, and making people smile. Behind closed doors I like the thought of all different types of sex. I enjoy anything from sensual soft kisses, to non-consensual role playing. My profile says I’m a switch but that only applies to women. I absolutely love dominating a beautiful woman and watching her get fucked. Her pleasure ultimately is mine, and I want it to be all about satisfying her desires. I’ve found that I typically enjoy threesomes the most, with some light bondage. Ultimately I am up for exploring all sorts of kinks, and maybe make some friends along the way.

-PhoenixSoul- is relatively new to the world of BDSM, but in the short time she's been on the scene has discovered a deep love of the lifestyle's ability to fuel her growth addiction. A lifelong commitment to understanding her deeper motivations behind her emotions and behaviors has fueled many of PhoenixSoul's writings. In this episode, she chats with Woody about her discovery of poly relationships, the difference between jealousy and envy and her writing group which dove into the "7 Deadly Sins" for October, which led to a series of hypothetical conversations with her mom. Phoenix' approach to BDSM (and life in general) is "look at what hurts, and why" to deepen self-awareness and growth.

Next week - The first show of 2020!

309 - NovaBlaq - People of Color in Todays Kinky World

Coming Feb 1 is our 6th year anniversary show with Touchy and Nookie!  Fun stuff.

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